We have never swung without each other and I have no plans to do it. However, as long as there was honesty about it and I knew the person he was meeting, then I don't have a problem with it (as long as I got the graphic details) :rascal: and the same goes that if I wanted to meet someone.
We just decided we dont want to do it alone but we are lucky enough as we dont need to worry about childminders etc. Perhaps if that was a consideration, then maybe we would swing alone.
I suppose you can never say never, but it certainly isn't on any of my 'to-do' lists.
We don't swing alone, but if Mollman1 did meet without me (with my knowledge), I really wouldn't want to know the gory details, so I suppose this means that we aren't ready.
We swing separately and together.
it works for us. I prefer that we meet people together, only because I know I will cum if wor lass is there, meeting someone that we both like is nothing short of a miracle so separately is more regular.
This is an odd one for us and it's something we've discussed from the outset.
I am happy to let Twiggy swing alone on the condition that we are both comfortable with who it is with. I'm not interested in playing without Twiggy.
Twiggy doesn't want to swing alone as she would want me there for the feeling of security.
Practical upshot, we will swing together.
we always swing together (even if hubby just watches he's still there as my protector)etc. he makes sure guys cover up and even spots if when they withdraw if the condoms still intact etc. once a condom had split that much half was left inside me, as i was busy at other end i never knew and probably wouldn't until i got severe pains few days guy never said a word until challenged by my hubby, this lead to end of play and a check up,so how dedicated would a "non husband" be to protect the lady in that position?
if you was dogging and a group of "bad boys" came along would he fight to the death to protect "someone else's wife"?
we feel this is the thin end of the wedge, we've seen it happen a lot in our experience, it starts off diferent rooms,then go own way with another partner swinging, diferent days, diferent holidays, divorce.
1) wasn't meant to be a sweeping statement sorry tried to say of the 4 or 5 couples who've seperated that we've personally met over the years if you backtrack few years they all came to a limit they passed lets say, which was seperate room fun and once you've done that you feel whats now wrong with going out with a diferent partner for fun.
2) i know it works for some of you guys and we wish you best of luck with it, it works for some of our good close friends however get chatting on a 1 to 1 with them we piece together a diferent story, eh it wouldn't be fun if we was all the same and had same
I would say yes,
obviously i would like to know who,where and as long as it's safe. And would like to know as much detail as possible like if she was staying over night etc.
But, i have been in an open relationship for 8yrs and we love and trust each other very much and because our relationship is this way that is why we joined up here.
As long as we are always both honest, we have no problem about it.
