Twice in my lifetime had this kind of relationship, first about 6 years and second over a year. Twice failed because of  feelings. Once I want something more and other time she wants to be Mrs.... Question is - is there someone who have   this relationship working for long time and how you menage that? 

Have same feeling, but on my other site i can pay for membership monthly and by sms also I have more local choices and updates so I know about every met possible at the minute for me also is great tool to gain trust from people ''verification'' if we have met ,write short statement about encounter and you can post it on your wall or just keep it for you. This site do not offer tools like this and membership price is the same . I keep my account hire probably for  sentimental reasons it is first site I join. Never had luck to meet someone thru SH but hopefully someday it happen.  

I am member of La Chambre in Sheffield almost ten years.