Is it body, mind, or spirit?
Sorry that this is my first posting but I thought I'd be bold and ask a challenging question!
Hylas
Quote by Resonance
Trust is far more important than a condom.
With a condom you get one nights peace of mind (if you believe they are 100% reliable), with trust you get it for as long as you need it.
Quote by sexy1
Trust is far more important than a condom.
With a condom you get one nights peace of mind (if you believe they are 100% reliable), with trust you get it for as long as you need it.
Quote by sexy1
Trust is far more important than a condom.
With a condom you get one nights peace of mind (if you believe they are 100% reliable), with trust you get it for as long as you need it.
Obviously in terms of swinging as it is understood, condoms are essential. I wasn't making that point, merely that for me trusting someone in a swinging sense gives me far more peace of mind, than perhaps shagging someone I don't know even with a condom. It wasn't the condom that I had an issue with as such, it was the not knowing that person fully and I speak from personal experience here of how that can have a negative effect.
I really don't understand how you can swing with someone you don't trust. Even with 1000 condoms on. It seems to me everyone is so concerned protecting themselves against STI's that they have absolutely no idea of the personal, social and emotional repercussions of their activity, regardless of any form of sexual protection.
*snip*
But, swinging is personal choice. Some people don't require that level of trust I know. I do. Perhaps I'm the weird one, I fully concede this may be the case. But that's what makes things interesting I suppose.
We've been on here, on and off, about 4 years I suppose, in that time we have approached probably 2 couples with intentions of playing. I have no doubt many people do more than that in half an hour at the local club. But that is how we do things, trust is paramount to us far, far in advance of condoms. Without the trust, nothing will happen with us so, as Earthy said, condoms for us become irrelevant.