This all sounds like a load of bollox to me...who cares?
Reese, all i can say is well done for your restraint despite the provocation.
Unfortunatly, i would not have remained so calm and would have flown off the handle if it had been me, which from experience would have no doubt landed me in trouble.
You did the right thing in not reacting, it couldn't have been easy though.
The guy seems a complete tosser, hopefully what comes around, goes around.
Vix, i'm sure you feel like jacking your job in, but surely it's best not to give him the satisfaction.
i think any way you answered his question he would of took it the wrong way , i think he was looking to pick a fight , i have never met both of you 2,but i asume he was looking to bully some one ,people like that need a sharp shock ,personally i would of seen him when he was sober and well put it this way i think his sick record at work would have went right down hill ,vix go back to work and you can hold your head up high as you have done nothing wrong pet, when he woke up i hope was ashamed of his self,and i hope your co workers see this man for what he really is A BIG BULLY
now the devil in me has control of my typing, sorry...............
.....so Reese have you shagged his missus and was she any good??????
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I read this earlier - and was so furious I did not know what to say.
But after the completly mind numbingly stupid response by Airplane, I do.
Reese, the guy was clearly an arsehole, and you appear to have handled a shitty situation in the best way possible.
We all fear this happening to us, and we all care about it.
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Kat
Right – I’ve been thinking about this and have tried to put myself in Reeces position.
I think I would have been proud of myself for not retaliating, I’d be thinking – thank god I didn’t do anything stupid and yes I kept my dignity. I would also be thinking right now that my friends on here have commended me and yes that feels good.
However, I would also be thinking, and I know its wrong but…………………………………………..
I WANT TO SMACK THE BASTARD!!!!
HES SAT THERE AT HOME TONIGHT NOT GIVING A SHIT ABOUT THE ANXIETY HE HAS CAUSED AND I REALLY WANT TO SMACK HIM!!!!
Now, the logistics of smacking him probably make it difficult – however revenge is a dish best served cold –
How could he satisfy (if he has it) the feeling of needing vengeance???
Reese, I think you did brilliant by not retaliating, shame you not the president of the US!!
Vix , I am so glad you complained to your supeiour, please dont let them drop it or sweep it under an office carpet. If this guy hadnt have had a go at you he would have bullied someone else for something else. Keep on at them about him, you meay even feel too ill to go to work for the next week or so, due to the stress it has caused you!!
If swinging is a religion this is religious bigotry at its worst!!
Really sorry to hear about that Reese & Vix....
Idiots like that deserve a good kicking to be honest. we have one used to be like that here til someone gave him a panning. Bullies are scum, and are usually pretty insecure with it. One good sorting usually changes their outlook on life.
Rick
Sorry to hear this vix and reese.
You are more of a man than i am for handling the situation the way u did.
My mother always taught me to stand up for myself no matter what.
Good on you.
Would just like to addmy thoughts to this thread.
Reese I think the way you have handled this ridiculous little man deserves a hugh pat on the back. For someone to be so small minded and treat you in this manner is utterly sick.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Personally I (and mr pink) dont care who knows we are swingers. We dont go out and physically tell everyone, but if we are asked then we dont deny it. From what you have said Reese you where of the same opinion and this incident now may have changed that opinion.
Vix I take my hat off to you, this is bound to get around at work, people will have seen this incident take place and people talk. The feeling that you want to resign is totally understandable, but surely that would be letting that twat win?
Anyway from what I know about you two, you are a both very nice and didnt deserve what happened. Total respect for you. xxxxxxx
I wont even comment about what airplane said its not worth it. Pathetic.
Why is it that straight people aren't considered to be a 'threat' but admit that you are gay/lesbian/bi then all of a sudden you are a rampant beast who wants to screw everyone, especially other peoples partners?!?! I don't get it 
but hey i see what you lot mean................
