Quote by bustmanuk
Made a couple of visits last couple of weeks not been fortunate enough to have any fun what is the best times and places to go if anyone could help us with this pls do send a pm with details
There are no best times to go its a matter of parking up and waiting and having patience. Ive waited for hours and nothing happened and gone weeks before anything happens. That the joy of dogging.
Quote by LapuaFair enough to disagree, but an additional question- if they are prepared to break the law, how much difference do you think it would make to close the "looking for meets" section down to whether they continue to try (and potentially be successful at) arranging meets or not?Sorry but totally disagree. We all know that there are some on here who will arrange and actually meet during current times and are therefore breaking current UK law in either travelling outside their "local" area or if not still meeting other households.
If in any of the chatrooms people are regularly warned not to discuss anything illegal in the country that they reside and if not they will face the consequences. It is not about closing the "Looking for Meet" section as long as they are enquiring for future reference. If not, as like those breaking SH rules in chatrooms, they should be warned and if persist suspended because like certain discussions in chatrooms are illegal in corresponding countries arranging to meet at present time is breaking UK Law and if they persist they should be either suspended or banned from SH. But we all know why SH will not ban anyone because it is down to money and renewing subscriptions.
Quote by LapuaQuote by MrandMrsBadWe've been through this before- the principle is that the site has and continues to note that there are rules, regulations and in some cases primary legislation (ie Laws) that tell people what they can and can't do. If the site were to open/close the 'lets meet up' section of the site for each eventuality, what do we do for example if its allowed in Wales and not England? What about if we go back to regional lockdowns and you live on the isle of Scilly and you don't have any restrictions affecting you? What about our members from other countries for example?Quote by DavenKatI actually pointed out this a few months ago on other posts ..I got hammered for it from the mods on here, telling me it's none of my business and people can decide if they meet or not..it was quite a discussion..I think it is ridiculous that meet request are still allowed to be posted on here,I think SH as a duty of care to protect others..Like those folk who are still meeting for sex , going out in to the wider public and passing Covid-19 on and possibly causing deaths..The mods who were arguing with me went to my profile and came back to slag me off for the fact we practice unprotected sex, like probably 1000"s of other members on here do..I did point out I can not pass a STD on in the queue at Tesco, but I could possibly pass on Covid-19 and kill someone, I did eventually leave the discussion, Because I was losing the battle as more mods joined in to hammer me..I think the post was taken down, I've not checked, as I have not been back to it..
Do people not actually realise we are in a national lockdown? or that thousands of people are being admitted to hospitl daily? or that the NHS is crippled partly due to people not adhering to guidelines?
Im just speechless
I take the view that the site also doesn't tell people not to speed to their next meet for example as its quite obvious everyone should know not to exceed the legal speed limit, however, still some people will and some wont obey that rule too, its not the sites fault if someone gets a speeding ticket for doing 90mph on the M25 is it?.
I think that in the first discussion you also referred back to other posts by mods at different stages of the Pandemic, as we all know the rules have changed over time, so what we must and must not do has the last year..I suspect that will continue to be the case for some time too.
I expect anyone advertising for meets at the moment where that is banned by law, is just highlighting themselves as someone who is willing to break the law for a meet- I'd certainly think that would put them on nearly everyone's "no" list, but then I might be wrong.
As for the previous discussion where you claim to have been "hammered" by the mods- I think that's unfair, we had a discussion, much like we're having here, and no, it wasn't taken down, the discussion just moved on.
Sorry but totally disagree. We all know that there are some on here who will arrange and actually meet during current times and are therefore breaking current UK law in either travelling outside their "local" area or if not still meeting other households.
I arranged an outdoor gang bang for a couple I am friends with. He wanted to just watch her having fun but it wasnt as easy as one would think, having advertised on a swinging forum had over 100 messages in 24 hrs from all over the country. Eventually arranged for 10 relatively local guys who sounded genuine and gave them time and place (local dogging area). Glorious lovely day and of the ten only 3 turned up there were 2 blokes, lucky for them, who were dogging who joined in and so including me she was gang banged by 6. She really enjoyed it but was disappointed more didnt show up, if you arrange a gang bang just be aware that if you arrange 3 they might not turn up as arranged so leaving disappointment. Sad that there are so many timewasters or those that bottle out at the last minute.
Where I frequent on the chase there have been an element of bi/gay males looking for fun for over 16yrs. The gay element never have any interest or interfere with cpls that appear the bi guys if they cannot get str8 fun then they are happy to have bi fun and switch back if a cple appear. This happens at all dogging sites and always amazes me couples who go dogging but are so anti bi/gay and have fun have no idea what those guys do before or after they have appeared. Life is too short live and let live and just have fun whatever sort you are happy with.
