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just a foot note rather pissed so speaks mind as usual, we are all on this site as genuine swingers and to prove that is very difficult, so please tell me why ads we have we are here for the chat ? not being thick here but this is a swing site
Sure its a swinging site but there are people here that like the fact that they can be with people that are very open minded.... As a genuine swinger I love chatting to people that have open minds and dont judge us like the media do.... biggrin
andynshell? there are lots of 'genuine swingers' on this site, trust me! ;)
there are also lots of people who haven't taken the plunge yet, who use the site to learn a bit more about swinging, and see if they can actually do it? there's also lots of people who have decided, now that they have learnt a bit more about the whole thing, that it ain't for them, but they stick around cos they love the site, the community, and the friends they have made here, regardless.
'genuine swingers' can be here just for 'the chat' you know, depending on where they're at. they might have a very active swinging lifestyle, that happens in the real world, doesn't revolve around any particular website, and isn't reliant on't'interweb? they might equally well be here cos they just like talking bollox and chatting shit with their mates? ;)
HTH?
neil x x x ;)
Will some please define 'genuine swingers'?
rolleyes dunno
Quote by helnheaven
Will some please define 'genuine swingers'?
rolleyes dunno

nope! might as well try to bail the atlantic ocean out with a leaky sieve as try to define that particular little phrase, eh?! :P
;)
neil x x x ;)
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andynshell? there are lots of 'genuine swingers' on this site, trust me! ;)
there are also lots of people who haven't taken the plunge yet, who use the site to learn a bit more about swinging, and see if they can actually do it? there's also lots of people who have decided, now that they have learnt a bit more about the whole thing, that it ain't for them, but they stick around cos they love the site, the community, and the friends they have made here, regardless.
'genuine swingers' can be here just for 'the chat' you know, depending on where they're at. they might have a very active swinging lifestyle, that happens in the real world, doesn't revolve around any particular website, and isn't reliant on't'interweb? they might equally well be here cos they just like talking bollox and chatting shit with their mates? ;)
HTH?
neil x x x ;)

:thumbup:
there's also a minority group who fib on their profile cos they get so sick to fuckin death of being pestered by unsuitable candidates that they's rather say "not looking". cool
Many people who have met in the past may just be having 'time out' for a while for personal reasons but dont want to loose touch with friends so still use the chat rooms to chat (silly idea i know rolleyes) to me swinging is not just about sex if i wanted a easy lay i'd nip down the local and pick up a drunk lol
Quote by Shireen
Sure its a swinging site but there are people here that like the fact that they can be with people that are very open minded...

Shurrup Shireen! mad
I totally agree with andynshell lol
I don't want anyone with an open mind...
just open legs make me happy :bounce:
How's anybody sposed to get a leg ova with peeps on this site that want Landscaper/Designersbludding info onGadgets :shock:
Now we someone who has completely lost the swinging plot by asking how to get rid of moles!!
Youneed a gardening website sweetheart! This is a swinging site ffs! :doh:
But who gives a flying fluck about Dumbass inventions when Mr. Stiffy needs a good seeing too!
& even then we have some Arfa Daley/Trotter type who needs a new van
As a single guy you don't know how desperate I am for a straight forward shag! :cry:
redface Sorry for the rant....
I have been diagnosed by a top elephant doctor in Harley Street that I have Man-flu
The drugs have kicked in surprisedops:
:shock: Or is that an eminent doctor? dunno
Im in the chatrooms daily. I speak to many people. If I arranged a meet with every person that liked the look of me/or think they like the look of me(not being boastful at all here) id be shagging 24/7.
Louise xx
Rpm, I think you may be fibbing a little bit confused Theres loads of lovely ladies wanting a shag from you. Your problem! Tom Tom innocent :giggle:
Quote by x-andynshell-x
...so please tell me why ads we have we are here for the chat ?

Ssshhhhh - you're not meant to ask that question. It is a restriction put on some people when they join - trust me it is better that way. Now stop asking questions and go get a shag.
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If I arranged a meet with every person that liked the look of me/or think they like the look of me(not being boastful at all here) id be shagging 24/7.

And you would have had your 3some by now :grin: bolt
Quote by PoloLady
If I arranged a meet with every person that liked the look of me/or think they like the look of me(not being boastful at all here) id be shagging 24/7.

And you would have had your 3some by now :grin: bolt
Disclaimer
Louise will be in the chatroom today, trying to find some guys for a threesome.
First cum, first served :giggle:
louise xx
joking, ive already found them. I think lol
Louise xx
Quote by louise_and_joe
If I arranged a meet with every person that liked the look of me/or think they like the look of me(not being boastful at all here) id be shagging 24/7.

And you would have had your 3some by now :grin: bolt
Disclaimer
Louise will be in the chatroom today, trying to find some guys for a threesome.

The unfortunate thing is... a significant number of guys in the chatrooms are there to tug one off. They get off on watching cams, checking photos on profiles, typing one handed and talking about what they would love to do to you. If you actually say "OK - when?" don't be surprised if they bolt, hide, try and ignore that question, tell you their work commitments are too demanding (though they seem to find time every evening to get online and frisk the foreskin), tell you it is complicated (ie the wife is in bed)and a whole load of other bollocks.
The good news is - there are so many guys on there, even with all the wankers, a good selection remains.
biggrin
Quote by PoloLady
The good news is - there are so many guys on there, even with all the wankers, a good selection remains.
biggrin

I'll drink to that :thumbup:
louise xx
we often take breaks out from 2playing" but we still want to keep in touch with the people we know here.
i would guess there are a lot of people in a similar situation as that.
also, i believe that when you start up a new account now, you HAVE to put an add to omplete the regristration .
I'm amazed at how many couples have said about single guys not turning up and are not genuine, and yet as a single guy when I have approached couples they never reply.
I have to agree with RPM a damn good shag would'nt go a miss even if he did call me arfer daley :giggle:
I wasn't aware I had to shag people just to be a member of a swinging site rolleyes
I think I've been going wrong for a very long time :lol2:
Quote by Ukwineman
I'm amazed at how many couples have said about single guys not turning up and are not genuine, and yet as a single guy when I have approached couples they never reply.
I have to agree with RPM a damn good shag would'nt go a miss even if he did call me arfer daley :giggle:

I agree, and I feel sorry for some of the genuine men, not all men are desperate for a shag and even if they are, as long as they aren't pests then so what? dunno - I've been told there are some women who are themselves desperate for a shag. Men sometimes get the raw deal
I defy any woman to say they don't get desperate for a shag now and then! lol
Quote by jaymar
I defy any woman to say they don't get desperate for a shag now and then! lol

wave
innocent
louise xx
Quote by louise_and_joe

I defy any woman to say they don't get desperate for a shag now and then! lol

wave
innocent
louise xx
:lol: welcome to my club... I get it too! rotflmao
I'm waiting for my PM innocent
Quote by jaymar
I'm amazed at how many couples have said about single guys not turning up and are not genuine, and yet as a single guy when I have approached couples they never reply.
I have to agree with RPM a damn good shag would'nt go a miss even if he did call me arfer daley :giggle:

I agree, and I feel sorry for some of the genuine men, not all men are desperate for a shag and even if they are, as long as they aren't pests then so what? dunno - I've been told there are some women who are themselves desperate for a shag. Men sometimes get the raw deal
I defy any woman to say they don't get desperate for a shag now and then! lol
maybe they cant get through all the replies due to all the non-genuine ones clogging their inboxes up? confused
Quote by jaymar
I defy any woman to say they don't get desperate for a shag now and then! lol

wave
Unless:
a - you look like the back end of an old bus which has been in a motorway crash.
b - you live at the local tip and don't know the meaning of soap.
c - don't look, don't chat, don't go clubs
There is no real reason any woman on here should get to the state of being desperate for a shag.
Quote by PoloLady

I defy any woman to say they don't get desperate for a shag now and then! lol

wave
Unless:
a - you look like the back end of an old bus which has been in a motorway crash.
b - you live at the local tip and don't know the meaning of soap.
c - don't look, don't chat, don't go clubs
There is no real reason any woman on here should get to the state of being desperate for a shag.
so its just us single guys that have that problem then :lol:
Quote by Ukwineman

I defy any woman to say they don't get desperate for a shag now and then! lol

wave
Unless:
a - you look like the back end of an old bus which has been in a motorway crash.
b - you live at the local tip and don't know the meaning of soap.
c - don't look, don't chat, don't go clubs
There is no real reason any woman on here should get to the state of being desperate for a shag.
so its just us single guys that have that problem then :lol:
No - there is just a slightly different abc for the guys wink
Quote by PoloLady

I defy any woman to say they don't get desperate for a shag now and then! lol

wave
Unless:
a - you look like the back end of an old bus which has been in a motorway crash.
b - you live at the local tip and don't know the meaning of soap.
c - don't look, don't chat, don't go clubs
There is no real reason any woman on here should get to the state of being desperate for a shag.
:lol: I get desperate for one once every 3 weeks, the week that I cannot!
However, I do concur it is far easier for a woman to get one than it is a man, not fair I know.
Quote by Ukwineman
I'm waiting for my PM innocent

whip i'm back... lol
Quote by PoloLady
The good news is - there are so many guys on there, even with all the wankers, a good selection remains.
biggrin

I've got one of those ( ie. one of the good ones ) but I come as part of the deal :twisted: