i put a add in lets meet up last night,a good sincere genuine ad no swear words etc etc and its been removed,id like an explanation why? perhaps you moderators with moderate brain cells could have the coutesy to explain immature to say the least. if the post is not offensive its out of up.
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Sex God
Markus - I can explain why your ad was removed from meet up very easily, and with little use of any brain cells whatsoever. You ad in meet up was a request for a dogging meet, was it not? As it was a dogging meet I assumed you had made a mistake and I moved it to the dogging section where it would get more relevant views. However, then I found that you had also placed an almost identical ad on the dogging forum. Therefore there ended up being two ads from you on dogging, so I deleted one. No hidden agenda, just a bit of tidying up, that's all. If you would like to place one in meet up that isn't a dogging meet you can exercise your rights to free speech all you want.
Sex God
OK, will do 8)
Quote by Markus
a good sincere genuine ad no swear words etc etc....... if the post is not offensive its out of up.
And this is the PM he kindly left me........
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From: markus
To: steveg_nw
Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 5:27 pm
Subject: THIS SITE
has fast become a posts are being removed without no like a private fucking northern working mans of deserate fat overweight northern old used to be fun with zena etc now even they have fucked off and who can blame them? you try and have a laugh in the chatroom and you get mods have too much time on your hands no sence of humour,you need to get out of your terraced shitholes a bit
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Markus.....I haven't even been on the site over the weekend but if this is an example of your definition of "good sincere genuine ad no swear words etc etc" then I'm sure you'll have people falling over themselves to meet you!
Sex God
I am not a moderator so I have no vested interest here, but I would like to refute what markus has said. I have NEVER had a post deleted from the Forum and, for the record, I am.....
Not from the North,
Not overweight,
Not old,
Not "deserate"
I don't think I am a cunt
I don't live in a shithole - terraced or otherwise.
Whenever I have asked the moderators a question which, by the way, is better done in a PM rather than in the Cafe, they have all (without exception) responded in a helpful, polite, ecnouraging and supportive manner. The same is true of other users I have corresponded with.
The moderators are not the problem on this site. Nor is it easy for them to defend themselves without it looking personal, so I am more than happy to take up cudgels on their behalf.
Free speech is encouraged - as are wit, humour and insight - and no-one is judged based on their own particular sexual preferences and proclivities. Even merciless piss-taking is allowed provided it is done in the right spirit. Rudeness and intolerance, however, are not. Nor should they be.
Although I am no expert this site seems to be representative of the swinging community in the UK. There are people here from throughout the country and with every convceivable interest. However, it seems to me that swinging is more developed in the North than in the South and particularly so in the North West - apparently centred on the Manchester area. This being the case it is not surprising that there are more users from the North West than anywhere else. To those of us in the South East that can be frustrating, but it is not bias or prejudice.
Markus, if you approach this in the right way I am sure you will be able to find what you are looking for. I would suggest that politeness and good humour are the first essential qualifications followed by a liberal helping of patience. You will find them returned in at least equal measure by the other members.
Good luck in your search I hope it is successful, but go easy on the moderators. They put a lot of time and effort into this site and it could not continue without them.
Not from the North,
Not overweight,
Not old,
Not "deserate"
I don't think I am a cunt
I don't live in a shithole - terraced or otherwise.
Whenever I have asked the moderators a question which, by the way, is better done in a PM rather than in the Cafe, they have all (without exception) responded in a helpful, polite, ecnouraging and supportive manner. The same is true of other users I have corresponded with.
The moderators are not the problem on this site. Nor is it easy for them to defend themselves without it looking personal, so I am more than happy to take up cudgels on their behalf.
Free speech is encouraged - as are wit, humour and insight - and no-one is judged based on their own particular sexual preferences and proclivities. Even merciless piss-taking is allowed provided it is done in the right spirit. Rudeness and intolerance, however, are not. Nor should they be.
Although I am no expert this site seems to be representative of the swinging community in the UK. There are people here from throughout the country and with every convceivable interest. However, it seems to me that swinging is more developed in the North than in the South and particularly so in the North West - apparently centred on the Manchester area. This being the case it is not surprising that there are more users from the North West than anywhere else. To those of us in the South East that can be frustrating, but it is not bias or prejudice.
Markus, if you approach this in the right way I am sure you will be able to find what you are looking for. I would suggest that politeness and good humour are the first essential qualifications followed by a liberal helping of patience. You will find them returned in at least equal measure by the other members.
Good luck in your search I hope it is successful, but go easy on the moderators. They put a lot of time and effort into this site and it could not continue without them.
As is typical of Markus he shoots off at the mouth once again and continues to make a complete and utter pratt of his bigoted self.
He has been booted from the chat room a number of times, banned from the site once, begged to be allowed to come back and then tries to poison us with the vitriolic bile like this - usually written whilst suffering in a haze of "white powder" which he self confesses to using and boasts about it in the forum. Don't let your mind wander too much Markus - it is far too small to be let out on it's own - it must be a combination of the drugs and alcohol!
:lol:
Markus - you are the greatest advert against the legalisation of drugs! Shame you do not have the ability to post anything other than vitriol because it would be good fun to see your posts left to be taken apart by the eductated amonst us. 8) 8)
Answers to questions......
If they are the ones I have met Markus you must be 3st 2lb and from the channel isles! There are some very sexy fabulous people here.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Zena? ........................ enough said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry Markus - obviously not been to one of our parties - must remember to send you an invite to meet all the desperate fat northern cunts - NOT!
Got me on the last one though! (He had to be right at some point in his life folks!) 8)
There are 2 types of men in this world - wankers and liars - and I ain't a liar!
The terrifying power of the human sex drive is horrifically demonstrated by the fact that someone was willing to father you Markus! :twisted: :twisted:
He has been booted from the chat room a number of times, banned from the site once, begged to be allowed to come back and then tries to poison us with the vitriolic bile like this - usually written whilst suffering in a haze of "white powder" which he self confesses to using and boasts about it in the forum. Don't let your mind wander too much Markus - it is far too small to be let out on it's own - it must be a combination of the drugs and alcohol!
:lol: Markus - you are the greatest advert against the legalisation of drugs! Shame you do not have the ability to post anything other than vitriol because it would be good fun to see your posts left to be taken apart by the eductated amonst us. 8) 8)
Answers to questions......
full of deserate fat overweight northern old cunts
If they are the ones I have met Markus you must be 3st 2lb and from the channel isles! There are some very sexy fabulous people here.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Zena? ........................ enough said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
get out of your terraced shitholes a bit
Sorry Markus - obviously not been to one of our parties - must remember to send you an invite to meet all the desperate fat northern cunts - NOT!
Got me on the last one though! (He had to be right at some point in his life folks!) 8)
There are 2 types of men in this world - wankers and liars - and I ain't a liar!
The terrifying power of the human sex drive is horrifically demonstrated by the fact that someone was willing to father you Markus! :twisted: :twisted:
Sex God
Well said, Fred!
Sex God
Hee hee - good point .
So, Markus - what ARE you doing now???? :lol:
. So, Markus - what ARE you doing now???? :lol:
Sex God
Quote by petesue
Marcus wrote "fget it now im too busy".
We wonder what he is doing, now there is a subject for discussion, if we can all be bothered, LOL.
That is a good point. Here is a guy that is so wanting to be treated to a special night by all the lovely ladies in this forum, but, alas he is too busy! :shock:
What could come between having, or even just a chance of having, an experience of a life time?
Sex God
An experience of a lifetime :shock: ? Why, Mattmoleman, I never knew you cared 
Sex God
Just because I may be a little short sighted (mole) doesn't mean I don't know true beauty when it comes along.
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Sometimes - just sometimes - I LOVE the people on here!! Othertimes I just think they are fabulous.
Didn't know you felt that way about Markus Jags darling - would not have been quite so blunt if I had known hun!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Markus - someone does like you! Salvation is at hand - wipe your nose - pick up your dummy and get unbusy!
Quote by Jags
:twisted: :twisted: @ Fred...
Markus is no more - thank goodness!!! Or should I say 'thank Mark'.
Now, who's next (rolls up sleeves and takes out pink fluffy handcuffs)?
Now if I had known upsetting the mods meant the pink fluffy handcuffs all the time I would have been naughty a lot earlier!
AND you can still type in them unless you gonna sit on my face as well hun - coz i can't touch type - and lets "face it" - who would want to in a situation like that! 8) 8)
Sex God
This site is clearly lacking in one important area, and that's the clear and detailed description of the Rules. If these things aren't explained to us, how are we supposed to know what to do?
So who's with me in demanding a complete list of behaviours that will be rewarded with the bringing out of the pink fluffy handcuffs? I didn't even know you had any, Jags.
(Just in case you missed it, that bit about the rules was a joke)
So who's with me in demanding a complete list of behaviours that will be rewarded with the bringing out of the pink fluffy handcuffs? I didn't even know you had any, Jags.
(Just in case you missed it, that bit about the rules was a joke)
Sex God
Rule 1 - compliance
Rule 2 - obedience
Rule 3 - submission
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
........oh, sorry, I'm reading the wrong rule book here - silly me...I was reading the one I have for my.... erm.... conquests
Now, where did I put the rule book for Swinging Heaven?
I know there's something in it about frivolity being banned - having a laugh is a very serious offence, especially for mods. The penalty for that is definately more severe than the pink and fluffy hand-cuffs
Rule 2 - obedience
Rule 3 - submission
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
........oh, sorry, I'm reading the wrong rule book here - silly me...I was reading the one I have for my.... erm.... conquests
Now, where did I put the rule book for Swinging Heaven?
I know there's something in it about frivolity being banned - having a laugh is a very serious offence, especially for mods. The penalty for that is definately more severe than the pink and fluffy hand-cuffs
Sex God
You have a magic wand too?
What other surprises do you have tucked away in that bag? Actually, forget I asked. I'm sure I'm much better off not knowing.
What other surprises do you have tucked away in that bag? Actually, forget I asked. I'm sure I'm much better off not knowing.
Sex God
I was wondering what that siren was. It's the frivolity alarm, isn't it? I'm in big trouble now. It's OK officer, I'll go quietly. Could I ask one little favour? Could you lock me up in the cell with Blue? ;-)
1. The Female always makes THE RULES.
2. THE RULES are subject to change without notice.
3. No Male can possible know all THE RULES.
4. If the Female suspects the Male knows all THE RULES, she must immediately change some of THE RULES
5. The Female is never wrong.
6. If it appears the Female is wrong, it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding caused by something the Male did or said wrong.
7. If Rule 6 applies, the Male must apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding.
8. The Female can change her mind at any time.
9. The Male must never change his mind without the express, written consent of The Female.
10. The Female has every right to be angry or upset at any time.
11. The Male must remain calm at all times, unless the Female wants him to be angry or upset.
12. The Female must, under no circumstances, let the Male know whether she wants him to be angry or upset.
13. The Male is expected to read the mind of the Female at all times.
14. At all times, what is important is what the Female meant, not what she said.
15. If the Male doesn't abide by THE RULES, it is because he can't take the heat, lacks backbone, and is a wimp.
16. If the Female has PMS, all THE RULES are null and void and the Male must cater to her every whim.
17. Any attempt to document THE RULES could result in bodily harm.
18. If the Male, at any time, believes he is right, he must refer to Rule #5.
19. Every string belongs to the oldest female posting there.
20. The Girlie Free Zone is not.
21. What Mark says goes once he has cleared it with Helen.
22. Hancuffs, slaps and strap-ons are not punishments but an occupational hazard.
Kit
P.S. PM me if you think I need to add any!
Kit
xxx
2. THE RULES are subject to change without notice.
3. No Male can possible know all THE RULES.
4. If the Female suspects the Male knows all THE RULES, she must immediately change some of THE RULES
5. The Female is never wrong.
6. If it appears the Female is wrong, it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding caused by something the Male did or said wrong.
7. If Rule 6 applies, the Male must apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding.
8. The Female can change her mind at any time.
9. The Male must never change his mind without the express, written consent of The Female.
10. The Female has every right to be angry or upset at any time.
11. The Male must remain calm at all times, unless the Female wants him to be angry or upset.
12. The Female must, under no circumstances, let the Male know whether she wants him to be angry or upset.
13. The Male is expected to read the mind of the Female at all times.
14. At all times, what is important is what the Female meant, not what she said.
15. If the Male doesn't abide by THE RULES, it is because he can't take the heat, lacks backbone, and is a wimp.
16. If the Female has PMS, all THE RULES are null and void and the Male must cater to her every whim.
17. Any attempt to document THE RULES could result in bodily harm.
18. If the Male, at any time, believes he is right, he must refer to Rule #5.
19. Every string belongs to the oldest female posting there.
20. The Girlie Free Zone is not.
21. What Mark says goes once he has cleared it with Helen.
22. Hancuffs, slaps and strap-ons are not punishments but an occupational hazard.
Kit
P.S. PM me if you think I need to add any!
Kit
xxx
Orgasminator
Bluexxx wrote,
Kit wrote, (Endlessly)
Both adherants to the Germaine Greer School of Self Delusion I think.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Dream on.
Harry0
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Never mind ladies, I still love you all.
Rule 1 - compliance
Rule 2 - obedience
Rule 3 - submission
Kit wrote, (Endlessly)
1. The Female always makes THE RULES.
2. THE RULES are subject to change without notice.
3. No Male can possible know all THE RULES.
4. If the Female suspects the Male knows all THE RULES, she must immediately change some of THE RULES
5. The Female is never wrong.
6. If it appears the Female is wrong, it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding caused by something the Male did or said wrong.
7. If Rule 6 applies, the Male must apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding.
8. The Female can change her mind at any time.
9. The Male must never change his mind without the express, written consent of The Female.
10. The Female has every right to be angry or upset at any time.
11. The Male must remain calm at all times, unless the Female wants him to be angry or upset.
12. The Female must, under no circumstances, let the Male know whether she wants him to be angry or upset.
13. The Male is expected to read the mind of the Female at all times.
14. At all times, what is important is what the Female meant, not what she said.
15. If the Male doesn't abide by THE RULES, it is because he can't take the heat, lacks backbone, and is a wimp.
16. If the Female has PMS, all THE RULES are null and void and the Male must cater to her every whim.
17. Any attempt to document THE RULES could result in bodily harm.
18. If the Male, at any time, believes he is right, he must refer to Rule #5.
19. Every string belongs to the oldest female posting there.
20. The Girlie Free Zone is not.
21. What Mark says goes once he has cleared it with Helen.
22. Hancuffs, slaps and strap-ons are not punishments but an occupational hazard.
Both adherants to the Germaine Greer School of Self Delusion I think.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Dream on.
Harry0
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Never mind ladies, I still love you all.
