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I thought I might pose a query to the lovely ladies out there, and so any answers - from anyone for that matter - would be greatly appreciated.
Here goes:
With Christmas fast approaching, the question of gifts for loved ones begins to rear its ugly head. Aside from the usual (perfume, gadgets, clothing), what in your opinion would be an appropriate gift for my lovely fiance?
A little background information will show the relevance here.
I have been "seeing" people for one offs and sex etc for my all my adult life. I am a naturally kinky, hedonistic person. My other half, however, is not. She's vanilla, and has the sex drive of a split pea.
I am in love with her and though I've still been trying to work my way into "proper" swinging, I now realise that more than anything else I want to be with her. BUT the purpose of this present is very specific...
I want to be able to get her something that will coax her into my way of thinking. I don't ever want to puch or pressure her into anything she doesn't want to do, but if I can get her thinking about sex as fun, then we're making progress... might even get to my ultimate goal of seeing her screw another guy someday.
So, in a nutshell: Sexy gift to get her into sex more. Ladies? What would YOU want?
thanks in anticipation,
Kind regards,
Teep. -x-
I thought I might pose a query to the lovely ladies out there, and so any answers - from anyone for that matter - would be greatly appreciated.
Here goes:
With Christmas fast approaching, the question of gifts for loved ones begins to rear its ugly head. Aside from the usual (perfume, gadgets, clothing), what in your opinion would be an appropriate gift for my lovely fiance?
A little background information will show the relevance here.
I have been "seeing" people for one offs and sex etc for my all my adult life. I am a naturally kinky, hedonistic person. My other half, however, is not. She's vanilla, and has the sex drive of a split pea.
I am in love with her and though I've still been trying to work my way into "proper" swinging, I now realise that more than anything else I want to be with her. BUT the purpose of this present is very specific...
I want to be able to get her something that will coax her into my way of thinking. I don't ever want to puch or pressure her into anything she doesn't want to do, but if I can get her thinking about sex as fun, then we're making progress... might even get to my ultimate goal of seeing her screw another guy someday.
So, in a nutshell: Sexy gift to get her into sex more. Ladies? What would YOU want?
thanks in anticipation,
Kind regards,
Teep. -x-
