I agree with the emotional gap, and believe, it could be a time bomb in reality
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Bluethunder
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 43
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Hi
As per other post im 22, a boy some would say, however I like to think old for my years, intellectually offcourse.
My other issue is that ive a strong appreciation for older women. Something like 35-55? Now this isnt an add (but feel free to PM
).
Some may say its a phase (ive always been like this) and ill grow out of it-I dont think so, perhaps ill age to match it. I cant see me at 52 wanting an 80 year old woman (no offence). For example Kate capshaw (spielbergs wife-starred in love letter) is 53, now to me she is perfect. she looks better now than she did in Indianna Jones!
A lot of my friends thought i was sick to think there moms were nice, but there is a twist. My own mother is 65. Therefore 40, well isnt out of the way to me, its still young compared to a motherly impression im used too. I also find the total balance and control portrayed from most attractive well maintained intelligant professional women a rush in contrast to a girl my age concerned with status, materialism,wealth, socialisng etc.
Most people dont support or except my taste, how do you guys feel about it in here,thanks.
As per other post im 22, a boy some would say, however I like to think old for my years, intellectually offcourse.
My other issue is that ive a strong appreciation for older women. Something like 35-55? Now this isnt an add (but feel free to PM
).Some may say its a phase (ive always been like this) and ill grow out of it-I dont think so, perhaps ill age to match it. I cant see me at 52 wanting an 80 year old woman (no offence). For example Kate capshaw (spielbergs wife-starred in love letter) is 53, now to me she is perfect. she looks better now than she did in Indianna Jones!
A lot of my friends thought i was sick to think there moms were nice, but there is a twist. My own mother is 65. Therefore 40, well isnt out of the way to me, its still young compared to a motherly impression im used too. I also find the total balance and control portrayed from most attractive well maintained intelligant professional women a rush in contrast to a girl my age concerned with status, materialism,wealth, socialisng etc.
Most people dont support or except my taste, how do you guys feel about it in here,thanks.
Damn- that doesnt sound like what i wanted to hear doc, cant you just give me a shot and clear me for duties?
Makes sense actually, as i said, im circumcised, and require a lot of lube! And and stroke to the beat, if you catch my drift.
One thing that does seem to work fine though is BJs!
Ah, to have an understanding woman.
Ive also another problem, ill post a new topic for that one (if you dont mind)
Makes sense actually, as i said, im circumcised, and require a lot of lube! And and stroke to the beat, if you catch my drift.
One thing that does seem to work fine though is BJs!
Ah, to have an understanding woman.
Ive also another problem, ill post a new topic for that one (if you dont mind)
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Geez I whish I had some normal hobbies that don't cost arms and legs
Ill second that re-lapse, mine is flying and driving (as competitively as possible). The main one is flying (hence the name) although at £233 p/h i cant afford choppers so stick to planes. The motor racing is expensive too, just trashed my gearbox on my saab at anglesey (race saab turbo's). That'll keep me busy whilst the nights are still long replacing that bugger.
darn interesting trend with the bikes though, and art. :idea:
Quote by MISSCHIEF
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First one - you said you pick up girls when you're out. I presume this is at a club or something, therefore alcohol involved? :
Second one - Try meeting someone, not sleeping with em, taking them out another night . Then spend a whole afternoon/evening just on foreplay - not going at it like trains :lol2: just take it slow and explore each other. Gentle touches and caresses is a lot more erotic than banging away at each other. Doesn't have to be just intimate touches either, a cuddle and a giggle in between is fun too!
Never do 'token' foreplay,
Oh and Welcome to the forums by the way
Thanks-and no thats not crap, ive taken it all in-honest
You know your right,however; mostly; first booze is not involved, i try to stay aware of what im doing :roll:
Secondly, ive never slept with anyone I cared about ( i mean emotionally) that I think makes me feel guilty and doesnt help. So i guess token foreplay would be accuarate
However, most chaps i know (certainly may age) will cum in anything (pardon that
). Most guys, well once they got going, even if they dont fancy the girl and she's got bad breath and its there mothers sister or whatever, end up shooting there load quickly. In reality most guys have the opposite problem, show them a woman, let them spend a few moments with her and "pop" 
all over. Some of these girls have been cracking looking, real nice figures, smelt lovely etc etc. And theres me acting like a total bore. I end up carrying on (token-as you put it) for there sake, and they dont seem to mind :roll: Think its time i got a girlfriend perhaps huh,lol
: thanks for all the advice. (and you stilleto, yeah i do squeeze :wink: )
THANKYOU LADIES
Hi folks
Ill welcome myself to swinging heaven.
To start, some help/advice from anyone experianced/ing the same problem as me!
The Background:
Im 22, highly sexually charged (masturbate most nights/mornings/ aftrenoons etc ) and think about sex a lot. I find many different things attractive but in majority am turned on by standard stuff and conventional styles/ people etc (i dont need anyhting extreme to get me going).
I regularly go out and often succesfully find someone to sleep with. If im lucky enough to actually have somewhere to spend time with them (some girls wont let you take them home and prefer outdoors :wink: ); like to make it as worthwhile as possible with foreplay and exploration.
Now ive no problem getting an erection, but dont seem to get much else out of the sensation. Normally I end up hard, but totally de-sensatised and after time completely bored/pissed off. Usual encounters leave a partner going like a train on me and I literally cant feel a thing, dont even know wether Im still hard (in most cases i am) And I never get to a point where im going to cum :cry:
Points to think about:
Now I can manage it fine myself, or is that the problem (to used to my own feel/ technique?).
Im circumcised, maybe this has something to do with it?
I am of good size and find that I can accomadate the partner well!-so will rule that out
I think maybe the condom isnt doing me any favours either.
Its not alchohol related
is it that the person isnt turning me on enough?
As you can imagine, this isnt good to me or the person im with, and it leaves them feeling like they've done something wrong, which I feel isnt fair as its me with the problem.
To summarise, when I fuck a woman 9/10 I dont cum.
Ok, so if any of you experts have any advice or tips, please please let me know.
Thanks a lot in advance
Ross
Ill welcome myself to swinging heaven.
To start, some help/advice from anyone experianced/ing the same problem as me!
The Background:
Im 22, highly sexually charged (masturbate most nights/mornings/ aftrenoons etc
) and think about sex a lot. I find many different things attractive but in majority am turned on by standard stuff and conventional styles/ people etc (i dont need anyhting extreme to get me going).I regularly go out and often succesfully find someone to sleep with. If im lucky enough to actually have somewhere to spend time with them (some girls wont let you take them home and prefer outdoors
:wink: ); like to make it as worthwhile as possible with foreplay and exploration. Now ive no problem getting an erection, but dont seem to get much else out of the sensation. Normally I end up hard, but totally de-sensatised and after time completely bored/pissed off. Usual encounters leave a partner going like a train on me and I literally cant feel a thing, dont even know wether Im still hard (in most cases i am)
And I never get to a point where im going to cum :cry: Points to think about:
Now I can manage it fine myself, or is that the problem (to used to my own feel/ technique?).
Im circumcised, maybe this has something to do with it?
I am of good size and find that I can accomadate the partner well!-so will rule that out
I think maybe the condom isnt doing me any favours either.
Its not alchohol related
is it that the person isnt turning me on enough?
As you can imagine, this isnt good to me or the person im with, and it leaves them feeling like they've done something wrong, which I feel isnt fair as its me with the problem.
To summarise, when I fuck a woman 9/10 I dont cum.
Ok, so if any of you experts have any advice or tips, please please let me know.
Thanks a lot in advance
Ross
