Too Shy, shy?!?

14 Nov 2007

The farting lasses thread got me to thinking, is there anything you would never let your partner, see you doing, or any situation that you would feel mortified if they caught you in the act of??
In our house, privacy is not really much of an issue, we walk round naked in front of our 4 kids, they use the bathroom when me or Mr B are in the bath/shower and vice versa, and for some reason, whenever Mr B runs himself a bath, it makes me need a number 2 (lol), so I will chat to him while hes in the bath, as Im doing my 'business'
He has seen me heaving up my guts during 5 pregnancies worth of morning sickness, peered up my foo foo during the birth of of one of our kids and watched me have 3 ceasareans, has seen me drunk, hungover, ill, burping, farting, picking my nose, crying with snot hanging out of my nose, with no makeup,or with 4 weeks worth of grey roots showing, and in all manner of situations, where I am generally looking less than my best lol

Its not about a lack of respect or anything, just that we have been together so long, we are comfortable with each other in virtually every situation
Theres one thing Im coy about and thats my 'time of the month' and i like privacy when Im sorting myself out as it were redface

ops: :oops: I wouldnt dream of doing it in front of mr B, and would be mortified if he did so. Why its just this one thing I dont know...as nothing else bothers me.
Is there anything that you just wouldnt do in front of your other half?? Or them in front of you??

14 Nov 2007

PASS WIND! :giggle:

Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

14 Nov 2007

Our house sounds similar to your mrs B, I can never get a bath in peace :lol2:.
Im not shy infront of mr lyns in any way shape or form except.. like you at my time of the month, not sure why tho cos hes seen me at my very worst!!!.

14 Nov 2007

I dont have anyone to be shy in front of :cry:

14 Nov 2007

Quote by helnheaven
I dont have anyone to be shy in front of :cry:

You could always come here and be shy infront of us :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

14 Nov 2007

He'll use the loo for a wee whilst I'm in the bath, but the other way round? Nope, never happened. I've never been for a wee in front of anyone, and wholeheartedly believe that it's just one of the things that should be kept private.
Pehaps I belong ion a different age, where ladies were ladylike.
Not passing judgment (or wind) on anyone with a different view btw- just voicing my own opinions. wink

14 Nov 2007

We are very open in front of each other, from the start i thought if he can't see me burp or fart he doesn't know the real me.... lol

Again my time of the month is very private to me and number twos are a no no if each other is in the bathroom...
But i think its all about how you've been brought up and what enviroment you are in, i'm a nurse and deal with (and talk about) all the things that would make normal people blush - its just natural to me!! And therefore to Mr P too, whether he likes it or not sometimes!

14 Nov 2007

Quote by sanddp
We are very open in front of each other, from the start i thought if he can't see me burp or fart he doesn't know the real me....
Again my time of the month is very private to me and number twos are a no no if each other is in the bathroom...
But i think its all about how you've been brought up and what enviroment you are in, i'm a nurse and deal with (and talk about) all the things that would make normal people blush - its just natural to me!! And therefore to Mr P too, whether he likes it or not sometimes!

aaahhhhhh sand, you may have hit upon something there....I was an operating theatre tech for 13 years, and there isnt much that I havent seen, or dealt with, so maybe thats part of it then :lol:

14 Nov 2007

Were open in front of each other to a degree even after all these years together, and its a lot, theres a few things we still keep private as such.. More out of respect than anything.. After all we have both sort of nursed each other through illness and the like so not much phases us.
No2's No no lol.. :scared: I wouldn't want her there anyway and I'm damn sure I don't want to be there when she does lol.. I mean why lol??
Periods... :sticky: No, its her time.. do with it as you see fit i say lol.. Not for me to be needing to see her change anything!!
Nothing to do with anything just respect and privacy lol...
Mike xx

14 Nov 2007

Poo and periods are the absolute limit. The rest depends on how deep the relationship is. I mean - I wouldn't take a wee in front of someone I'd only known a couple of weeks but a couple of years, yeah no probs.

14 Nov 2007

we are like you mrs bone the bathroom door never shuts enless its time of the month and then they know what it is and know not to enter every thing else well if needs must needs must
even my son prefers using the bathroom loo when someone is in bath rather than the one downstairs dunno

why
after nearly 5 years if i cant be myself then its not worth the bother i think

14 Nov 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
The farting lasses thread got me to thinking, is there anything you would never let your partner, see you doing, or any situation that you would feel mortified if they caught you in the act of??
In our house, privacy is not really much of an issue, we walk round naked in front of our 4 kids, they use the bathroom when me or Mr B are in the bath/shower and vice versa, and for some reason, whenever Mr B runs himself a bath, it makes me need a number 2 (lol), so I will chat to him while hes in the bath, as Im doing my 'business'
He has seen me heaving up my guts during 5 pregnancies worth of morning sickness, peered up my foo foo during the birth of of one of our kids and watched me have 3 ceasareans, has seen me drunk, hungover, ill, burping, farting, picking my nose, crying with snot hanging out of my nose, with no makeup,or with 4 weeks worth of grey roots showing, and in all manner of situations, where I am generally looking less than my best
Its not about a lack of respect or anything, just that we have been together so long, we are comfortable with each other in virtually every situation
Theres one thing Im coy about and thats my 'time of the month' and i like privacy when Im sorting myself out as it were ops: :oops: I wouldnt dream of doing it in front of mr B, and would be mortified if he did so. Why its just this one thing I dont know...as nothing else bothers me.
Is there anything that you just wouldnt do in front of your other half?? Or them in front of you??

Good God woman - have you no shame? :shock: :shock: :lol2:
pink x

14 Nov 2007

Quote by blueandpink
The farting lasses thread got me to thinking, is there anything you would never let your partner, see you doing, or any situation that you would feel mortified if they caught you in the act of??
In our house, privacy is not really much of an issue, we walk round naked in front of our 4 kids, they use the bathroom when me or Mr B are in the bath/shower and vice versa, and for some reason, whenever Mr B runs himself a bath, it makes me need a number 2 (lol), so I will chat to him while hes in the bath, as Im doing my 'business'
He has seen me heaving up my guts during 5 pregnancies worth of morning sickness, peered up my foo foo during the birth of of one of our kids and watched me have 3 ceasareans, has seen me drunk, hungover, ill, burping, farting, picking my nose, crying with snot hanging out of my nose, with no makeup,or with 4 weeks worth of grey roots showing, and in all manner of situations, where I am generally looking less than my best
Its not about a lack of respect or anything, just that we have been together so long, we are comfortable with each other in virtually every situation
Theres one thing Im coy about and thats my 'time of the month' and i like privacy when Im sorting myself out as it were ops: :oops: I wouldnt dream of doing it in front of mr B, and would be mortified if he did so. Why its just this one thing I dont know...as nothing else bothers me.
Is there anything that you just wouldnt do in front of your other half?? Or them in front of you??

Good God woman - have you no shame? :shock: :shock: :lol2:
pink x
I know :shock: :eeek: :eeek: I realise I may have talked myself out of any future meets with that one :shock :lol:

14 Nov 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
The farting lasses thread got me to thinking, is there anything you would never let your partner, see you doing, or any situation that you would feel mortified if they caught you in the act of??
In our house, privacy is not really much of an issue, we walk round naked in front of our 4 kids, they use the bathroom when me or Mr B are in the bath/shower and vice versa, and for some reason, whenever Mr B runs himself a bath, it makes me need a number 2 (lol), so I will chat to him while hes in the bath, as Im doing my 'business'
He has seen me heaving up my guts during 5 pregnancies worth of morning sickness, peered up my foo foo during the birth of of one of our kids and watched me have 3 ceasareans, has seen me drunk, hungover, ill, burping, farting, picking my nose, crying with snot hanging out of my nose, with no makeup,or with 4 weeks worth of grey roots showing, and in all manner of situations, where I am generally looking less than my best
Its not about a lack of respect or anything, just that we have been together so long, we are comfortable with each other in virtually every situation
Theres one thing Im coy about and thats my 'time of the month' and i like privacy when Im sorting myself out as it were ops: :oops: I wouldnt dream of doing it in front of mr B, and would be mortified if he did so. Why its just this one thing I dont know...as nothing else bothers me.
Is there anything that you just wouldnt do in front of your other half?? Or them in front of you??

After being there when you give birth......I think there isn't much else you could hide from them anyway. Lets face it when you are pushing your heart out its not just baby that comes out down there :oops:
So I have no worries to Kev coming into the loo and like you, there is no private time in this house. We too walk round naked as I have always told the kids never to be ashamed of what they have.
Having said all this I have just thought Kev always shuts the door when he has a No2...... confused

14 Nov 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
The farting lasses thread got me to thinking, is there anything you would never let your partner, see you doing, or any situation that you would feel mortified if they caught you in the act of??
In our house, privacy is not really much of an issue, we walk round naked in front of our 4 kids, they use the bathroom when me or Mr B are in the bath/shower and vice versa, and for some reason, whenever Mr B runs himself a bath, it makes me need a number 2 (lol), so I will chat to him while hes in the bath, as Im doing my 'business'
He has seen me heaving up my guts during 5 pregnancies worth of morning sickness, peered up my foo foo during the birth of of one of our kids and watched me have 3 ceasareans, has seen me drunk, hungover, ill, burping, farting, picking my nose, crying with snot hanging out of my nose, with no makeup,or with 4 weeks worth of grey roots showing, and in all manner of situations, where I am generally looking less than my best
Its not about a lack of respect or anything, just that we have been together so long, we are comfortable with each other in virtually every situation
Theres one thing Im coy about and thats my 'time of the month' and i like privacy when Im sorting myself out as it were ops: :oops: I wouldnt dream of doing it in front of mr B, and would be mortified if he did so. Why its just this one thing I dont know...as nothing else bothers me.
Is there anything that you just wouldnt do in front of your other half?? Or them in front of you??

Sounds a great relaxed atmosphere in the bonedigger residence. I have always fantasied about having a home like that.
Luv to all - Plimboy :oops: smile

14 Nov 2007

Quote by kazandkev
Having said all this I have just thought Kev always shuts the door when he has a No2......

The things we do to protect our kiddies noses eh lol

:lol: oh and ours come to that :lol:

14 Nov 2007

There is only one thing I have never done in front of Stormy and that is the V word. Probably because it just hasn't happened in the 16 years we have been together. I don't know if I would rather be alone when/if it happens until it does so watch this space confused

I have seen Stormy do absolutely everything :eeek: sometimes it's really scarey :wary:

14 Nov 2007

Quote by firelizard
There is only one thing I have never done in front of Stormy and that is the V word. Probably because it just hasn't happened in the 16 years we have been together. I don't know if I would rather be alone when/if it happens until it does so watch this space
I have seen Stormy do absolutely everything :eeek: sometimes it's really scarey :wary:

Whats the v word
am blond lol

14 Nov 2007

Oh thank feck for that Tan...i didnt have a scooby, but didnt like to ask lol....Tan I LOVE ya babe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx lol

14 Nov 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
, whenever Mr B runs himself a bath, it makes me need a number 2 (lol), so I will chat to him while hes in the bath, as Im doing my 'business'
Its not about a lack of respect or anything, just that we have been together so long, we are comfortable with each other in virtually every situation

:shock: You have a poo poo in front of your hubby?? blink

oooh I just wouldn't... couldn't!
Other than that there's nothing I would hide from Jay, he's seen me in every situation. There was once I was (unfortunately) horribly drunk (my first and last night tasting the wonders of champagne) and I was throwing up everywhere, he rubbed my back and stayed up with me to make sure I didn't vomit in my sleep.
Last year I had the most horrible bug that was going round, while I was heaving from one end I'd 'started' and he cleaned up after me when I was only able to crawl back to bed.
I've had operations and been unable to do anything, he's done it all for me. That's one of the qualities I love about him. :inlove:
Another smashing thread Boney hun kiss

14 Nov 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
Oh thank feck for that Tan...i didnt have a scooby, but didnt like to ask lol....Tan I LOVE ya babe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I feel so much better now im not the only one :smug:

14 Nov 2007

Vomit :scared:

14 Nov 2007

Quote by firelizard
Vomit :scared:

Oh been there done that more than once redface

14 Nov 2007

I've done EVERYTHING in front of a real-life partner - but NOTHING in front of a swinging partner - I feel I must be on my best behaviour - which can lead to stomach cramps in the middle of the night redface

14 Nov 2007

awww bless ya Chez LOL
and ooooooohhhhhhhh vomit...I see...god, i have been so ill during my 5 pregnancies, that Mr B has had no option but to hold my hair back or to rub my back as I hurl my ring up......it has gotten less the more times i have been pregnant....by number 5 he just lets me get on with it, and shouts up can i keep the noise down, as he cant hear the telly lol

:lol:

15 Nov 2007

Quote by firelizard
Vomit :scared:

Mrs Lost is soooooo phobic about being sick. It's so in our house! Even when the kids were tiny she would go hysterical. It can get a little ridiculous at times. but what can you do its a phobia dunno

Otherwise the bathroom door has a lock on it for a purpose it means KEEP OUT showers, bath, toilet!!?? etc. I like that time for me.

15 Nov 2007

Quote by kazandkev
always shuts the door when he has a No2......

Me too! That is my one private moment, although I also have to warn the neighbours so they can shut all their doors and windows.

:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:

15 Nov 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
Is there anything that you just wouldnt do in front of your other half?? Or them in front of you??

Ill have a bath in front of Joe but anything else that is done in the bathroom is done in private.
We have been together a long time, so we are comfortable with each other but I believe some things are best done in privacy.
I definately cry in front of him ( quite alot lately rolleyes

)
Burping, farting etc, I dont do that - Im a layydeeee :giggle:
louise xx

15 Nov 2007

There is nothing on my part, just one thing on W's.
I would like that to change, but I do not think it will.

15 Nov 2007

Quote by Lost
Vomit :scared:

Mrs Lost is soooooo phobic about being sick. It's so in our house! Even when the kids were tiny she would go hysterical. It can get a little ridiculous at times. but what can you do its a phobia dunno

It's even got a name Lost and its " Emetophobia" I have it too at varying degrees depending on how stressed I am in the rest of life. Don't know why that makes a difference but it does.
Love
Fire x