Hmmm. Dilemas, Not been around for a while but I am still here when I can.
I would have liked to come just to see some friends again, but I'm afraid this clashes with my young un's birthday. Bugger!
Have a good time everyone :cry:
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Argt05
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male
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For me, I sometimes find it difficult to orgasm thru masturbation, when done by someone else!
So that kind of used to make me feel like there's something wrong with me, it's the same thru Oral!
I just don't know why?
But, it doesn't stop me from enjoying both.
I have accepted the way that I work etc, and that it is just me, that's the way I'm made!
So, were are all different and I don't see anything as a problem or issue, just try to enjoy whatever activity I try and if I don't, then I won't do it!
But I really believe there is No such thing as normal, we are all different and should enjoy that individuality more than worrying about what someone else can or can't do.
So that kind of used to make me feel like there's something wrong with me, it's the same thru Oral!
I just don't know why?
But, it doesn't stop me from enjoying both.
I have accepted the way that I work etc, and that it is just me, that's the way I'm made!
So, were are all different and I don't see anything as a problem or issue, just try to enjoy whatever activity I try and if I don't, then I won't do it!
But I really believe there is No such thing as normal, we are all different and should enjoy that individuality more than worrying about what someone else can or can't do.
Intimate, passionate, erotic evoking thoughts pounding through your mind with an instant connection with the person/s your are with.
Just a look and you know that this place, here right now it's unfolding like the petals of a summer rose.
The surroundings are a blur and the ambient noise is a dulled, muffled drone which is barely noticeable.
Holding those beating pulses of your heart as it raaces around your body, teasing your senses with a touch that both grips you and caresses your skin with such gentleness it confuses you.
A moment no matter where you are you can remember with such fine detail but yet look upon as though it wan't you there.
That's when you know your in the Zone
Just a look and you know that this place, here right now it's unfolding like the petals of a summer rose.
The surroundings are a blur and the ambient noise is a dulled, muffled drone which is barely noticeable.
Holding those beating pulses of your heart as it raaces around your body, teasing your senses with a touch that both grips you and caresses your skin with such gentleness it confuses you.
A moment no matter where you are you can remember with such fine detail but yet look upon as though it wan't you there.
That's when you know your in the Zone
I once spent the whole of North Africa's World Debt on a Very Very Special Car once.
Then because I got bored and pissed a lot, I let her go....
Big mistake, I missed her as soon as she went and have never been able to get over it.
However, things move on and I'm now thinking of buying an MV AGUSTA F1000 which will ease my pain even more.
Then because I got bored and pissed a lot, I let her go....
Big mistake, I missed her as soon as she went and have never been able to get over it.
However, things move on and I'm now thinking of buying an MV AGUSTA F1000 which will ease my pain even more.
Quote by Sassy-Seren
It happens but then they're on here for the same reasons as you so they won't be spilling too many beans.
Not a problem hun, just really funny how when you think you're not so far away from a connection to someone when you're miles away from home. where's my pm, or have you forgotten
I travel a hell of a lot with my job, and last week went to a customers house (again) to do some more work for him.
We were chatting for ages as we already had become quite friendly. No not that way! ;)
So were talkin bout girls an stuff right, an fup me, turns out he's member of SH. Yeah, but it gets better, I met a woman thru work some time ago, lives in a different part of manchester, an I started seeing her... bugger me, it was only his old neighbour!
And she'd told him all about me!
Called me a lucky Bar-steward, cos he'd been trying for ages to together with her.
Shit, small small world!
We were chatting for ages as we already had become quite friendly. No not that way! ;)
So were talkin bout girls an stuff right, an fup me, turns out he's member of SH. Yeah, but it gets better, I met a woman thru work some time ago, lives in a different part of manchester, an I started seeing her... bugger me, it was only his old neighbour!
And she'd told him all about me!
Called me a lucky Bar-steward, cos he'd been trying for ages to together with her.
Shit, small small world!
Quote by Kiss
Reading back what I posted on this thread, which I should have perhaps done before pressing submit
I think that most people fear rejection of some sorts, and you didn't come across as arrogant at all.
I probably do, but I am a softy really.
But I won't sit an wait for things to happen if that's what I'm lookin or hoping for.
I think of myself as confidently positive, and what the hell, nothing to lose!
Quote by Mallock2006
I just sold a Citroen Despatch 2001 150k miles, roof bars turbo deisel. 3 seets, mot'd taxed till xmas. 35mpg. never ever let me down in 2 years. for £1000.
Bought a new van. Transit 52 plate.
3 seets 2.0 TD from BCA Manchester. £3k
Brilliant, going for £4.5- £5k in dealers.
Get yourself to auction.
Auctions are a gold mine If you know what your looking for/at ....
If you dont take someone who does...
Very True mate, def take someone who know's a bit about motors if you don't or you might get burnt!!
Good advice
Quote by Kiss
I can't really read body language and signals that well, and I have been known to give off completely the wrong impression a lot of the time. So I just tell and ask.
If there is somebody I really want to have fun with I just ask if they want to have fun or tell them that I'm interested.
I've yet to be slapped (outside the bedroom
Good for you!!
I don't seem to have a problem... I just go for it!
If nothing comes of it then so be it!
But hey, it's gotta be worth a try hasn't it?
If you fancy someone, let them know, don't wait till it's too late! So i'll be checking my PM's in a minute then!!!
Quote by earthchild
From the tone of this thread, it would appear that the main gripe people have is the lovey dovey you're so fab Hijack!!
but it's nice I think that people do flirt
If this were a site for Bio-chemistry I'd be a bit worried, just in case that cure for SDDS ( Sudden Dick Dropoff Syndrome) wasn't getting the full attention it deserves. :cry:
But it isn't is it! It's a swingers site where we are all here to have fun and Flirt!
quote]
i dont think anyone is disputing the fact that the flirting and thread hijack has its place on the forums, the shame is when someone has posted a serious thread wanting opinions or advice and its ruined by 2 to 3 pages of multiquoting and hijacking, the odd serious post gets lost in amongst it as people skip onto the next part
Oh yes, i'm not disputing the origin of the thread, nor dismissing. I'm just passing observations and how i percieve them!
But surely those with a valued input for that topic would reply only to that! I know that I for one do!
:)
I just sold a Citroen Despatch 2001 150k miles, roof bars turbo deisel. 3 seets, mot'd taxed till xmas. 35mpg. never ever let me down in 2 years. for £1000.
Bought a new van. Transit 52 plate.
3 seets 2.0 TD from BCA Manchester. £3k
Brilliant, going for £4.5- £5k in dealers.
Get yourself to auction.
Bought a new van. Transit 52 plate.
3 seets 2.0 TD from BCA Manchester. £3k
Brilliant, going for £4.5- £5k in dealers.
Get yourself to auction.
I would like to agree with easy and many others who like me, say what they mean and are not easily offended.
I have No problems with Hijacking with regard to my own threads! Why??
Well, it can resemble a person to person conversation in most cases, because we all natter on about something or another and how many times has the conversation ended up a million miles away from the original topic??
From the tone of this thread, it would appear that the main gripe people have is the lovey dovey you're so fab Hijack!! :dry: Well, If I'm not the recipient of that lovey stuff then I just pass on to the next post etc..
Don't bother me at all!
But it's nice I think that people do flirt and I for 1 am not shy of flirting or being flirted with!
If this were a site for Bio-chemistry I'd be a bit worried, just in case that cure for SDDS ( Sudden Dick Dropoff Syndrome) wasn't getting the full attention it deserves. :cry:
But it isn't is it! It's a swingers site where we are all here to have fun and Flirt!
As for saying what you want and treading on egg shells!!
Well, I hope that what I bring to this Forum is fun, witty, possibly intelligent and interesting! I don't post for the sake of posting and what I do post is never a slur on anyone's character or anything to undermine their position here! :angel:
I'm here because I like it.. and as said previously here(as I do read through threads especially if I intend on adding to it) You can't please Everyone, you never will. Don't get hung up on that, it's a part of life!
And being a Member here you have a right to express yourself, if you feel you want to.
Be happy and enjoy
I have No problems with Hijacking with regard to my own threads! Why??
Well, it can resemble a person to person conversation in most cases, because we all natter on about something or another and how many times has the conversation ended up a million miles away from the original topic??
From the tone of this thread, it would appear that the main gripe people have is the lovey dovey you're so fab Hijack!! :dry: Well, If I'm not the recipient of that lovey stuff then I just pass on to the next post etc..
Don't bother me at all!
But it's nice I think that people do flirt
and I for 1 am not shy of flirting or being flirted with!If this were a site for Bio-chemistry I'd be a bit worried, just in case that cure for SDDS ( Sudden Dick Dropoff Syndrome) wasn't getting the full attention it deserves. :cry:
But it isn't is it! It's a swingers site where we are all here to have fun and Flirt!
As for saying what you want and treading on egg shells!!
Well, I hope that what I bring to this Forum is fun, witty, possibly intelligent and interesting! I don't post for the sake of posting and what I do post is never a slur on anyone's character or anything to undermine their position here! :angel:
I'm here because I like it.. and as said previously here(as I do read through threads especially if I intend on adding to it) You can't please Everyone, you never will. Don't get hung up on that, it's a part of life!
And being a Member here you have a right to express yourself, if you feel you want to.
Be happy and enjoy
Quote by mikensusi2020
How do you verify???
I'm single so how could I pose as couple because I'd soon get found out right?
As a single Male I have had no problem, but I can understand everyone's anger..
The way I look at it is this..
You either interested in me or you're not, so why play with fire?
You are on as a single guy, so theres no confussion. However, there are so called couple/female ads that are in fact single guys claiming to be what they are not.
Yeah I get that, but what I don't get is Why they would do it?
It doesn't make sense, I enjoy being here as me meeting people and having a laugh, but that couldn't happen if I posed as something i'm not...
PLUS, what a waste of money??
This a bit long but kinda funny me thinks... so bear with it!!
Read in Broad Yorkshire accent for great effect
Eric Idle: Who would have thought, thirty years ago, we'd all be sitting here drinking Chateau de Chaselet, eh?
All: Aye, aye.
Michael Palin: Them days we were glad to have the price of a cup of tea.
Graham Chapman: Right! A cup of cold tea!
Michael Palin: Right!
Eric Idle: Without milk or sugar!
Terry Jones: Or tea!
Michael Palin: In a cracked cup and all.
Eric Idle: Oh, we never used to have a cup! We used to have to drink out of a rolled-up newspaper!
Graham Chapman: The best we could manage was to suck on a piece of damp cloth.
Terry Jones: But you know, we were happy in those days, although we were poor.
Michael Palin: Because we were poor!
Terry Jones: Right!
Michael Palin: My old dad used to say to me: "Money doesn't bring you happiness, son!"
Eric Idle: He was right!
Michael Palin: Right!
Eric Idle: I was happier then and I had nothing! We used to live in this tiny old tumbled-down house with great big holes in
the roof.
Graham Chapman: House! You were lucky to live in a house! We used to live in one room, all twentysix of us, no furniture,
half the floor was missing, we were all huddled together in one corner for fear of falling.
Terry Jones: You were lucky to have a room! We used to have to live in the corridor!
Michael Palin: Oh, we used to dream of living in a corridor! Would have been a palace to us! We used to live in an old
watertank on a rubbish tip. We'd all woke up every morning by having a load of rotten fish dumped all over us! House, huh!
Eric Idle: Well, when I say a house, it was just a hole in the ground, covered by a sheet of tarpaulin, but it was a house to us!
Graham Chapman: We were evicted from our hole in the ground. We had to go and live in a lake!
Terry Jones: You were lucky to have a lake! There were 150 of us living in a shoebox in the middle of the road!
Michael Palin: A cardboard box?
Terry Jones: Aye!
Michael Palin: You were lucky! We lived for three months in a rolled-up newspaper in a septic tank! We used to have to go
up every morning, at six o'clock and clean the newspaper, go to work down the mill, fourteen hours a day, week in, week out,
for six pence a week, and when we got home, our dad would slash us to sleep with his belt!
Graham Chapman: Luxury! We used to have to get up out of the lake at three o'clock in the morning, clean the lake, eat a
handful of hot grubble, work twenty hours a day at mill, for two pence a month, come home, and dad would beat us around
the head and neck with a broken bottle, if we were lucky!
Terry Jones: Well, of course, we had it tough! We used to have to get up out of the shoebox in the middle of the night, and
lick the road clean with our tongues! We had to eat half a handful of freezing cold grubble, work twenty-four hours a day at
mill for four pence every six years, and when we got home, our dad would slice us in two with a breadknife!
Eric Idle: Right! I had to get up in the morning, at ten o'clock at night, half an hour before I went to bed, eat a lump of cold
poison, work twenty-nine hours a day down mill and pay millowner for permission to come to work, and when we got home,
our dad would kill us and dance about on our graves, singing Hallelujah!
Michael Palin: Aah. Are you trying to tell the young people of today that, and they won't believe you!
All: No, no they won't!
Read in Broad Yorkshire accent for great effect
Eric Idle: Who would have thought, thirty years ago, we'd all be sitting here drinking Chateau de Chaselet, eh?
All: Aye, aye.
Michael Palin: Them days we were glad to have the price of a cup of tea.
Graham Chapman: Right! A cup of cold tea!
Michael Palin: Right!
Eric Idle: Without milk or sugar!
Terry Jones: Or tea!
Michael Palin: In a cracked cup and all.
Eric Idle: Oh, we never used to have a cup! We used to have to drink out of a rolled-up newspaper!
Graham Chapman: The best we could manage was to suck on a piece of damp cloth.
Terry Jones: But you know, we were happy in those days, although we were poor.
Michael Palin: Because we were poor!
Terry Jones: Right!
Michael Palin: My old dad used to say to me: "Money doesn't bring you happiness, son!"
Eric Idle: He was right!
Michael Palin: Right!
Eric Idle: I was happier then and I had nothing! We used to live in this tiny old tumbled-down house with great big holes in
the roof.
Graham Chapman: House! You were lucky to live in a house! We used to live in one room, all twentysix of us, no furniture,
half the floor was missing, we were all huddled together in one corner for fear of falling.
Terry Jones: You were lucky to have a room! We used to have to live in the corridor!
Michael Palin: Oh, we used to dream of living in a corridor! Would have been a palace to us! We used to live in an old
watertank on a rubbish tip. We'd all woke up every morning by having a load of rotten fish dumped all over us! House, huh!
Eric Idle: Well, when I say a house, it was just a hole in the ground, covered by a sheet of tarpaulin, but it was a house to us!
Graham Chapman: We were evicted from our hole in the ground. We had to go and live in a lake!
Terry Jones: You were lucky to have a lake! There were 150 of us living in a shoebox in the middle of the road!
Michael Palin: A cardboard box?
Terry Jones: Aye!
Michael Palin: You were lucky! We lived for three months in a rolled-up newspaper in a septic tank! We used to have to go
up every morning, at six o'clock and clean the newspaper, go to work down the mill, fourteen hours a day, week in, week out,
for six pence a week, and when we got home, our dad would slash us to sleep with his belt!
Graham Chapman: Luxury! We used to have to get up out of the lake at three o'clock in the morning, clean the lake, eat a
handful of hot grubble, work twenty hours a day at mill, for two pence a month, come home, and dad would beat us around
the head and neck with a broken bottle, if we were lucky!
Terry Jones: Well, of course, we had it tough! We used to have to get up out of the shoebox in the middle of the night, and
lick the road clean with our tongues! We had to eat half a handful of freezing cold grubble, work twenty-four hours a day at
mill for four pence every six years, and when we got home, our dad would slice us in two with a breadknife!
Eric Idle: Right! I had to get up in the morning, at ten o'clock at night, half an hour before I went to bed, eat a lump of cold
poison, work twenty-nine hours a day down mill and pay millowner for permission to come to work, and when we got home,
our dad would kill us and dance about on our graves, singing Hallelujah!
Michael Palin: Aah. Are you trying to tell the young people of today that, and they won't believe you!
All: No, no they won't!
When we used to get into bother :twisted: , and I mean scrumping or knock and run etc,not Drive-by Shootings - Drug Dealing and Vandalism, the local Bobby who's Son may I add was one of us, used to clip us round the ear and tell us,'do it again and I'll tell your Dad'.
Struck Absolute terror into every one of us!
Ok, so we were mischevious, but not ruthless.
And fit as butchers dogs, cos we ate good home cooked food, which our mothers had the time to cook as they were generally at home not working! :angel:
Times have changed and although the kids and dare I say adults of today expect a lot more, it is unfortunately OUR generation that has spoiled it!
We have created this society and are reaping the rewards for so called advancement!
Fast Food-Remote controls-Internet an so on!! all for our benefit in this fast paced, fast moving world.
Kids today don't know any different, and why should they?? We didn't!!
Jury out I believe??
p.s
Don't ya just sound like ya old man when ya try an tell em??
Struck Absolute terror into every one of us!
Ok, so we were mischevious, but not ruthless.
And fit as butchers dogs, cos we ate good home cooked food, which our mothers had the time to cook as they were generally at home not working! :angel:
Times have changed and although the kids and dare I say adults of today expect a lot more, it is unfortunately OUR generation that has spoiled it!
We have created this society and are reaping the rewards for so called advancement!
Fast Food-Remote controls-Internet an so on!! all for our benefit in this fast paced, fast moving world.
Kids today don't know any different, and why should they?? We didn't!!
Jury out I believe??
p.s
Don't ya just sound like ya old man when ya try an tell em??
