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two community police officers are first on the scene where an 11 yr old boy is drowning after going into a pond to rescue his little they go in to help?
no, cos they aren`t trained (says their police spokesman ) passers by later went in by which time the boy was dead. trained? to pull a boy out of a pond ? i just feel so sad and sorry for the parents as well as for the rest of us if this is the world we want.
wigan, , last day or two, on the local news this morning
This is one of the saddest thing I've heard in recent times, but it indicates the current social climate.
So much in society is ruled by 'procedure' and fear of litigation that basic humanity has become an accidental casualty.
However you would have thought that 'instinct' would overcome such fears, but the bureaucratic world we now live in, has become all pervasive.
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Just found it. Maybe the men couldn't swim - perhaps that's what was meant by 'not properly trained'? It says that the boy couldn't be seen when they arrived, but also says they 'looked on as a boy of ten drowned'? Instinct would have made me jump in to save them, but then again, I can swim. If the pond was that deep, I'd have gone with the kids anyway though.
The parents have condemned the officers but they let their kids go and play where they knew there was a pond (presume they were aware; they weren't much more than five minutes away because that's how long it took for the regular policeman to get there).
A tragic accident, yes. The coroner must have been made aware of all the facts even if they weren't in that news article and he'll have based his verdict on those facts.
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Just found it. Maybe the men couldn't swim - perhaps that's what was meant by 'not properly trained'? It says that the boy couldn't be seen when they arrived, but also says they 'looked on as a boy of ten drowned'? Instinct would have made me jump in to save them, but then again, I can swim. If the pond was that deep, I'd have gone with the kids anyway though.
The parents have condemned the officers but they let their kids go and play where they knew there was a pond (presume they were aware; they weren't much more than five minutes away because that's how long it took for the regular policeman to get there).
A tragic accident, yes. The coroner must have been made aware of all the facts even if they weren't in that news article and he'll have based his verdict on those facts.

Some good points actually. Once again we don't have all the details, and journalists just love to hype things up for the sake of a 'story'.
Perhaps it's more complicated than we know. Nobody wins in this situation, and everybody has to live with the consequences.
Very sad.
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I read this earlier and I just think its so sad :cry: . I think My instincts would have told me to jump and and try to pull him out "trained" or not. I guess tho we can`t really say what we would do in that situation until we have actually been in the situation.
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Perhaps it's more complicated than we know. Nobody wins in this situation, and everybody has to live with the consequences.
Very sad.
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Very sad, yes. I don't think that means humanity is done for though. It was an isolated incident.
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Perhaps it's more complicated than we know. Nobody wins in this situation, and everybody has to live with the consequences.
Very sad.
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Very sad, yes. I don't think that means humanity is done for though. It was an isolated incident.
True! It just makes us question.
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i would have jumped in if i saw a child drowning...but if i couldn't see where the child was,if they were already under...would i have jumped in...my instincts would be to wait until i saw something...sometimes though that can be too late.
Heard the news report this afternoon.
The events happened this spring, so the reporting is from the Coroner's inquest.
The boy and his sister were tadpoling. Sister fell in and boy jumped in to save her.
From the witness accounts of two fishermen the boy supported his sister above the water by putting his own head under her body. The girl was then brought to the bank by the fishermen.
When they turned back to the boy he had gone under and was not to be seen. It's at this point that two community police officers (or what ever it is they call special constables these days) arrived at the scene.
They apparently did not enter the water - which would have been chasing shadows, as the boy could not be seen - but radioed for further assistance.
At this point the children's father appeared and he jumped in, eventually retrieving the youngster from the water.
Evidently no-one 'watched on as the boy drowned', as variously reported at the time.
I don't really think they did anything wrong. They had no emotional connection to the child and as (semi) trained PCSO's they are meant to keep a level head and do the best in a situation that they assess.
Paraphrasing what other posters have said, if it was the case that the lad was already under, not visible and no sign of life, it would be debateable as to whether or not it would be worthwhile risking two more lives in trying to save him.
It does beg the question as to why the parent/s were not with them in what is evidently a risky situation. Most parents have the sense to cover shallow garden ponds let alone let their kids play unsupervised near a deep pond in a park - just my opinion of course.
we're not at the inquest so we don't know what happened. The media sadly have their own agenda; in this case the agenda was to trash the community support officers. Disillusioned and don't believe a word I read in the press!! sorry lol
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we're not at the inquest so we don't know what happened. The media sadly have their own agenda; in this case the agenda was to trash the community support officers. Disillusioned and don't believe a word I read in the press!! sorry lol

Don't apologise - I'm sure you're not alone. biggrin
The fact is though All real police Officers were trained to save lives and never graduated police college untill they were at a standard acceptable to deal with this kind of situation.. and an advanced life savers award was standard issue.
Manchester police have over 400 of these untrained officers now.. and since being introduced have 200 Less fully trained officers..
Make your own minds up.. Its the same country wide I bet!
If people could wade into the water to find the boy as they did.. No human being let alone a paid civil servant could possibly stand by and do sod all... even if just one had gone in to look while the other called for more help... And why did they not attend the inquest? Stinks!!!
Tragedy yes... Sad yes... but even sader that no one helped when they could have.. Trained or otherwise!
Mike
As someone who trained to be a lifeguard, one of the first things you're taught is not to enter into any form of water you're unfamiliar with with being very cautious.
While you think you might be saving someones life, what you're more likely to do, unless you are lucky or a good swimmer/trained lifeguard is put yourself at risk and possibly create two people to be rescued.
Did they do the right thing? probably. From the reports there were people fishing so the best thing to do is stay out of the water and try to rescue them with a fishing rod. As for rescuing someone thats gone under, unless you get to them within a few minutes the chance of getting them out alive is greatly diminished.
a lack of humanity is the people who strapped nails to a large firework and set it to go off outside a primary school at letting out time....thankfully there were no injuries.
thanks ukbeannie. read the links, and seems like it was perfectly reasonable handling of tragic events beyond anyone's control. one child rescued just before they arrived, no sign of second child, call in reinforcements and monitor things with the kid that's actually still alive? i'm pretty sure the PCSOs would have done their damnedest to save both kids, if they'd been able, but seems it was a lost cause. they probably played a part in keeping the daughter alive, anyways, however small? ?
the anglers who pulled the first kid out, according to the articles i've read, didn't go back in for the brother either, cos they didn't know where to start? neither did the kid's stepfather? the one who's complaining noone went after his step-son, but who's role was limited to pulling his dead child's body from the hands of the copper who dived in and risked his life to pull him up from the bottom? ? why didn't his step-dad dive in after him? one of the earliest on the scene, ((( aqllegedly? ))) and you'd think most emotionally committed, but he didn't get his feet wet according to some reports? ((( allegedly? ))) why? confused
the natural emotional response is to dive in and try to save everyone, even if that puts even more people at risk, but maybe just about everyone involved there had to try and weigh up the best and worst possible outcomes? :? it's a truly awful predicament, cos how do you do the sums, but it's a thoroughly detached and practical approach that's needed if you're making life and death decisions to try and make the best of what's already a tragedy.
neil x x x ;)
Me and mr Lyns were talking about this last night and he said his instincs would probably have made him jump in and try to save him, but after I mrs lyns re read the article and realised the child couldnt be seen from the bank of the pond, I re thought it through. I will be totally honest and say I probably wouldn`t have jumped in either !!. If it was one of mine I would have without a shadow of doubt, but given that in most cases you read in similar circumstances the rescuer perishes also, I would have to think of my own children! would I want them to grow up without a mother?. I appreciate that some will call me selfish for this view point and it is a selfish view but my children would come first.
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I`ve been listening to the radio this morning and It`s still unclear to me whether this was a pond or a lake !!
But the whole "blame somebody else" culture seems to be losing sight of the fact that these children were out playing on their own in what sounds like a very dangerous place. Where were the people that were supposed to be looking after them ?

It was a lake, reportedly the size of a football pitch. These are notorious death traps and claim many lives each year.
But, what to do? Fill the lake in perhaps?
well, of course, that would be impractical so why not increase the number of PCSO's and create a new offence of being within 10 metres of open water and let them issue £60 fixed penalty tickets. They could claim a further reduction in crime then, couldn't they.
The truth is that the kids were just doing what kids do. If the lake was close to their home, I doubt that the parents could have done anything about stopping them.
It was a tragic accident and no-one should beat themselves up over it but should celebrate the life of a plucky young man who gave his life to save his step sister. The lad was a hero and his parents should be justifiably proud of him.
All I can say to this is that although we all have our different approaches to things and react differently in life-threatening/emergency situations, I myself would never forgive myself if i hadnt gone into the water and tried to get that poor lad out!
I find it hard to comprehend how those community support officers could justify to themselves not going in, let alone to that lads parents. As FB said if they couldn't swim fair enough, but it would have been the hardest day of my life standing on the bank of that lake looking out at the water knowing there was a child down there. sad
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All I can say to this is that although we all have our different approaches to things and react differently in life-threatening/emergency situations, I myself would never forgive myself if i hadnt gone into the water and tried to get that poor lad out!
I find it hard to comprehend how those community support officers could justify to themselves not going in, let alone to that lads parents. As FB said if they couldn't swim fair enough, but it would have been the hardest day of my life standing on the bank of that lake looking out at the water knowing there was a child down there. sad

But if you re-read the report..... both police officers involved and the fisherman who save the girl said that the boy who at that stage was under the water could not be seen from the bank...... and if you are talking about a pond/lake the size of a football pitch (so you are looking at something approx 110m by 70m) where would you start to look????
unless you know where you are looking it would something akin to looking for a needle in a haystack....
obviously the boy got into differculties looking for the girl..... and if the police people had got into differculties looking for the boy, who they had no idea of where he was, what happens then??? they send in another??? and another????
I saw a program on traffic cops the other week... in grimsby, they double up at night to help out the regulars..... there was a call that a person outside a club had fallen into a quay..... and that the person could not been seen from the back.... they made the decision to call in the fire brigade who are better trained to deal with the situation, the fire brigade found him after 10 minutes of getting there... but it was too late at that stages and the man died...
it sounds like they made exactly the same decision as the people involved in this case made....
I am sure being a police officer is a bloody tough job... they had to make a decision based on the information they had to hand at that moment... and they made the decision to call in people who were trained to go in.... it is a decision they now have to live with....
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All I can say to this is that although we all have our different approaches to things and react differently in life-threatening/emergency situations, I myself would never forgive myself if i hadnt gone into the water and tried to get that poor lad out!

But if you re-read the report..... both police officers involved andthe fisherman who save the girl said that the boy who at that stage was under the water could not be seen from the bank...... and if you are talking about a pond/lake the size of a football pitch (so you are looking at something approx 110m by 70m) where would you start to look????
unless you know where you are looking it would something akin to looking for a needle in a haystack....
obviously the boy got into differculties looking for the girl..... and if the police people had got into differculties looking for the boy, who they had no idea of where he was, what happens then??? they send in another??? and another????
I saw a program on traffic cops the other week... in grimsby, they double up at night to help out the regulars..... there was a call that a person outside a club had fallen into a quay..... and that the person could not been seen from the back.... they made the decision to call in the fire brigade who are better trained to deal with the situation, the fire brigade found him after 10 minutes of getting there... but it was too late at that stages and the man died...
it sounds like they made exactly the same decision as the people involved in this case made....
I am sure being a police officer is a bloody tough job... they had to make a decision based on the information they had to hand at that moment... and they made the decision to call in people who were trained to go in.... it is a decision they now have to live with....
Yeah Fabio i see your point in a way but from my own opinion (an i can only speak for me) im just saying i couldn't stand there.
I was in the forces for 6 years and during my basic training during a river crossing another recruit unfortunately drown (big thing in the papers)myself another recruit and 2 members of the training team searched in the river going to the bottom and back when we had no breath for over an hour.
He unfortunately was brought to the surface dead by divers 6 hours later and myself and my pal and the 2 training staff were hailed as heroes. Did i feel like a hero? No i just did what i thought i should do even in the most impossible of circumstances, its what i believe is the best in human kind.
I havent thought about this in nearly 10 years an im blubbering like a schoolgirl, its so funny how these things saty with you even when you thought they were long gone!! This has been the hardest post iv ever written.
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I saw a program on traffic cops the other week... in grimsby, they double up at night to help out the regulars..... there was a call that a person outside a club had fallen into a quay..... and that the person could not been seen from the back.... they made the decision to call in the fire brigade who are better trained to deal with the situation, the fire brigade found him after 10 minutes of getting there... but it was too late at that stages and the man died...
it sounds like they made exactly the same decision as the people involved in this case made....

I totally agree.
The press have their own agenda, I've seen too many different version being reported. I don't believe that anyone who could swim would watch a boy struggle and drown in a lake.
We can all speculate about how we would react, but it all changes when you are in that situation. Think about how those CSOs are feeling, can't be easy to wait for the fire brigade, knowing someone is dying.
as a mother, instinct would tell me to jump in and search but without the proper facts no one really knows do they the boy did a heroic act trying to save his sister and died because of this im sure the sister will never forget what he did for her
very sad story though sad
I believe Community Police Officers are not trained/qualified PC's and therefore cannot deal with the normal run of the mill crimes, "specials" "hobbie bobbies" we used to call them.... BUT
I would have thought, CPO or PC aside, rational reaction would have been to jump in and help the lad, am I wrong?
So maybe Freckle's right, it could well have been they couldn't swim which then must have been terrible for them not being able to help.
Not only would someone have needed to be a strong swimmer, but also would have needed to be trained in life-saving to have been any effective use in the situation. Horrifying and frustrating as it must have been to look on helplessly, it sounds as though the support officers did all they could, summoning help which came within five minutes, even though it was too late.
I suspect that the media coverage had more to do with the "knocking" of the creation of Police Community Support Officers, who seem to have attracted a good deal of cynicism as "police-lite" - I'm not sure why, perhaps there's someone who can explain?
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I suspect that the media coverage had more to do with the "knocking" of the creation of Police Community Support Officers, who seem to have attracted a good deal of cynicism as "police-lite" - I'm not sure why, perhaps there's someone who can explain?

CPO's/Specials have been knocked for years. It used to be a free form of Policing and also gave way for people who didn't or wouldn't go through all the exams an insight into being a PC. Through my previous work I knew quite a few and quite often they were jumped up little gits who enjoyed the power, but there are some who really really do a good job and should be applauded for that. They received expenses but no salary.
Nowadays, a salary is paid and I think I'm right in saying the role was brought about to help crack down on Anti-social behaviour. Normally, the Officers deal with minor offences but don't have the same powers as regular PC's.