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BallouBear
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 62
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Quote by H-x
Welcome to the forum.
If you were a guy you'd have been jumped up and down on by now (and not in a good way)
H.x

Absolutely you and I have a shared sentiment there H.
Double standards tends to spring to mind.
Welcome to the forum.
Quote by well_busty_babe
i would never have sex with someone i do not like, but i have had sex with many people that i learnt i disliked afterwards!

Absolutely I can connect with that sentiment WBB. I once has many fabulous times with someone I cared a lot about about, but later you find out "things", something happens that allows you to see past the "all luved up" feeling.
All that said, do I regret those times? Nope, definitely not because at the time it was all a wonderful experience.
Quote by Missy
Happens quite a lot round here, being in a smallish village and all that. People often travel or move away and then come back - it's fab!! :bounce:
I say fab, but I do tend to get a bit embarrassed afterwards, when I've stopped squealing in their face, and given them half a chance to say "sorry, do I know you :shock: "

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That bit certainly made me grin, yes you certainly do squeal, twice in one day if I recall
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Manolishi!! smackbottom smackbottom smackbottom
I squealed cos you always seem to catch me when I'm doing a quick "just pop out, tis ok looking like this, I won't see anyone :uhoh: " - and wallop, walk straight into you :shock: Guaranteed I will :lol2:
Tube train squeals tho - now they're funny!!! rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao
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Not as funny as plucking grey eybrows on a moving train, now that was a proper squeel, or was it shriek ...........
Quote by Missy
Happens quite a lot round here, being in a smallish village and all that. People often travel or move away and then come back - it's fab!! :bounce:
I say fab, but I do tend to get a bit embarrassed afterwards, when I've stopped squealing in their face, and given them half a chance to say "sorry, do I know you :shock: "

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That bit certainly made me grin, yes you certainly do squeal, twice in one day if I recall
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Certainly I have found the gels really quite good, but in all honesty I have yet to find anything as good as toothpaste, although not Sensodyne, that really does not hit the spot at all smile
The Wii light is meant to turn on when somebody from another computer or from the system itself leaves a message. You can adjust these settings on your Wii when you go to Wii connect 24 and click slot illumination. You will find some options on there.
If you are a little freaky like me and like the light on all the time, simply send your Wii an email from your computer and once your Wii gets it the light will shine and wont turn off if you don't read the message.
Lastly, I hope your enjoying it. I bought myself one as a Xmas pressie to myself and have had tons of fun on it, I actually am finding the tennis quite a good work out!!
Quote by jaymar

I disagree with Manolishi, I think some people can change, if they really really want to, it's a question of willpower and inner determination.
pink x

You are very correct, I do know of one person who's changed massively, I know of someone who used to be very bitter very offish with people, he's now a very popular wonderfully warm person. It took time tho.
But thats not necessarily someone changing, it just showing that that person did have that capacity inside them all the time, just needed to discover that side of their persona. Would that person still have the capacity to be bitter or offish? Absolutely they could, its just that they choose not to be.
The "stuff" that is inside us, is always inside us.
Take for instance a wife beater, just because he maybe would enter a new relationship and possibly will not hit his new Partner, he has the capacity to do so. Whilst with other's they just don't have that capacity to hit their Partner, it's not whats inside them.
As I said, the challenge that we all face is really understanding what it is that is inside, those bits we dislike that we recognise we hide, whilst the bits we like we expose to others.
I hope that at least some of this is making some sort of sense :shock:
Personally I don't really think that people change ever.
Whats inside has always been inside, but in some cases the individual has just not discovered it, or in some cases has discovered it, but will choose to hide it from themselves and others.
Maybe another reason why I believe life is about discovery .........
Mine has to be my Wrangler jacket, sleeveless of course. It is 30 years old and is currently draped over a 4 foot high penguin in my bedroom .......
It was really beautifully embroided by an Auntie of mine with all my favorite bands of the time ..
Ted Nugent
Lynyrd Skynyrd
Kansas
UFO
etc
etc
Just for those times over Xmas when you you can't keep away from the pc and may require some light relief.

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Oh and lastly, happy Xmas to one and all, even those on here that perceive me as someone I am not :twisted:
Am not to sure about a film, but certainly the latest Heineken add featuring monsieur lobster makes me weep ........
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Suppose you could just load a voice control programme and forget the keyboard alltogether.
That said, just talking to your pc cant be as satisfying as banging away on the keyboard ... :shock:
Trouble is she keeps burning the bacon for brekkie ......
Ah well, suppose you cant have everything ..... :twisted:
Interestingly enough, there was a report back in the early eighties that highlighted the fact that as a percentage, there were more attacks on humans by Golden Labradors than any other god in the UK. Ok, they were a popular dog at the time, which tends us to believe that in fact it is down to the owners and how they educate their dogs.
That said, there is also a responsibility on all of us to be aware of the potential danger that dogs could pose. I remember all to well taking my Pyrenean into my local pub’s garden. Many a time kids would just come up to her, no asking, but would start to play with her and on occasion, as young kids would be, be overly rough with my dog. It was a rare thing that the parents would actually approach me and ask if it would be ok for their kids just to stroke her.
Strawberries and champagne for me - just in one of those moods today.
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Congratulations to the both of you.
Its great to see love flourishing in this day and age.
Wish you two nothing but the best.
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Quote by varca
Yes to pre munch drinks. Won't get there til about but hopefully some people will still be around

I believe there are two running on this thread for two different locations, mine and Mallocks.
Quote by essex34m
no idea where the hotel im staying is, and as my journey is approx 265 miles, im not sure what time i shall be there

ahh you lightweight!
apparently 268 for me!
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Firstly, huge apologies I have not been on top of this, it has just been manic recently.
So, as stated I will be in the bar of hotel no 1 between 2:00 and 4:00 (maybe just after 2, depends on check in).
It seems on the list I have so far:
NMW Possible
MikeNorth
Debz4u
leonie&adam
Lindaxxx
Wannahavefun Possible
I will be sending out a pm probably tomorrow now, however, I will not be mentioning any locations.
Does that mean if I learn photoshop I would no longer be a fat bastard ?
Noo, better not answer that one.
Don't you just love this virtual world that we live in confused
Thank you everyone for their kind words, it really made my day.
Especially as last year was a bit of a shit to say the very least.
Woke this morning actually feeling like it was my birthday. Had a phone call from the kids then went and stuck a candle in a bourbon biccie and made my wish before blowing it out. At least the house didn’t burn down!
Once again, thank you everyone.
To those attending Saturday, absolutely we will have a few jars.
Special note to Linda, I missed my snog previously at Wigan, I may just nag you this time!!!!!
Special note to Dawnie, I hope you realise I am going to be chasing you round the dance floor on Saturday, I have loads of excuses for lots of snogs, so pucker up young lady :rascal: kiss
yes yes I know, completely off topic, but as the title is smoothies ..........
I am in the process of changing my lifestyle, more healthy eating, giving up fags, more excercise etc etc.
Anyway, bought myself an early birthday pressie last Friday, a smoothie maker and I have to say, I just love it.
Apart from going through ten ton of fruit over the weekend, I am also running out of ideas and may have to start at the beginning of the recipe book again.
So, if anyone has any suggestions for a scrummy smoothie, please let me know!!!!!
Best one for me so far, pineapple, natural yoghurt, pear and plums, twas yummy - although maybe I should add marmite in the next one ......................
Quote by rolo
can i just say a very happy birthday to manolishi birthday snogs on sat mmmmmmmm
lynnxxxxxxxxxxxx surprised lol

Note to self, remember to pack lip balm
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You do realise I am going to be looking for you everywhere now Rolo don't you. :twisted:
Oohh, another note to Earthy, remember yours as well birthday gal
Quote by Dawnie
I'm almost excited :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

Yep, its official, I amexcited :giggle:
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Mmmmmmmm
How infectious your excitement is
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Won't be long now, heck I dont even have to pack mints for my smoky breathe this time. Three days off the fags ...... Mano wanders away pondering updating his profile to reflect non smoker ...............
I used to chat to a really nice lady and we sometimes ended up having quite profound conversations. She did a lot of work with the community and when I reflected on my work I always came away thinking something was missing, certainly from a satisfaction perspective. She got me to think about stuff that, to be honest, I have not really thought about before.
I have a good job, I work bloody hard and enjoy it thoroughly. But what I do could not compare to what she did from a satisfaction perspective. To this day I have the utmost admiration of her.
It started to make me think. Now I am no way a people’s person and to be honest, would probably hinder rather than help people. After looking at myself I decided that in order to actually do something that I considered worthwhile, it didn’t necessarily have to involve helping people. It could be anything from digging ditches to helping an old lady crossing the road. Most importantly it had to give me self satisfaction that I was actually contributing.
After looking around, there was so much that I could do and intend on doing. Mainly, because of where I live, it involves outside work. The main thing is that I have taken the first step.
Without those conversations I would never have examined myself in the way that I did. Sometimes it can take the most offhand comment, or the most serious in depth conversation to make us look inside ourselves. The challenge is looking at yourself honestly and wanting to do something about what you find lurking there.
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Bloody hell, late as ever!
Many happy returns Earthy, I hope you have had a blast.
A few beers on Saturday would appear to be in order biggrin
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It is a little unfortunate, and in my opinion underhand, but a few sites operate systems that entice people to join.
Once they have paid some money then interest drops off, until such times as the subscription runs out, then, low and behold lots of interest commences again.
In some cases, a percentage of the site population will in fact be bogus and would probably be centrally controlled.
I do hope that this is not the situation with you and that you find lots of fun.
As I am now going again, I thought I would give this a gentle bump.
Mike, will be good to share a couple of jars with you matey.
Fingers crossed a few more will be prompted to get their names down.
As I said earlier, please use this thread for any pre-munch drinkies, as per Mallocks suggestions of drinks as well.
Come on down as some idiot used to say
Going again!!!!!
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Can't wait.
Roll on getting to the bar and having a few social drinks and interactions :cheers: