why cant people on here just send a mail to say yes or no to the people who spend time replying to there adds
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Sex God
Quote by tfl
why cant people on here just send a mail to say yes or no to the people who spend time replying to there adds
TFL
okay... hypothetically speaking.... if you got hundreds of replies to your ad would you reply to every single one......
for example... just looked.....in the last 90 day... amount of pages of men seeking couples is 150 whereas amount of pages of couples seeking men is 30... so just from ads... 5 times as many....
for example pages of men seeking women is...219..... number of pages of women seeking men...5!!!....... 44 times as many!!!
i can see why people don't answer every single one... do you do a good job in selling yourself in your replies... do you reply to ads that only apply to you.???
i have applied for jobs where hundreds have gone for it and never heard back from them... so why should this be any different......it just happens to be a part of life....
sean xxxxxxx
Quote by tfl
why cant people on here just send a mail to say yes or no to the people who spend time replying to there adds
TFL
Because replying may disclose personal details.
Because they are away on holiday/ill/working away.
Because they may have too many emails to deal with .
Because sometimes people just can't be arsed.
Because some emails are just simply not worthy of a reply (after all if the sender can't be arsed to click the spell-check button).
Because they have been tipped off that you are a minger.
Because aliens have abducted them and they have been taken on an intergalactic tour.
Because the script for Emmerdale has more intellectual content than the email.
Because they are too busy laughing at your cock-shot.
Because they are out getting shagged senseless.
Because they have been evicted and the bailiffs took the PC.
Because they are a 16 year old German kid and they have not googled the photos for the reply yet.
Because they have lost their keyboard in a game of poker.
Because they have won the lottery – moved to a huge house in the country and donated their PC to Age Concern and Ethel doesn’t know how to reply.
Because you sound like a stalker.
Because they are on a world record breaking expedition to the South Pole.
Because they haven’t got a spare 50p to use at the internet café since they lost their job.
Because they are saving you for a special occasion – when is the next sacrificial festival?
Because they are too old to understand text speak.
Because the IT department reported them and their boss has put them on a final warning for using the company equipment to arrange shags.
And then of course there might be some trivial reason
Quote by lpl2janssen
And unfortunately they still get mail off single guys even though they say no single guys please,so they dont deserve a reply
Ditto the last! Also, if we have taken the time to write a decent profile and asked people who want to get in touch to tell us a bit about themselves and send a couple of photos - specifically asking them NOT to send cock shots - and all we get is a one-liner saying something to the effect of 'I am horny - fancy a fuck?' (and maybe a picture of a cock) why should we take any time replying to someone that has patently not read our profile properly and has taken no time whatsoever to make a decent approach? We don't and we won't (and, incidentally, our profile says this too)!
But I do agree that if you write to someone with a half decent e-mail, have sent a reasonable picture of yourself and you meet the essential requirements they are looking for it is pretty rude of them not to reply, even if it is only to say 'no thank you'.
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Quote by PoloLady
why cant people on here just send a mail to say yes or no to the people who spend time replying to there adds
TFL
Because replying may disclose personal details.
Because they are away on holiday/ill/working away.
Because they may have too many emails to deal with .
Because sometimes people just can't be arsed.
Because some emails are just simply not worthy of a reply (after all if the sender can't be arsed to click the spell-check button).
Because they have been tipped off that you are a minger.
Because aliens have abducted them and they have been taken on an intergalactic tour.
Because the script for Emmerdale has more intellectual content than the email.
Because they are too busy laughing at your cock-shot.
Because they are out getting shagged senseless.
Because they have been evicted and the bailiffs took the PC.
Because they are a 16 year old German kid and they have not googled the photos for the reply yet.
Because they have lost their keyboard in a game of poker.
Because they have won the lottery – moved to a huge house in the country and donated their PC to Age Concern and Ethel doesn’t know how to reply.
Because you sound like a stalker.
Because they are on a world record breaking expedition to the South Pole.
Because they haven’t got a spare 50p to use at the internet café since they lost their job.
Because they are saving you for a special occasion – when is the next sacrificial festival?
Because they are too old to understand text speak.
Because the IT department reported them and their boss has put them on a final warning for using the company equipment to arrange shags.
And then of course there might be some trivial reason
ok, my post was edited, so i'll just say nothing :mrgreen:
Sexlightened
we do try reply to everyone who sends us mail BUT whenever we update our profile we get the same replies copy and paste evey time from the same people we have already said no thx to so we made it a rule now not to reply to the ones we know we have said a no thx to and yes we do get a hell of a lot of mails and I would say we have had 20 members ask again and again after we have updated our profile reply again so there u go
Sex God
Becos u dint send me a pic 2 reply 2 n I can't be arsed anwerin stuf that int spelt rite n hasnt gor a single fing I wanna c.
Hope that helps!
Gem. x
On the other hand you might just be minging and no-one wants to shag you! :P
Hope that helps!
Gem. x
On the other hand you might just be minging and no-one wants to shag you! :P
Sex God
Quote by little gem
Becos u dint send me a pic 2 reply 2 n I can't be arsed anwerin stuf that int spelt rite n hasnt gor a single fing I wanna c.
Hope that helps!
Gem. x
On the other hand you might just be minging and no-one wants to shag you! :P
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Quote by freckledbird
Becos u dint send me a pic 2 reply 2 n I can't be arsed anwerin stuf that int spelt rite n hasnt gor a single fing I wanna c.
Hope that helps!
Gem. x
On the other hand you might just be minging and no-one wants to shag you! :P
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:What they said!!!!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Quote by outdoor_games
maybe they can't reply cos their hands are busy ! Anyway I don't care, I find developing friendships more interesting than sex !
so when your having sex, do you think 'geez, i wish i was out making friends instead of having sex' :mrgreen:
Not exactly, but I would feel a lot happier having some idea of the persons before becoming intimate and if sex was not really going to happen then at least we have enjoyed a good conversation ! I am always happy to reply to a pm ! but at the same time understand that if that person does not reply then that is not ness through bad intentions .
And on a more deeper level I feel that a lifetime friendship is far more better than a 3 minute fumble anyday !
Sex God
Quote by PoloLady
Because they may have too many emails to deal with .
I once went away for 3 days when I had just placed an ad (on another site). When I got back I have 400 emails in my inbox :shock: . "delete all" is a wonderful thing
:lol: :lol: 
:wink: :wink: Sex God
Quote by peenut
Maybe Sh could install a "magic button" that auto generates a thanks but no thanks reply !
Thanks, but no thanks
:grin:
Sex God
Quote by peenut
Maybe Sh could install a "magic button" that auto generates a thanks but no thanks reply !
Brilliant idea! :thumbup:<wait> an even better idea...
We could put one on everyone's keyboard and call it the "Delete" button
Sex God
Quote by peenut
Fair enough, I don't think I could handle wading thru all those auto rejections anyway .
As I said, "delete all" is a wonderful thing!
I got a very polite reply today saying thanks but not just now. Maybe its a case of:
1. Only replying to those who are advertising for someone like you.
2. Supply a pic, and the sort they want. Some want knob pics, some dont.
3. Not assuming they will definately want to know.
4. being respectful and well manoured.
All of these things are perfectly simple. I'm not saying you don't already, just posting my own attitude to answering adds.
1. Only replying to those who are advertising for someone like you.
2. Supply a pic, and the sort they want. Some want knob pics, some dont.
3. Not assuming they will definately want to know.
4. being respectful and well manoured.
All of these things are perfectly simple. I'm not saying you don't already, just posting my own attitude to answering adds.
Quote by duncanlondon
Do what many have done. Pose as an advertiser, whatever you want. Let the emails role in and just see how many make you want to reply, that's if you actually read them all.........................
Really not advised, because if you get caught faking, you would be banned
Jas
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Quote by getcarter
If i E V E R got a reply to one of my ads them i`m sure i would reply
Well you have to HAVE an ad to get a reply - this is what your account says
They have NO photo ads in the system at the moment
Or are you using another email address for your ad? If we can't find it we can't reply.
I know that i havent got an ad in at the moment but lied for the sake of a very funny joke (well, it made me laugh !!) I will be posting a ad with a picture soon. I`m just waiting for the rash to clear up and my hair to grow back first. But, in the meantime, if any lady wants to contact me then please feel free.
