In the earlier thread about responding to mail, a huge majority of people said that they don't respond to winks. This put my mind at rest as I thought I may be being rude.
I am interested to hear from people who do send winks why they prefer a wink to a quick, more personal mail?
Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
Why send a wink?
Orgasminator
Quote by flower411
I have no problem at all with people who wink if they have their profile filled in and pics ..
But most winkers seem to have blank profiles !! :shock:
What do they expect ???
Seems to spring more from people that aren't full members as they can't send emails - perhaps they are hoping for a reply with different contact details.
I'm not a winker, nor do I respond to winks as I find them too impersonal
Sex God
Quote by flower411
I have no problem at all with people who wink if they have their profile filled in and pics ..
But most winkers seem to have blank profiles !! :shock:
What do they expect ???
I might be wrong but i think non members have a set amount of wink they can send out, but they can't send pm's. so it's a way of trying to get attantion and would explain the blank profile.
I know of at least one other swing site which does it like this.
I can't be arsed to send any as most people seem to hate them, it's much better for send a nice flirty PM :rascal:
Casanova
Hold that thought, I think I'll change my settings to accept winks now 
Orgasminator
Non paying members can send 2 winks a day, but they can't chat, send e-mails or post in the forums, although they can read forums (as can anyone else without having to log in). They can also receive mail sent to them although it is censored by the site software to remove e-mail addresses and phone numbers etc. I do respond to winks as its the only way of those members to make contact - its then up to us to indicate whether we are interested, and to try to persuade them to part with a little cash so that they can mail properly and exchange details.
Sex God
Quote by venus68
Hold that thought, I think I'll change my settings to accept winks now
At last! :shock:
Oops! What a giveaway.
Sex God
Never send them as never really knew what they were for ... everyones profile seems to say they don't accept them anyway ...
So what happens when you get winked?
So what happens when you get winked?
Sex God
Quote by markz
whats a wink................
Sex God
Quote by markz
whats a wink................
Oh...sorry I got my i's and a's mixed up....... :roll:
:roll:
:wanker:
:giggle:
Quote by DarkJedi
Never send them as never really knew what they were for ... everyones profile seems to say they don't accept them anyway ...
So what happens when you get winked?
What we do is just delete it. We don't look at it at all.
It clearly says in our advert NOT to send winks, but they still do. :shock:
In that case it is clearly obvious that they have not read and had no intention of reading our advert at all. Probably like a Sun reader, just interested in the pics, but not what has been written.
Ban the winks and let people write a proper reply to someone. As has been mentioned already the ones who wink the most seem to be the real lazy buggers with nothing written on their profile, and no pics. The very people we would never dream of meeting anyways.
I have to admit I am a winker, I personally dont see anything wrong with winking someone if you have got your profile filled in properly...I mean after all its only saying " hey nice profile have a gander at mine"
I wouldnt wink anyone who said they dont like winks though I would send them a nice email saying " I liked your profile take a look at ours and get in touch if you fancy chatting further"
I wouldnt wink anyone who said they dont like winks though I would send them a nice email saying " I liked your profile take a look at ours and get in touch if you fancy chatting further"
Quote by Driftwood34
Ban the winks... as when Im drunk its the easy option, then I wake up in my chair in the vain hope you foxy chicks are sending me loads of messages
And quite reasonably.. you dont
Some profiles have made me blink - but I've never sent a wink.
I've made a slogan for when drunk:
"Think before you wink if text would be best?"
Copyright: Tantiricboy2008
