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DeeandElle
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
Bi-curious Female, 50
0 miles · West Lothian

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Quote by loveshell74
I'm finding this site hard work at the moment. When I first joined I had more time to waste in the chat rooms. But it seems few bother to responds to emails even with a polite refusal.
I saw on one profile a comment to the effect "we don't reply to mails saying hi I like your profile please look at mine and let me know if you're interested". It leaves me wondering what else you should/can say in an introductory email? The longer your here and the more cynical and jaded you get the more your outgoing emails are going to take that form aren't they? So what would people recommend saying as the best way to introduce themselves and what would they like to hear that the unwashed masses just aren't giving them? :-o

As a couple, we get a few one liners and winks and to be honest they do nothing for us. If however, someone takes the time to send a message that's well thought out and relevant to us, then that's something that would take our interest.
It's all about standing our from the crowd as a single guy, pay attention to what the couple is asking for and if you see yourself as being a good fit for that then let them know. Some want face pics, some want cock pics. Some want hung studs, some want the guy next door.
Unfortunately, if you're feeling jaded and frustrated, that may come across in your approach.
Good luck.
Quote by loveshell74
I'm finding this site hard work at the moment. When I first joined I had more time to waste in the chat rooms. But it seems few bother to responds to emails even with a polite refusal.
I saw on one profile a comment to the effect "we don't reply to mails saying hi I like your profile please look at mine and let me know if you're interested". It leaves me wondering what else you should/can say in an introductory email? The longer your here and the more cynical and jaded you get the more your outgoing emails are going to take that form aren't they? So what would people recommend saying as the best way to introduce themselves and what would they like to hear that the unwashed masses just aren't giving them? :-o

As a couple, we get a few one liners and winks and to be honest they do nothing for us. If however, someone takes the time to send a message that's well thought out and relevant to us, then that's something that would take our interest.
It's all about standing our from the crowd as a single guy, pay attention to what the couple is asking for and if you see yourself as being a good fit for that then let them know. Some want face pics, some want cock pics. Some want hung studs, some want the guy next door.
Unfortunately, if you're feeling jaded and frustrated, that may come across in your approach.
Good luck.
Quote by loveshell74
I'm finding this site hard work at the moment. When I first joined I had more time to waste in the chat rooms. But it seems few bother to responds to emails even with a polite refusal.
I saw on one profile a comment to the effect "we don't reply to mails saying hi I like your profile please look at mine and let me know if you're interested". It leaves me wondering what else you should/can say in an introductory email? The longer your here and the more cynical and jaded you get the more your outgoing emails are going to take that form aren't they? So what would people recommend saying as the best way to introduce themselves and what would they like to hear that the unwashed masses just aren't giving them? :-o

As a couple, we get a few one liners and winks and to be honest they do nothing for us. If however, someone takes the time to send a message that's well thought out and relevant to us, then that's something that would take our interest.
It's all about standing our from the crowd as a single guy, pay attention to what the couple is asking for and if you see yourself as being a good fit for that then let them know. Some want face pics, some want cock pics. Some want hung studs, some want the guy next door.
Unfortunately, if you're feeling jaded and frustrated, that may come across in your approach.
Good luck.
We are out in Edinburgh tomorrow night with hotel. Would love to hear from any couples in a similar position.
Have fun!
Under 40 single males welcome to PM for detail, profile must be detailed and have pics.
Thanks
We managed to find a fitted sheet that's a material on the top and rubber on the bottom, so when it happens it's absolutely no problem, we really enjoy it!
Wiki "Hot Wife" - the description may be more towards your thinking and certainly might be somewhere to start.
If you want to take it further then cuckolding might be for you.
Good luck with it.
When Elle says "get my thing" I know it's the platinum rabbit she wants!
On a side note, we keep toys etc in a metal box so if our house burnt to the ground with us in it, all people would have to remember us by would be the Ann Summers collection 2005-2009!
Profile looks great to us and you come across as someone who couples would be comfortable inviting into their relationship.
Couples tend to like relaxed discrete guys so this approach will pay dividends in time.
Good luck.
Dee
It's a shame because if guys would just be themselves then they would have a greater chance of actually getting what they seek.
Mate,
I hadn't been at the dentist for a number of years till a couple of years ago. To be honest the worst part of dentistry is the anxiety you're going through right now.
If you look at the Yellow Pages you will see dentists who advertise that they are understanding of phobic patients. You're well advised to go to one of these as they will treat you in line with the stress you're suffering.
The best thing you can do is agree what needs to be done and get him/her to do the simple stuff first thus building your confidence. You can also try the numbing gel which will take the scratch away from the injection.
Like any phobia, the actual is not nearly as bad as the anxiety and I promise this won't be a fraction as bad as you think.
We've had a bad experience before and it really put my wife off. Although you can understand genuine guys disappointment.