Master of Sex
Hi I am a single genuine considerate guy trying to get a meet on here with a couple or single lady who is into swinging,but no such look. It has become very clicky over the last year or so. anyone else of a similar view.
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Sex God
with over 842,794 members on here now there are more than enough single men for cpls n fems to pick from ,for single men its all about selling your self better than the others, and yes it will be hard for single men but thats life ,dont know how you can say its clicky what is clicky for me its ppl who have met up and know each other , us in the north east room do a lot of house socials and a cpl of times a year we have really big socials where theres 80/120 ppl there and single men do come and have met and made contacts ect so if thats clicky there are single men who are in it, have a look around and see how many posts there are like this.
Mod
You posted the same previously:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/88323.html
From looking at your postings, you don't seem to have changed the way you have posted in the forums, so if it wasn't working before, it obviously still isn't working. Perhaps you may consider the way you approach this.
Your profile pics are not your best selling point, so may be worth considering changing them.
Your advert has been seen by only 10 people (one of those being me after reading your thread) since you placed it in July last year and therefore so far down the list it wouldn't come up in a search. Perhaps worth considering updating it and keep it refreshed so that others may see it?
Your user name gives the impression that you were born in 1950, which would make you closer to 60 than 50. perhaps that may put people off? You may consider changing it.
Other than that I don't know enough about you to suggest what may or may not be the problem. Bearing in mind you never responded to the thread where you previously asked this question, will you respond to this?
Hope that helps.
Mal
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/88323.html
From looking at your postings, you don't seem to have changed the way you have posted in the forums, so if it wasn't working before, it obviously still isn't working. Perhaps you may consider the way you approach this.
Your profile pics are not your best selling point, so may be worth considering changing them.
Your advert has been seen by only 10 people (one of those being me after reading your thread) since you placed it in July last year and therefore so far down the list it wouldn't come up in a search. Perhaps worth considering updating it and keep it refreshed so that others may see it?
Your user name gives the impression that you were born in 1950, which would make you closer to 60 than 50. perhaps that may put people off? You may consider changing it.
Other than that I don't know enough about you to suggest what may or may not be the problem. Bearing in mind you never responded to the thread where you previously asked this question, will you respond to this?
Hope that helps.
Mal
Sex God
lp aka horrid - bet he cant beat your eyes 
Quote by scorpio1950
Hi I am a single genuine considerate guy trying to get a meet on here with a couple or single lady who is into swinging,but no such look. It has become very clicky over the last year or so. anyone else of a similar view.
Chill out, go to socials/munches an make friends..good luck
Sex God
Quote by Plimboy
But there is another aspect to this. Society has always frowned on the single man, especially the older men get.
I suppose it has to do with the fact that men are expected to do all the chasing and the asking. For some men, "chasing" seems to be wrong.
Plim
I don't think that is the case at all.... but if you tend to post negative things..for me I don't want to meet someone who is "down on life" I want to meet someone who focuses on the positives
I don't see how being negative can help with your "sellability" so to speak....
work with the positives, make people what to believe "wow I just have to meet that person!"
Sex God
Quote by Plimboy
But there is another aspect to this. Society has always frowned on the single man, especially the older men get.
I suppose it has to do with the fact that men are expected to do all the chasing and the asking. For some men, "chasing" seems to be wrong.
Plim
You know, you wouldn't seem half as grumpy if you didn't post so much about being 'old' and end your posts with
or :(You're as old as you feel and there are a lot who think that age is just a number. Don't be so down about everything!
Suppose I'll wait for someone to bash me now
Sex God
Quote by Plimboy
But there is another aspect to this. Society has always frowned on the single man, especially the older men get.
I have never noticed this, and have to say that the majority of people on here and in real life, have the sense to take people as they find them, rather than just basing their decision on someones age/status.
As Fabio says above, its personality which counts, and a happy, positive, friendly disposition, is the first thing that I look for. If I am meeting someone, socially or otherwise, I want to know I will have a bit of a laugh and the age/status would not even come into the decision (socially of course).
If I was looking for misery, I would just watch Eastenders instead.
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
Suppose I'll wait for someone to bash me now
Now thats an offer I really cant let go -
Bend over FB, here it comes
:evil2:
Sex God
NWC you've been itching to do that for ages! :twisted:
Flower, sod off you git!
Flower, sod off you git!
Quote by Plimboy
But there is another aspect to this. Society has always frowned on the single man, especially the older men get.
I suppose it has to do with the fact that men are expected to do all the chasing and the asking. For some men, "chasing" seems to be wrong.
Plim
Plim I had this evening free so wanted to pop out for a social drink. Wouldn't have mattered to me what age, I'm just bored and have to wait to pick Ian up later on tonight. I would have liked to have seen a single guy but a single fem or couple would have been fine.
I couldn't find anyone that would just go for a bevvy
Anyway, I wouldn't want to meet you purely because all of your posts are miserable, bash single men and contain sad faces. I want fun and giggle, I don't 'expect' to get that from you
Sex God
Quote by flower411
NWC you've been itching to do that for ages! :twisted:
Flower, sod off you git!
Et tu Freckle !! :cry:
Awwwww
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
Suppose I'll wait for someone to bash me now
:giggle: Sex God
Quote by scorpio1950
Hi I am a single genuine considerate guy trying to get a meet on here with a couple or single lady who is into swinging,but no such look. It has become very clicky over the last year or so. anyone else of a similar view.
If you have been using the same bait for over a year, no wonder the fish aint biting
Sex God
Quote by scorpio1950
Hi I am a single genuine considerate guy trying to get a meet on here with a couple or single lady who is into swinging,but no such look. It has become very clicky over the last year or so. anyone else of a similar view.
No.
Sex God
Quote by helnheaven
Suppose I'll wait for someone to bash me now
:giggle: Tease - I know you love me really! :lol:
Sex God
Quote by Dawnie
I couldn't find anyone that would just go for a bevvy
Bolox :doh:
maybe next time
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
Suppose I'll wait for someone to bash me now
:giggle: Tease - I know you love me really! :lol:
:thumbup:
Mod
Quote by Dawnie
Wouldn't have mattered to me what age, I'm just bored
And you never phoned
ffs here I was sitting waiting for the phone to ring.Altho if you had rung! Would you have been able to understand me
:lol: Sex God
Quote by woohoo
Altho if you had rung! Would you have been able to understand me
och ay da noo
Mod
Ratsragemme
Woohoo ive goat a punter that kin understaun me
Woohoo ive goat a punter that kin understaun me
Sex God
Quote by woohoo
Ratsragemme
Woohoo ive goat a punter that kin understaun me
course a ken :wink:
Sex God
Quote by scorpio1950
Hi I am a single genuine considerate guy trying to get a meet on here with a couple or single lady who is into swinging,but no such look. It has become very clicky over the last year or so. anyone else of a similar view.
Curious to know what you've done to arrange a meet? Have you been to socials to get to know people. Great meets often follow from good socials. People do get meets from ads, but I think loads of people prefer to get to know people first and then arrange meets from that.
Master of Sex
Why is it so hard for a single guy to get a meet??
Because it is... that is the answer
Because it is... that is the answer
Quote by scorpio1950
Hi I am a single genuine considerate guy trying to get a meet on here with a couple or single lady who is into swinging,but no such look. It has become very clicky over the last year or so. anyone else of a similar view.
Its not if you understand chess.......maybe your still at the draughts stage......
Quote by Mal
You posted the same previously:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/88323.html
From looking at your postings, you don't seem to have changed the way you have posted in the forums, so if it wasn't working before, it obviously still isn't working. Perhaps you may consider the way you approach this.
Your profile pics are not your best selling point, so may be worth considering changing them.
Your advert has been seen by only 10 people (one of those being me after reading your thread) since you placed it in July last year and therefore so far down the list it wouldn't come up in a search. Perhaps worth considering updating it and keep it refreshed so that others may see it?
Your user name gives the impression that you were born in 1950, which would make you closer to 60 than 50. perhaps that may put people off? You may consider changing it.
Other than that I don't know enough about you to suggest what may or may not be the problem. Bearing in mind you never responded to the thread where you previously asked this question, will you respond to this?
Hope that helps.
Mal
Mal you have summed it up perfectly.
How guys expect to meet others with no pics at all or a pic of their cock baffles me all the time! Would be suprised if this guy and others like him have ever met anyone at all...we NEVER would. If they can't be bothered, then why the hell should we be?? :shock: :shock:
Quote by meat2pleaseu
I couldn't find anyone that would just go for a bevvy
Bolox :doh:
maybe next time
I never thought about asking you, stupid me :doh:
Quote by woohoo
Wouldn't have mattered to me what age, I'm just bored
And you never phoned
ffs here I was sitting waiting for the phone to ring.Altho if you had rung! Would you have been able to understand me
:lol:Woohoo I never have a clue what you are saying to me anyway :lol2:
