BBW lover.....it is indeed a little tongue in cheek. thing I'm getting at is, you don;t always have the chance to know the personality. If you in a club or something...you can't say, oh he looks like he has a nice personality....
in reality good friendly persoanlity does go a long way.... but no matter how nice that person, if they looked like a bag of frogs...would you..could you ?
If I got to know someone and their personality appealed to me it would not matter how they looked. But I would probably have to find someone attractive to shag them without knowing them very well. Even if that attraction was not entirely physical. A persona can come across as attractive even before you know someone.
Not sure if that makes as much sense as it did in my head.
I find excessive vanity, especially when it is entirely delusional, far more repugnant than how someone physically appears. By the same token, I find warmth, kindness, approachability and friendliness attractive far more than good hair well manicured nails.
So give me an "ugly" lovely person any time, over some coiffured bitch-bag. I ceased being hung up over "looks" some time ago. But then again, I'm a hideous troll, so I am likely to say that just to get a shag.
Big tits are always a winner though, chiefly as a starting point.