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Quote by Freckledbird
Firelizard,
Here here. Thanks for that. kiss
You guys... cut the lady some slack!
I'm sorry, but she obviously said that comment as a flippant statement - note the included 'LOL' smilie fgs. I don't like this clickie 'not a regular forum user' behaviour either, personally. Does it really matter if someone posts every day or once in a while...or if someone has been using the forums for a year, or a newbie? We all have to start somewhere... and the forums aren't a hierarchy, surely?
Just my two pence. WHB :rose:

Who said anything about a click? Or a hierarchy? I just wonder how someone can make a statement like that when they admit that they rarely use the forum? How would they possibly be able to say that things like that happen? Which is the flippant remark? The one with a lol? Yeah, OK.
And there are people who use the chatroom who think that forum users know sod all too rolleyes
Well frecklebird... I had to laugh.. Ive been posting on the forums for about a year now.. Although not on everything I read there and also under another user name which I changed back in feb this year which wont now appear anywhere on here due to a personal reason.
The 'inexperience' comment came from the fact I'd never tried to organise a social before or ask for anyone opinion, maybe the wording wasn't to your & a few others liking but theres nothing I can do about that. And it was because the chat went down that gave me time to scan the forums and discover Chaotic_spirits suggestion(in this topic forum)of a singles night. I personaly have not seen a suggestion before but that doesn't mean I believe its a unique one.
The highlighted bit was an obvious comment re all the rather unnessasary comments in the other forums tryin to twist its meaning. I see they've continued in here. These are not opinions, these are comments that are beginning to become a little personal. And whislt Ive been very careful not to make personal derogatory comments about individuals I DONT KNOW. It seems others have taken it upon themselves to do anything that degrade my attempts in what seems like an attempt to shout the loudest & belittle people.
How long do we have to keep travelling this cycle when everyone knows some opinions are - We dont like it, you shouldn't do it, we feel discriminated against, etc etc. And more say yes we love the idea, cant wait to attend, and even 'thankyou'...
In other words.. you & those who agree with you have your veiws - fine.. but we have ours and the response has been majority positive. Its arranged anyway, so end of!
Chaos...
I thought it was a GREAT idea from you, well done. I really dont mind taking the flack for taking action on it, good or bad bolt rotflmao
And to inform you again... This has been already organised so its already 'got on with' and I will be posting details as soon as Im happy with all the arrangements & NOT before.
The Minx xx'
P.S.
Thankyou Wildhoneybee & Firelizard xxxxxx
so when you say single what exactly do you mean... rolleyes
well when i say single i mean im not in any relationship.. at the momement i dont have any fuck buddys or any longterm relationships.. sso..... im single.. but some single people on here arnt single... there married.. or they play alone.. if you cant be honest on a swinging site.. where can you be!!
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx
Quote by FurbyHug
well when i say single i mean im not in any relationship.. at the momement i dont have any fuck buddys or any longterm relationships.. sso..... im single.. but some single people on here arnt single... there married.. or they play alone.. if you cant be honest on a swinging site.. where can you be!!
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx

There must be something wrong with the guys in here. No offers at all???
Hard to believe hun kiss
Quote by bbw_lover
well when i say single i mean im not in any relationship.. at the momement i dont have any fuck buddys or any longterm relationships.. sso..... im single.. but some single people on here arnt single... there married.. or they play alone.. if you cant be honest on a swinging site.. where can you be!!
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx

There must be something wrong with the guys in here. No offers at all???
Hard to believe hun kiss
Hi BBW lover smile
Its not a lack of offer I'd say, its the lack of being able to meet a similar in a social enviroment before you decide if you want to take it further. Like most I can only play if Im attracted and if you meet and your not, how do you tell the other without feeling awful about hurting their feelings? Because I care about that side too, so the social idea is the best 'relaxed' way of donig this we think.
Keep watching the LMU forum-- Not long now wink
FurbyHug wrote:
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx
:thumbup: :thumbup:
Thankyou :kiss:
Quote by Ms_minxie
well when i say single i mean im not in any relationship.. at the momement i dont have any fuck buddys or any longterm relationships.. sso..... im single.. but some single people on here arnt single... there married.. or they play alone.. if you cant be honest on a swinging site.. where can you be!!
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx

There must be something wrong with the guys in here. No offers at all???
Hard to believe hun kiss
Hi BBW lover smile
Its not a lack of offer I'd say, its the lack of being able to meet a similar in a social enviroment before you decide if you want to take it further. Like most I can only play if Im attracted and if you meet and your not, how do you tell the other without feeling awful about hurting their feelings? Because I care about that side too, so the social idea is the best 'relaxed' way of donig this we think.
Keep watching the LMU forum-- Not long now wink
FurbyHug wrote:
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx
:thumbup: :thumbup:
Thankyou :kiss:

Fair point hun.
Makes no difference to me cos I'm usually the guy sitting in the corner with a bag over my head.
rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Quote by bbw_lover
Fair point hun.
Makes no difference to me cos I'm usually the guy sitting in the corner with a bag over my head.
rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao:

I've often wondered who that was.
H.x
Quote by H-x

Fair point hun.
Makes no difference to me cos I'm usually the guy sitting in the corner with a bag over my head.
rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao:

I've often wondered who that was.
H.x
Ooops! Just gave away my disguise.
:shock:
Quote by bbw_lover
well when i say single i mean im not in any relationship.. at the momement i dont have any fuck buddys or any longterm relationships.. sso..... im single.. but some single people on here arnt single... there married.. or they play alone.. if you cant be honest on a swinging site.. where can you be!!
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx

There must be something wrong with the guys in here. No offers at all???
Hard to believe hun kiss
Hi BBW lover smile
Its not a lack of offer I'd say, its the lack of being able to meet a similar in a social enviroment before you decide if you want to take it further. Like most I can only play if Im attracted and if you meet and your not, how do you tell the other without feeling awful about hurting their feelings? Because I care about that side too, so the social idea is the best 'relaxed' way of donig this we think.
Keep watching the LMU forum-- Not long now wink
FurbyHug wrote:
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx
:thumbup: :thumbup:
Thankyou :kiss:

Fair point hun.
Makes no difference to me cos I'm usually the guy sitting in the corner with a bag over my head.
rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Perhaps if you removed the bag.............
Quote by helnheaven
well when i say single i mean im not in any relationship.. at the momement i dont have any fuck buddys or any longterm relationships.. sso..... im single.. but some single people on here arnt single... there married.. or they play alone.. if you cant be honest on a swinging site.. where can you be!!
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx

There must be something wrong with the guys in here. No offers at all???
Hard to believe hun kiss
Hi BBW lover smile
Its not a lack of offer I'd say, its the lack of being able to meet a similar in a social enviroment before you decide if you want to take it further. Like most I can only play if Im attracted and if you meet and your not, how do you tell the other without feeling awful about hurting their feelings? Because I care about that side too, so the social idea is the best 'relaxed' way of donig this we think.
Keep watching the LMU forum-- Not long now wink
FurbyHug wrote:
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx
:thumbup: :thumbup:
Thankyou :kiss:

Fair point hun.
Makes no difference to me cos I'm usually the guy sitting in the corner with a bag over my head.
rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Perhaps if you removed the bag.............
:shock: :shock: :shock:
That would just scare people off!!!
hahahah bbw you funny..... mwah mwah kisses to everyone.. as long as you dont all mind i got razor blade throat.. xxx
Quote by bbw_lover
well when i say single i mean im not in any relationship.. at the momement i dont have any fuck buddys or any longterm relationships.. sso..... im single.. but some single people on here arnt single... there married.. or they play alone.. if you cant be honest on a swinging site.. where can you be!!
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx

There must be something wrong with the guys in here. No offers at all???
Hard to believe hun kiss
Hi BBW lover smile
Its not a lack of offer I'd say, its the lack of being able to meet a similar in a social enviroment before you decide if you want to take it further. Like most I can only play if Im attracted and if you meet and your not, how do you tell the other without feeling awful about hurting their feelings? Because I care about that side too, so the social idea is the best 'relaxed' way of donig this we think.
Keep watching the LMU forum-- Not long now wink
FurbyHug wrote:
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx
:thumbup: :thumbup:
Thankyou :kiss:

Fair point hun.
Makes no difference to me cos I'm usually the guy sitting in the corner with a bag over my head.
rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Perhaps if you removed the bag.............
:shock: :shock: :shock:
That would just scare people off!!!
Im sure it wouldnt anyway, I luvs you redface lol
an in answer to your question ..... yes i get offers... but none of substance..
"oooo furby you loook good enough to eat bend over let me taste you "
or...
" miss furby will you spank me!"
or
"im looking to experience a bigger older woman an saw you "... < that one i didnt reply to....
hahah so.... yeah i get offers.. but none i would want.. :-(
Quote by FurbyHug
an in answer to your question ..... yes i get offers... but none of substance..
"oooo furby you loook good enough to eat bend over let me taste you "
or...
" miss furby will you spank me!"
or
"im looking to experience a bigger older woman an saw you "... < that one i didnt reply to....
hahah so.... yeah i get offers.. but none i would want.. :-(

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Dont you just luv em lol
Quote by FurbyHug
an in answer to your question ..... yes i get offers... but none of substance..
"oooo furby you loook good enough to eat bend over let me taste you "
or...
" miss furby will you spank me!"
or
"im looking to experience a bigger older woman an saw you "... < that one i didnt reply to....
hahah so.... yeah i get offers.. but none i would want.. :-(

A PM would have sufficed lol
Quote by FurbyHug
hahahah bbw you funny..... mwah mwah kisses to everyone.. as long as you dont all mind i got razor blade throat.. xxx

Poor Furby sad
I'll kiss it better for you kiss:kiss::kiss:
Quote by helnheaven
well when i say single i mean im not in any relationship.. at the momement i dont have any fuck buddys or any longterm relationships.. sso..... im single.. but some single people on here arnt single... there married.. or they play alone.. if you cant be honest on a swinging site.. where can you be!!
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx

There must be something wrong with the guys in here. No offers at all???
Hard to believe hun kiss
Hi BBW lover smile
Its not a lack of offer I'd say, its the lack of being able to meet a similar in a social enviroment before you decide if you want to take it further. Like most I can only play if Im attracted and if you meet and your not, how do you tell the other without feeling awful about hurting their feelings? Because I care about that side too, so the social idea is the best 'relaxed' way of donig this we think.
Keep watching the LMU forum-- Not long now wink
FurbyHug wrote:
lol.. and miss minx i think you handled yourself with grace an finnese under the strain you were taking.. well done. xx
:thumbup: :thumbup:
Thankyou :kiss:

Fair point hun.
Makes no difference to me cos I'm usually the guy sitting in the corner with a bag over my head.
rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Perhaps if you removed the bag.............
:shock: :shock: :shock:
That would just scare people off!!!
Im sure it wouldnt anyway, I luvs you redface lol
You're so kind hunnie surprisedops:
luvs you too :kiss:
Quote by FurbyHug
an in answer to your question ..... yes i get offers... but none of substance..
"oooo furby you loook good enough to eat bend over let me taste you "
or...
" miss furby will you spank me!"
or
"im looking to experience a bigger older woman an saw you "... < that one i didnt reply to....
hahah so.... yeah i get offers.. but none i would want.. :-(

Yeah I see your problem.
How can you resist such fine male specimen? rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Pretty pathetic really, gives all males a bad name.
Mmmmmmmm? That sounded a bit gay didn't it … just off to scratch my ass, belch, and drink some lager.
bolt
Quote by Chaotic_Spirit
Maybe we should start an SH singles night...
Just a thought! cool

Well,,,I have posted this event as its all arranged now. The response has been great from the fella's but not so great from the ladies..
So ladies..(single ones lol ) Do you fancy having this social meet?... Please read LMU forum at 'Singles Social - East Mids' if you do.
The Minx :rascal: xx
Ms Minx........ ive sent an s.o.s to all my friends..... cos im shit... really really shit at picking men.. i get it soooooooo wrong all the time.. the ones i like dont like me.. the ones i fancy just fancy me.. and the ones i dont like.. talk me round! im gonna go on jeremy kyle we had a drunken discussion at 4am this morning in a lock in that if the munters an lets be honest greasy rank mingers that go on that show (not all just some) can have men fighting over them and NOT be single..... THEN WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME.......
so me an a mate have decided to go on jeremmy kyle and ask the audience!!!! lol....
anyway..... i need anuuffer drink.. more teeeeeeeeee vicar!!!!
lol...
furby x :twisted:
Hi Furby :wave2:
Me thinks you & I are very similar... I too seem to like the ones who dont like me and dont like the ones who do like me lol
Lets hope the social goes ahead to have a chance to meet n chat to some nice guys. We'll never be desperate enough to make do but we live in hope :lickface:
One day somebody will fit the empty slot, hopefully before Im a pensioner! :grin:
The Minx :rascal: xx