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What does a white stick mean to you?

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I've been thinking about posting this thread since the blind man in big brother thread. And after being bumped into, pushed and knocked over during a shopping trip with my blind friend it made me more determined to post it.
surpriseduch:
I will ask a question, and see how many of you out there know what it means...
If you see someone with a white stick and wearing very dark glasses, and being led by someone not wearing dark glasses, would you think they were blind? I am not being sarcastic - please believe me - I just find it amazing how many people when I am out walking with them ignore us...
I would appreciate any input here! I get so frustrated with people when I take her out - I have so many bruises from ignorant people.. but I bet some of them don't know that she's blind.
Thanks for reading.. off to see my blind friend will log in later.. Hope you all have a good day!!
mad sorry rant over!! smackbottom I keep getting a lot of smacked bottoms recently!
I would recognise the 'white stick' as a signal that the user is viually impaired to some degree.
And consequently would act accordingly... whether that be adjusting my own path to give more room for other person, or perhaps be wary whilst I'm still in proximity to that person, that I may be able to assist in some way before moving on.
I tend to make room for others on the pavement anyway, adopting a sometimes random course to avoid others and make room for those who may not be quite as mobile, or indeed be able to maneouvre as readily as I.
However: I have noticed a decline in Pavement Etiquette ove the last few years... mainly in big cities, and especially here in the Smoke.
So many people appear to be so completely wrapped-up in their own little worlds... be that the next shop to plunder, the text that has just arrived on the mobile/call that has come through, so important they can do nothing else but bellow and start to walk in circles, or conversing with the group they are with, spreading across the pavement mob-handed...
Then of course there are those who are simply ignorant of the other people around them.
The pavement is not as safe a place as it used to be.
I refer back to your simple question Ms Kitty;
What does a White Stick mean...?
I doubt that a great many people these days either know... or care.
Dreadfull
lp
Exactly what he said. worship
It means i'm gonna fall over!
Every morning i meet a lovely old fella who is totally blind, and walking his guide dog (dog off duty for walkies), so he uses his stick.
Our dogs run off to play and he invariably hears me walking up behind him and each and every time trips me over! that little rubber end manages to buckle my knee each time! lol
But on a serious note it should mean that everyone is a little more careful (and in my case - cautious)and respectful of peoples limitations!
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I would recognise the 'white stick' as a signal that the user is viually impaired to some degree.
And consequently would act accordingly... whether that be adjusting my own path to give more room for other person, or perhaps be wary whilst I'm still in proximity to that person, that I may be able to assist in some way before moving on.
I tend to make room for others on the pavement anyway, adopting a sometimes random course to avoid others and make room for those who may not be quite as mobile, or indeed be able to maneouvre as readily as I.
However: I have noticed a decline in Pavement Etiquette ove the last few years... mainly in big cities, and especially here in the Smoke.
So many people appear to be so completely wrapped-up in their own little worlds... be that the next shop to plunder, the text that has just arrived on the mobile/call that has come through, so important they can do nothing else but bellow and start to walk in circles, or conversing with the group they are with, spreading across the pavement mob-handed...
Then of course there are those who are simply ignorant of the other people around them.
The pavement is not as safe a place as it used to be.
I refer back to your simple question Ms Kitty;
What does a White Stick mean...?
I doubt that a great many people these days either know... or care.
Dreadfull
lp

My sentiments entirely !
Quote by __random_orbit__
I would recognise the 'white stick' as a signal that the user is viually impaired to some degree.
And consequently would act accordingly... whether that be adjusting my own path to give more room for other person, or perhaps be wary whilst I'm still in proximity to that person, that I may be able to assist in some way before moving on.
I tend to make room for others on the pavement anyway, adopting a sometimes random course to avoid others and make room for those who may not be quite as mobile, or indeed be able to maneouvre as readily as I.
However: I have noticed a decline in Pavement Etiquette ove the last few years... mainly in big cities, and especially here in the Smoke.
So many people appear to be so completely wrapped-up in their own little worlds... be that the next shop to plunder, the text that has just arrived on the mobile/call that has come through, so important they can do nothing else but bellow and start to walk in circles, or conversing with the group they are with, spreading across the pavement mob-handed...
Then of course there are those who are simply ignorant of the other people around them.
The pavement is not as safe a place as it used to be.
I refer back to your simple question Ms Kitty;
What does a White Stick mean...?
I doubt that a great many people these days either know... or care.
Dreadfull
lp

well said that man :thumbup:
on a lighter note, a white stick usually means my date's arrived confused
In these 'enlightened' times a white stick denotes...

An easy challenge for the local ASBO champion.
A target for skateboarders.
Someone to push out of the way by some chav in a rush.

...oh yeah almost forgot, a person who is entitled to politeness, respect and a little help from time to time. Other than that someone with a white stick is the same as you or I except when it comes to seeing something.
Because it is an uncommon event to see people with white sticks is there a case that at times because people are not expecting the occurence of a person with a white stick then knocks and bumps through no particular thoughtlessness by anyone then maybe that is a partial excuse. Otherwise I think whats been said covers it, though i'm sure we are all guilty of being thoughtless at times when in a rush or being self absorbed.
We have friends deaf and blind, mobility impaired and also some with learning disabilities and they all suffer at the hands of people not being aware.
So hands up, who knows what the white stick with a couple of orange bands on it means?
that they are nearly onto aan orange stck martial arts?
Blind and deaf = two bands on a white stick
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Blind and deaf = two bands on a white stick

Bugger! And there was me thinking it had something to do with Irish protestants. rolleyes
Never! Never! Never!
lp
Not all people with white sticks are blind some are partial sighted, saying that no matter what degree their sight was if i was someone with a white stick then i would give them a wide birth
Its good to know there are some considerate people out there!
Thanks for all your comments and opinions xx Taking her out this afternoon.. wish me luck that I don't meet up with the ASBO group....
cool
Mind you, the white stick does come in handy when someone is being ignorant and gets in the way... my blind friend does have me in hysterics when she accidentaly on purpose swings the stick too far lol
Not long got back from a trip into town with my blind friend. In Oxford its tourist season. But Oxford is way too small for the amount of tourists we get. We went to the town hall for coffee, and while attempting to get down some steps a bunch of tourists knocked us flying.. luckily I managed to catch her before she fell. We started walking up to the bus, and another load walked towards us taking no notice....
I took great pleasure (even though I know I shouldn't) in sticking my arm out in front of me shouting "watch where you're going" and walloping the heck out of the ones that ignored me.... mad
We now have a code.. if I say "stick high and wide" she knows there's tourists on the way.... Every single group walked into us today... I don't think we will be going to town again for a while.. as its too much hassle.. but why should we avoid it? It doesn't seem fair.... We live here.... What do you think????
Dump the white stick and get her a white-painted cattle prod for next time lol
Sounds like a good idea to me John!!! Hmm.. *thinks... where can I get one..* biggrin
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Dump the white stick and get her a white-painted cattle prod for next time lol
I see the same guy every day and some mornings he has a white stick and some mornings he doesn't.. And he wonders why people are confused confused
White sticks with red bands (perhaps they have faded?) are to show they are deaf too I think?
It used to be part of the Highway Code ie it was in the book. So how many drivers out there?
We need a highway code for pedestrians now!? rolleyes
I would echo the sentiments regarding pavement etiquette standards declining. I have two suggestions for that - one is that people are equatorially bigger and the other is the fact that shopping is not a chore so much as a leisure hobby and people think they can just 'lounge' on the pavement.
It was just as bad when you are pushing a pram. Being of imposing height and presence I just used to stare at transgressors until they fell over the chair or damaged their ankles.
Full sympathy with walking your friend I have done it on country walks on many occasions - she turned out to be very able going over the styles but have you ever tried to get teh blind dog over the style? It honestly didn't know what to do. Lifting a very large and heavy labrador over was no fun at all either!! lol
Shay
I would say that it means the same as a black head-band, "My eyes are not what they could be!"
In responce I would keep out of thier way, but give assistance, if needed.
hubby here
i did some work for a blind man the other week for our boss,
let him feel the faulty part as was changing it,
when i went to leave,,he said, thank u for talking to me as i get lonely by myself,
he has no family n his wife died long time ago.
its people like this that make me happy with what i got,
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hubby here
i did some work for a blind man the other week for our boss,
let him feel the faulty part as was changing it,
when i went to leave,,he said, thank u for talking to me as i get lonely by myself,
he has no family n his wife died long time ago.
its people like this that make me happy with what i got,

top man :thumbup:
lp
when i see a white stick i think to much wanking lol
Quote by __random_orbit__
hubby here
i did some work for a blind man the other week for our boss,
let him feel the faulty part as was changing it,
when i went to leave,,he said, thank u for talking to me as i get lonely by myself,
he has no family n his wife died long time ago.
its people like this that make me happy with what i got,

top man :thumbup:
lp
That wasn't the part :giggle:
Sorry ricky.. but that comment was in really bad taste.....
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when i see a white stick i think to much wanking lol
:shock:
It does make you realise how lucky you are....
Quote by twos_company
hubby here
i did some work for a blind man the other week for our boss,
let him feel the faulty part as was changing it,
when i went to leave,,he said, thank u for talking to me as i get lonely by myself,
he has no family n his wife died long time ago.
its people like this that make me happy with what i got,
Quote by Misskitty_2008
Sorry ricky.. but that comment was in really bad taste.....
when i see a white stick i think to much wanking lol
:shock:
Yeah but bad taste makes for the best jokes :P
Quote by Peanut
Sorry ricky.. but that comment was in really bad taste.....
when i see a white stick i think to much wanking lol
:shock:
Yeah but bad taste makes for the best jokes :P
Got to admit.......I did chuckle at the joke. It is something that I was always told as a boy, not wanking but ogling a girl would make you go blind.
The best blind or partialy sighted jokes/stories I have ever heard was when I taught a course for people from a local blind charity. To be a member you have to be registered blind. At one point I had to call a break because I had lost my composure with what they were saying. They were stars and had me with tears running down my face in laughter. The worse one (or best) was an 82 year old lady.........her antics had howls of laughter coming from the room. I bet she could give a professional comedian a run for their money.
Dave_Notts
My nearest city is Hereford and there we have the National Blind College although I think it's now called the National College. We have a large number of blind people in and around town many of them teenagers. Something that strikes me is their jovial nature as contrasted with the hurried gloominess of their sighted peers.
Most certainly there has been a decline in civility on the streets. I think it's rather sad.
Did anyone see the England Blind football team on the tele a couple of years ago? What a wonderful idea. The pitch was a lot smaller and was marked off by waist high boards. Behind these, coaches were allowed to call out to the teams and tell them if the opposition were near. I forget what the score was. The game was played at a walking pace and taken seriously by all involved.
As it should be.
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My nearest city is Hereford and there we have the National Blind College although I think it's now called the National College. We have a large number of blind people in and around town many of them teenagers. Something that strikes me is their jovial nature as contrasted with the hurried gloominess of their sighted peers.
Most certainly there has been a decline in civility on the streets. I think it's rather sad.
Did anyone see the England Blind football team on the tele a couple of years ago? What a wonderful idea. The pitch was a lot smaller and was marked off by waist high boards. Behind these, coaches were allowed to call out to the teams and tell them if the opposition were near. I forget what the score was. The game was played at a walking pace and taken seriously by all involved.
As it should be.

Wow, didn't see it but always amazes me how folks find ways round things to be able to participate!
I've seen some brill stuff over the years that's so simple, yet so clever. smile