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noladreams
Sex God
I have just chatted to someone on the phone for the first time after chatting online for a while. Unfortunately, they sound nothing like I imagined them to. This has kinda put me off meeting them...
Is that silly? Can a voice be a turn-off?
Have you been in a similar situation with a potential meet only to be turned off by something?
Nola x
Firelizard
Sex God
Oh yes cool and likewise I can be severely turned ON by a voice too :grin:
noladreams
Sex God
Quote by firelizard
Oh yes cool and likewise I can be severely turned ON by a voice too :grin:

Me too redface Voices can be a real turn on for me.... and turn off, or so it would seem! sad
Steve
Sex God
I hate talking to people on the phone as the Midlands accent can be very off putting :-(
noladreams
Sex God
Just for the record, it wasn't actually his accent. It was more the fact that in my head I had imagined he would have quite a deep, gruff, sexy voice....
:shock: He doesn't.
And so my mental picture is kinda shattered... and now I'm put off.
redface surprisedops: :oops: I am horribly fickle aren't I???
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by flower411
I sound horrible on the 'phone confused

And your point ??
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smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Anyway, just been told I don't sound horrible! :smug: smile
Steve
Sex God
Bet you sound fluffy :giggle:
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Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by Steve
Bet you sound fluffy :giggle:
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:shock: I'll bloody fluffy you! smackbottom
Steve
Sex God
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Unknown User
Quote by Freckledbird
Bet you sound fluffy :giggle:
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:shock: I'll bloody fluff you! smackbottom
:rascal:
You're in there Stevie boy! FB want's to blast you!
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
Bet you sound fluffy :giggle:
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:shock: I'll bloody fluff you! smackbottom
:rascal:
You're in there Stevie boy! FB want's to blast you!
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Steve
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
Bet you sound fluffy :giggle:
bolt

:shock: I'll bloody fluff you! smackbottom
:rascal:
You're in there Stevie boy! FB want's to blast you!
I always said I was no good at reading signals....
I read it as she was gonna give me a jolly good :smackbottom: for saying she sounds fluffy :lol2:
But a :blast: will do nicely.....
Where can I book some lessons in signal deciphering(sp) ??
HJ
Orgasminator
A few lines of text in a chatroom, the wording on a profile or an ad, a few pictures which may or may not show the persons face -- and your mind races off and makes a "complete" person despite the fact that you have never met !!!
And when the reality turns out to be different from the "construct" you tend to reject it !!!
My advice would be to persevere Nola -- whatever turned you on to this person in the first place will probably shine through ..
Unknown User
People stating the bleedin obvious, as I found out last week......
Having been for a walk along the beach, we were walking the home stretch through a small seaside town. I had a 6' long piece of driftwood over my shoulder.
A very hunky guy came out of the gift shop we paused outside of, and remarked "Nice wood"
Methinks >"You show me yours...."<
Then he says "Did you find it on the beach?"
Methinks >"Fuck off, you're boring me now"< :dry:
Okay, so I have a very short attention span! lol
Steve
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
People stating the bleedin obvious, as I found out last week......
Having been for a walk along the beach, we were walking the home stretch through a small seaside town. I had a 6' long piece of driftwood over my shoulder.
A very hunky guy came out of the gift shop we paused outside of, and remarked "Nice wood"
Methinks >"You show me yours...."<
Then he says "Did you find it on the beach?"
Methinks >"Fuck off, you're boring me now"< :dry:
Okay, so I have a very short attention span! lol

Your a harsh woman.....
Bloody funny mind.....but still harsh :lol2:
noladreams
Sex God
Quote by HJ
My advice would be to persevere Nola -- whatever turned you on to this person in the first place will probably shine through ..

Yeeeeaaaah.... see that's what I probably should do.
But as I said, I can be fickle! At the mo, am not sure...
helnheaven
Sex God
Ive just decided Im never going to have a phone conversation with any potential meets lol
H__x
Sex God
Quote by flower411
People stating the bleedin obvious, as I found out last week......
Having been for a walk along the beach, we were walking the home stretch through a small seaside town. I had a 6' long piece of driftwood over my shoulder.
A very hunky guy came out of the gift shop we paused outside of, and remarked "Nice wood"
Methinks >"You show me yours...."<
Then he says "Did you find it on the beach?"
Methinks >"Fuck off, you're boring me now"< :dry:
Okay, so I have a very short attention span! lol

You mean you missed the opportunity to say
" Yeah, I often pop down to the beach looking for wood"
Or
"It was only a twig till I started stroking it"
or
"This is my pet plank, it goes everywhere with me"
or
"Have you seen a very big dog?"
or
"I'm in training for the Highland game"
I tend not to like to have a first conversation with people over the phone because your perseption of someone from their voice can be so wrong. I sound exactly like my Mum on the phone.
H.x
naughtynymphos1
Sex God
Track suits and foot ball shirts confused
Its each to their won really isn't it, its ok people saying it shouldn't matter what people look like etc but the simple fact to some digree it does to all of us
Mr__fb
Sexlightened
Quote by noladreams30
Just for the record, it wasn't actually his accent. It was more the fact that in my head I had imagined he would have quite a deep, gruff, sexy voice....
:shock: He doesn't.
And so my mental picture is kinda shattered... and now I'm put off.
redface surprisedops: :oops: I am horribly fickle aren't I???

Er indoors says i've got a deep gruff sexy voice biggrin
noladreams
Sex God
Quote by MR-FB
Just for the record, it wasn't actually his accent. It was more the fact that in my head I had imagined he would have quite a deep, gruff, sexy voice....
:shock: He doesn't.
And so my mental picture is kinda shattered... and now I'm put off.
redface surprisedops: :oops: I am horribly fickle aren't I???

Er indoors says i've got a deep gruff sexy voice biggrin
Oooooh, hello Mr FB - care to talk deep, gruff and sexily at me then?!?!
MikeNorth
Sex God
Hmmm, when I worked (briefly) for a marketing firm, the boss told me I had a persuasive manner and voice on the phone - maybe I should give more people here my number. wink
Mr__fb
Sexlightened
Quote by noladreams30
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Oooooh, hello Mr FB - care to talk deep, gruff and sexily at me then?!?!

Anything to oblige biggrin
helnheaven
Sex God
Quote by noladreams30

wink ooo err... lol
Let me know when you two have got a room then Mrs FB and me can go out on the town :lol:
two_4_more
Orgasminator
Quote by noladreams30
I have just chatted to someone on the phone for the first time after chatting online for a while. Unfortunately, they sound nothing like I imagined them to. This has kinda put me off meeting them...
Is that silly? Can a voice be a turn-off?
Have you been in a similar situation with a potential meet only to be turned off by something?
Nola x

sit on his face... you wont hear him talk then :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Unknown User
Quote by Freckledbird
I sound horrible on the 'phone confused

Everyone thinks they sound bad on the phone. I cringe when I come home and hear the answer phone messages I've sometimes left for the kids......... I've been told I sound like a camp Gary Lineker redface
Sarah
Sex God
Quote by helnheaven

wink ooo err... lol
Let me know when you two have got a room then Mrs FB and me can go out on the town :lol:
I'll come with you both!! :lol: