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Bisexual Female, 40
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Sexpert
There are some superb choices in France elsewhere, you just need to do some good searches on google. At last count, we had about 200 Clubs for France on our list.
Germany also has several that cater for people travelling around Europe.
Germany also has several that cater for people travelling around Europe.
Sexpert
Debs, to give you some idea,
We have been to about 15 clubs on the trot in the last 5 months, and we don't think there was one night where there wasn't at least 5 single females there.
You'll find that most clubs are single females and Couples Only on a Saturday, and Friday it tends to be mixed.
If its a good club, a typical mix on a Friday night might be something like 20 guys plus, 5 to 10 Couples and 5 females
A Saturday would typically be around 50 Couples and 5 females.
Jed has recommended some great venues (Mids Couple) above, and it really depends what you want from your night out, if you want a bit of a dance as well as some fun Atlantis is by a mile the best venue in your area for that, and people make an effort to dress up and they get a lovely crowd in too.
Cupids and Cams are more like the type of club where you wear a towel or lingerie, it puts everyone in the same boat from the off, but some people prefer to dress up, or just don't find towels that flattering. Both of those clubs are also good choices though, despite some of the single men having limited conversational ability. (Some of the ones at Chams are very nice though, Cupids was a long time ago for us)
If you need any advice on the topic drop either us or MidsCouple a line, they are also extremely helpful, and they also run a BnB which you can stay at when you visit the club, which can be very useful. They will also run you to and back from the place.
We have been to about 15 clubs on the trot in the last 5 months, and we don't think there was one night where there wasn't at least 5 single females there.
You'll find that most clubs are single females and Couples Only on a Saturday, and Friday it tends to be mixed.
If its a good club, a typical mix on a Friday night might be something like 20 guys plus, 5 to 10 Couples and 5 females
A Saturday would typically be around 50 Couples and 5 females.
Jed has recommended some great venues (Mids Couple) above, and it really depends what you want from your night out, if you want a bit of a dance as well as some fun Atlantis is by a mile the best venue in your area for that, and people make an effort to dress up and they get a lovely crowd in too.
Cupids and Cams are more like the type of club where you wear a towel or lingerie, it puts everyone in the same boat from the off, but some people prefer to dress up, or just don't find towels that flattering. Both of those clubs are also good choices though, despite some of the single men having limited conversational ability. (Some of the ones at Chams are very nice though, Cupids was a long time ago for us)
If you need any advice on the topic drop either us or MidsCouple a line, they are also extremely helpful, and they also run a BnB which you can stay at when you visit the club, which can be very useful. They will also run you to and back from the place.
Sexpert
Ourplace4fun does a gang bang night on Tuesday nights, its one of the friendliest clubs in London.
Sexpert
We are at Chams this coming Saturday in Darlaston, so any friends on here, old or new, do come and say hi.
Sexpert
As the couple above states, Liberty is a very good choice, as is Vanilla Alternative and Tease II.
We will be at Liberty tonight and on the 25th and at VA on the 2nd of June so happy to say hi and chat to you if you see us come over.
A and A x
We will be at Liberty tonight and on the 25th and at VA on the 2nd of June so happy to say hi and chat to you if you see us come over.
A and A x
Sexpert
The right club on the right night can be an excellent choice for a first timer couple.
Try VA, you won't find anything intimidating about it. Make sure you go on a Saturday, which is couples only. Its very social and the main part of the club is just like a normal night club.
You can take your time, socialise with people if you wish, and have no pressure at all.
Socials can be fun too, but often they can be more cliquey than a club. VA is not one of the cliquey clubs we've been to, so you should be fine in that regard.
A and A
Try VA, you won't find anything intimidating about it. Make sure you go on a Saturday, which is couples only. Its very social and the main part of the club is just like a normal night club.
You can take your time, socialise with people if you wish, and have no pressure at all.
Socials can be fun too, but often they can be more cliquey than a club. VA is not one of the cliquey clubs we've been to, so you should be fine in that regard.
A and A
Sexpert
We can advise your group on clubs in the London and SE area, I think we've personally been to the lot.
(Except for the real fun club)
(Except for the real fun club)
Sexpert
The promised photos seem a rather long time in coming. Wonder why that is? Hmmmmmmmmm
Sexpert
Depending on the type of club, most girls normally go for a cocktail dress or something similar and smart casual for the men.
At some clubs you all wear a towel, depends where you go.
At some clubs you all wear a towel, depends where you go.
Sexpert
Been on a couple of Fridays back in 2008, and obviously that was a while ago, but there was around 50 people.
Most clubs are struggling with numbers on Fridays at the moment.
Most clubs are struggling with numbers on Fridays at the moment.
Sexpert
Ditto on Liberty Elite, one of our personal faves.
Adfabs is also very good.
It also does depend on what type of club you want, would you feel more comfortable dressing up or would you prefer the sauna style enviroment?
Both those mentioned above are dress up clubs, though they also have wet facilities.
Adfabs is also very good.
It also does depend on what type of club you want, would you feel more comfortable dressing up or would you prefer the sauna style enviroment?
Both those mentioned above are dress up clubs, though they also have wet facilities.
Sexpert
Just talk to them socially first and take it from there.
Make sure you talk to your lady first about what she does and doesnt want to do on any given night, so you don't start situation that makes her feel uncomfortable.
Remember she is there to have a good time to, not to facilatate you getting one.
Don't go to a club with a fixed agenda. You will go several times and not play at all, sometimes its just not the right time, you should be able to have fin with her anyway, and view anything that you both are willing to take further as a bonus.
Chat to people and make some friends - Some people find it easier to be very assertive and dive right in, others do not.
The important thing is that you communicate, both with your partner, and with others.
Good luck, its a wild ride.
Make sure you talk to your lady first about what she does and doesnt want to do on any given night, so you don't start situation that makes her feel uncomfortable.
Remember she is there to have a good time to, not to facilatate you getting one.
Don't go to a club with a fixed agenda. You will go several times and not play at all, sometimes its just not the right time, you should be able to have fin with her anyway, and view anything that you both are willing to take further as a bonus.
Chat to people and make some friends - Some people find it easier to be very assertive and dive right in, others do not.
The important thing is that you communicate, both with your partner, and with others.
Good luck, its a wild ride.
Sexpert
You have CLUB F near Durham just below Newcastle which is a good club, we are going there in June.
The reason there isn't many clubs in Scotland is because of local council policy. There is CJ's townhouse which without looking I think was in Glasgow, and there is another club just below the castle in Edinburgh which is very basic (being polite there)
A group called Blue Velvet use to run the best parties in Scotland, but we believe they have stopped now.
The reason there isn't many clubs in Scotland is because of local council policy. There is CJ's townhouse which without looking I think was in Glasgow, and there is another club just below the castle in Edinburgh which is very basic (being polite there)
A group called Blue Velvet use to run the best parties in Scotland, but we believe they have stopped now.
Sexpert
We would recommend Cupids as its going through a refurb and many positive changes from what we have been told.
Went to Adam and Eves once, never again.
Partners in bury has alot of fans, but if you can get out to Blackpool, there's a few clubs there to, the best of which is probably Infusions.
Went to Adam and Eves once, never again.
Partners in bury has alot of fans, but if you can get out to Blackpool, there's a few clubs there to, the best of which is probably Infusions.
Sexpert
We were going to but have to work early on the 29th so its out for us now.
Sexpert
We will be at Atlantis Evolution May 5th (Saturday, Couples only night)
Any other SH peeps going that weekend?
If so drop us a line and say hi.
A and A
Any other SH peeps going that weekend?
If so drop us a line and say hi.
A and A
Sexpert
As above,
They can be great, but we prefer permanent clubs.
Killing Kittens are at different venues all the time.
They can be great, but we prefer permanent clubs.
Killing Kittens are at different venues all the time.
Sexpert
We will be there on the 19th of May, (advanced heads up) as sure there will loads in tonight though...
Sexpert
We just received the sad news about David, one of the founders of Adfabs, we will copy and paste it below. I first met him on our first visit, wow, back in 2005 I think that would have been and we had a longer chat with him about his plans and the layout of the club. He was a very nice man, even if he could be a stick in the mud sometimes.
This is the mail from the club -
Many of you will have been aware that David, one of the co-owners of our club, has recently been suffering from ill health.
Regrettably, David has lost his battle with cancer. He passed away peacefully early on Wednesday morning.
He was very much lifted by all your messages of support and your kind thoughts throughout his unexpected and untimely illness. He received so much strength and solace knowing that you had been thinking of him.
Over the past year, David had taken a step back from the day-to-day running of the business, though he remained connected and involved right to the end.
AbFabParties, Kestrel Hydro and HDZ, still managed by his business partner, Graham, and looked after each day by a team of stalwart and dedicated staff and party hosts, have continued to run with David's and Graham's mission in mind - to provide the best, most stylish venue in the UK for like-minded party people to meet, have fun, make friends and live life to the full!
The loss to us at AbFabParties will be immeasurable (he was a much loved and respected business partner, boss, confidant, mentor and dear, dear friend), but it was David's absolute wish that the party goes on...he was very proud of what he had helped to create and some of his proudest moments were receiving feedback from party guests whose lives had changed because of the AbFab experience.
With this in mind, we continue to present our parties in the spirit which David would have wanted - with passion, vision, style and freedom...a good old "knees-up", AbFabParties Style, which David would have been proud of and would have enjoyed immensely...
At David's family's request, we will be collecting donations for the Princess Alice Hospice.
Donations can be made directly via the hospice's website or via the donation box we will be placing at reception.
This is the mail from the club -
Many of you will have been aware that David, one of the co-owners of our club, has recently been suffering from ill health.
Regrettably, David has lost his battle with cancer. He passed away peacefully early on Wednesday morning.
He was very much lifted by all your messages of support and your kind thoughts throughout his unexpected and untimely illness. He received so much strength and solace knowing that you had been thinking of him.
Over the past year, David had taken a step back from the day-to-day running of the business, though he remained connected and involved right to the end.
AbFabParties, Kestrel Hydro and HDZ, still managed by his business partner, Graham, and looked after each day by a team of stalwart and dedicated staff and party hosts, have continued to run with David's and Graham's mission in mind - to provide the best, most stylish venue in the UK for like-minded party people to meet, have fun, make friends and live life to the full!
The loss to us at AbFabParties will be immeasurable (he was a much loved and respected business partner, boss, confidant, mentor and dear, dear friend), but it was David's absolute wish that the party goes on...he was very proud of what he had helped to create and some of his proudest moments were receiving feedback from party guests whose lives had changed because of the AbFab experience.
With this in mind, we continue to present our parties in the spirit which David would have wanted - with passion, vision, style and freedom...a good old "knees-up", AbFabParties Style, which David would have been proud of and would have enjoyed immensely...
At David's family's request, we will be collecting donations for the Princess Alice Hospice.
Donations can be made directly via the hospice's website or via the donation box we will be placing at reception.
Sexpert
Good parties, well run normally.
Been a while since we went to one, as we prefer permanent clubs than organised parties, but can't think of anything bad to say about them, you get some lovely peeps there, and in your age range, so you should have a good time.
Been a while since we went to one, as we prefer permanent clubs than organised parties, but can't think of anything bad to say about them, you get some lovely peeps there, and in your age range, so you should have a good time.
Sexpert
I think we were due to go that night, but we might have to go slightly later in the month now.
We understand their Friday nights are actually their busier nights normally...
We understand their Friday nights are actually their busier nights normally...
Sexpert
When its not a swingers club, its essentially a knocking shop, so make of that what you will.
It is not a club that is very representive of whats on the scene in our view,
It is not a club that is very representive of whats on the scene in our view,
Sexpert
It seems to be getting a good reputation and is friendly, call the owners regarding the t-girl thing, as we are not sure on that.
Sexpert
No.
Atlantis is still going has had a total refurb and is now called Atlantis Evoloution. Superb club and way better than the old one.
Adventures is in what was an old pole dancing club.
Atlantis is still going has had a total refurb and is now called Atlantis Evoloution. Superb club and way better than the old one.
Adventures is in what was an old pole dancing club.
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