We think they are VERY sexy, that's why we both (Mr F and I) had ours pierced but only one!
It definitely increases to the sensation hee hee!
There is a pic on our profile of mine. Go on have a peek!
xxx
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Well you said ladies could comment as well, after a brief (no pun intended) conversation and a few confused looks and comments such as "well where ever my trouser take it", I suddenley announced your right handed and dress to the left, reason I know was from the time's we have sat in the car i'm in the passengar seat, I never reach all the way over to enjoy arousing my sexy fiance!
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I felt I had to add to this thread, living with my sexy fiance who regularly enjoy's multipule squirting orgasm's WOW i'd love to experience her orgasms!! As for orgasm without ejaculation have had it happen a couple of times but not many through out my limited (no comment your honour, honestly!) experience.
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Hello there all you sexy peeps,
At last we eventually have a child free weekend and we intend to enjoy it, hotels booked, outfit's choosen .............so any sexy saucy single bi fem's wanna join us for a night of passion, excitement and pure flirtatious fun????
Drop us a line and let the planning begin hee hee :twisted: !
If anyone see's us there just come say hi!
At last we eventually have a child free weekend and we intend to enjoy it, hotels booked, outfit's choosen .............so any sexy saucy single bi fem's wanna join us for a night of passion, excitement and pure flirtatious fun????
Drop us a line and let the planning begin hee hee :twisted: !
If anyone see's us there just come say hi!
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So come on all you sexy peeps who else is off to La Chambre on Saturday night??
Looking like its going to be another fantastic night, birthdays to be celebrated and fun to be had!!
For anyone who hasn't be to La Chambre before it's a great club, fantastic social / sexual atmosphere, best place for first timers!
If you see us don't be shy, please say hi lol.
Looking like its going to be another fantastic night, birthdays to be celebrated and fun to be had!!
For anyone who hasn't be to La Chambre before it's a great club, fantastic social / sexual atmosphere, best place for first timers!
If you see us don't be shy, please say hi lol.
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Hey hey,
we're going tonight not been for AGES so will really looking forward to it!!
If you see us (probably in smoking area or pool) lol Come say hi.
See you all later
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we're going tonight not been for AGES so will really looking forward to it!!
If you see us (probably in smoking area or pool) lol Come say hi.
See you all later
xxx
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Oh we love duvet days! We do always tend to always have duvet days together, bed settee out in living room.
Films well toss up between all the Saw films (gotta love a good horror) or sex in the city, bride wars chick flick kinda films (if Mr F is feeling particually patient lol).
Food wise well chunky kit kats are a must(have a slight addiction going on lol)!! Pizza, popcorn, crisps that kinda thing, drinks wise if we haven't gotta pick the kids up it has gotta be stella and smirnoff, but on a driving day it's defo coffee!!
Can't beat a day in bed, curtans closed and well lets say we never see all of every film we watch hee hee.
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Films well toss up between all the Saw films (gotta love a good horror) or sex in the city, bride wars chick flick kinda films (if Mr F is feeling particually patient lol).
Food wise well chunky kit kats are a must(have a slight addiction going on lol)!! Pizza, popcorn, crisps that kinda thing, drinks wise if we haven't gotta pick the kids up it has gotta be stella and smirnoff, but on a driving day it's defo coffee!!
Can't beat a day in bed, curtans closed and well lets say we never see all of every film we watch hee hee.
xx
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Resonance,
Thank you for your comments and we haven't taken them as criticism, as you has mentioned we must have been very fortunate not to have recieved bad comments (actually we must have be very lucky from all we have heard!!)
We are not ones to hold any grudges, we have actually re done our profile and ad (hopefully not a used car ad any more and maybe now (fingers crossed) just a little bit special lol) following the advice, constructive direction and feedback from SH members both on here and via pm.
We don't want to get barred we have only just started, the last thing we intended as "newbies" in the forums was to afford criticism to any member of SH!
Please can we all be friends now pretty please??? (hope we're not known as "the snappy trolls").
Mr Powers - are we "groooooovy baby" ???
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Thank you for your comments and we haven't taken them as criticism, as you has mentioned we must have been very fortunate not to have recieved bad comments (actually we must have be very lucky from all we have heard!!)
We are not ones to hold any grudges, we have actually re done our profile and ad (hopefully not a used car ad any more and maybe now (fingers crossed) just a little bit special lol) following the advice, constructive direction and feedback from SH members both on here and via pm.
We don't want to get barred we have only just started, the last thing we intended as "newbies" in the forums was to afford criticism to any member of SH!
Please can we all be friends now pretty please??? (hope we're not known as "the snappy trolls").
Mr Powers - are we "groooooovy baby" ???
xx
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Eh lady don't say stuff like that we'll be in trouble again! 
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Must apologies, we realised we could have all 3 chat servers open at once, had we seen you say hello then we defo would have said hello back!
We have realised we are a single chatroom kinda couple, we can't cope otherwise lol.
sorry
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We have realised we are a single chatroom kinda couple, we can't cope otherwise lol.
sorry
xx
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so how's about:
2 careful drivers seeking a not so old banger, for regular run arounds, must be able to go the distance, be econmonical, twin airbags a must, safety always.
2 careful drivers seeking a not so old banger, for regular run arounds, must be able to go the distance, be econmonical, twin airbags a must, safety always.
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Sat on a sports bike your arse may look good, shame you have no idea you have no arse after about half hour, specially sat on that tiny rectangle of plastic that call a pillion seat lol!
Well all we can say now is watch this space (ok not literally this one!) for a new and updated used car ad, sorry profile lol!
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Well all we can say now is watch this space (ok not literally this one!) for a new and updated used car ad, sorry profile lol!
xx
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Have to say we love the leathers looks and it be great for that extra layer of skin, but they take way to long to take off!! lol
Easy, constructive criticism and liking us to a used car in the same sentence your just to kind haha. After your comments about our advert and mentioning the negative elements with we can see what you mean.
Our to do list tonight now consists of trawling adverts in order to steal steal steal!
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Easy, constructive criticism and liking us to a used car in the same sentence your just to kind haha. After your comments about our advert and mentioning the negative elements with we can see what you mean.
Our to do list tonight now consists of trawling adverts in order to steal steal steal!
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We would like to say a BIG thank you to Anais, Mancunian, Theladyisaminx, Deancannock and Kentswingers777.
Writing a forum post is quite hard, as the written word can be misunderstood as mentioned by Theladyisaminx, it was genuine request, we were looking for advice / direction from people who have had success on this site. We are not completely new, neither are we totally naive as the few fantastically great people have realised.
Kentswinger777, we have a definatley learned a few things from this thread, we have taken on board all the comment both good and obviously not quite so good comments!, because we do respect others opinion, if we didn't we would have posted orginally!
At points through out last night whilst reading and commenting we did feel like deleting the profile and running for the hills BUT we have been given hope that not all the people on this site are out to berate, intimitate and dissecte others and for that as we said a BIG thank you to those people!
Thank you again, we will definatley keep smiling, keep searching and quite possibly grow that extra layer of skin
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Writing a forum post is quite hard, as the written word can be misunderstood as mentioned by Theladyisaminx, it was genuine request, we were looking for advice / direction from people who have had success on this site. We are not completely new, neither are we totally naive as the few fantastically great people have realised.
Kentswinger777, we have a definatley learned a few things from this thread, we have taken on board all the comment both good and obviously not quite so good comments!, because we do respect others opinion, if we didn't we would have posted orginally!
At points through out last night whilst reading and commenting we did feel like deleting the profile and running for the hills BUT we have been given hope that not all the people on this site are out to berate, intimitate and dissecte others and for that as we said a BIG thank you to those people!
Thank you again, we will definatley keep smiling, keep searching and quite possibly grow that extra layer of skin
.xxx
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No we are a normal couple, on here for the same reason as you said the other 1000's people.
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Final comment you will be pleased to know,
we have been told we are defensive, aggressive, impatient, moaning and basically ungrateful.
we did try and explain after the first comment that we had already done all the stuff people sugggested and yet people still offered the same advice, we have been critised for not detailing all that is on our profile in the forum thread and because we are on other sites we compared the responses and we got critised for that.
we are the ones that have now been slated for trying to explain yes we have done that, we didn't expect a "solution" we didn't want snide comments, we didn't expect to be judged as desperate people.
by repling to the post, answering the questions and commenting on things people said, we have been judged as these "awful" people who don't listen to anything, we are not hardened swingers, we have not been doing this for years, we are pure and simply a couple who wanted to fulfill our fantasties.
sorry if through our responses and reactions we has been gravely misunderstood.
we have been told we are defensive, aggressive, impatient, moaning and basically ungrateful.
we did try and explain after the first comment that we had already done all the stuff people sugggested and yet people still offered the same advice, we have been critised for not detailing all that is on our profile in the forum thread and because we are on other sites we compared the responses and we got critised for that.
we are the ones that have now been slated for trying to explain yes we have done that, we didn't expect a "solution" we didn't want snide comments, we didn't expect to be judged as desperate people.
by repling to the post, answering the questions and commenting on things people said, we have been judged as these "awful" people who don't listen to anything, we are not hardened swingers, we have not been doing this for years, we are pure and simply a couple who wanted to fulfill our fantasties.
sorry if through our responses and reactions we has been gravely misunderstood.
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We are sorry you expect us to be that kind of couple, it is a shame that we asked or didnt exactly clarify how we wanted a bit of help with a site that we thought people knew a lot better.
Again thank you all.
Again thank you all.
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Yes we did ask for advice, on a spefic area, we obvioulsy should have made it clearer what advice guidance we were after. We did mention that earlier and we are sorry!
Sorry when you know people have looked at your profile, ywe presumed they had read it, which was our misunderstanding.
As we said we are sorry we posted the thread.
Sorry when you know people have looked at your profile, ywe presumed they had read it, which was our misunderstanding.
As we said we are sorry we posted the thread.
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sorry i don't presume the same people are on different sites, yes the profile details are the same.
No we didn't expect anything of the kind from the messages we sent.
We simply asked people who know the site better, what advice they could give us and tips tricks etc.
I really am sorry we asked, it has caused more issues than we would ever dream possible, all because we said we had done the stuff they suggested! Not defensive, not aggressive but true!
No we didn't expect anything of the kind from the messages we sent.
We simply asked people who know the site better, what advice they could give us and tips tricks etc.
I really am sorry we asked, it has caused more issues than we would ever dream possible, all because we said we had done the stuff they suggested! Not defensive, not aggressive but true!
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Sorry, we did think people would have seen the info on our profile when they looked.
Like we said when we tried to explain numerous times we had done they stuff people suggest, we got called aggressive, impatient, we didn't listen and we are defensive when in actual fact we just wanted to say we have done those things.
We never expected a solution to be given to us, as you said sites are different. We took the time to ask for help, but it would have been nice if people took the time to read the profile when they looked.
Obvioulsy if people are on more than one site they will notice the differences, hence why we asked for adviced on here!
Like we said when we tried to explain numerous times we had done they stuff people suggest, we got called aggressive, impatient, we didn't listen and we are defensive when in actual fact we just wanted to say we have done those things.
We never expected a solution to be given to us, as you said sites are different. We took the time to ask for help, but it would have been nice if people took the time to read the profile when they looked.
Obvioulsy if people are on more than one site they will notice the differences, hence why we asked for adviced on here!
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Mr Powers it was suggested by a number of people on this thread to attend clubs!
So we simply pointed out we already do.
So we simply pointed out we already do.
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Flower, we are sorry you found the forum posts to be aggressive and impatient. Unfortuntley we found the advice given is the stuff we have already done, we did inform people that we had done the things they suggested and they are detailed on our profile.
Please tell us, how would you suggest we get to know people? As our messages are not responded to. We don't send messages to people who are not looking for the same things we are.
This is why we posted to ask what else we could do, we are sure that if you or anybody didn't gat any feedback / responses from any message you sent you would question what was wrong and how you could re address it all, we had got to the stage where we did question this site, but instead of just giving we asked for advice..
That is what we tried to do. Unfortunatley it didn't work as we planned. To be told to do stuff that is already detailed on our profile felt as though it was standard info / advice to give out without knowing anything about us or even reading our profile.
Please tell us, how would you suggest we get to know people? As our messages are not responded to. We don't send messages to people who are not looking for the same things we are.
This is why we posted to ask what else we could do, we are sure that if you or anybody didn't gat any feedback / responses from any message you sent you would question what was wrong and how you could re address it all, we had got to the stage where we did question this site, but instead of just giving we asked for advice..
That is what we tried to do. Unfortunatley it didn't work as we planned. To be told to do stuff that is already detailed on our profile felt as though it was standard info / advice to give out without knowing anything about us or even reading our profile.
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Have we said we are miserable, no because thats not us, eager, enthusiastic and actually nice people, that is us.
Shame that you didn't get to see that, before you opted for approach you took and its a shame we asked for the advice.
Shame that you didn't get to see that, before you opted for approach you took and its a shame we asked for the advice.
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Sexysmilingeyes, we are sorry you feel its a cut paste, genuinely it wasn't.
We thank you all for your messages and advice, Mr Powers you said all websites are different, we agreed with you. Hence why we asked for advice / info / anything really about this site and if anyone could offer the advice as to why no repsonses or messages.
We have been given at lot of advice on how to search for "the elusive single bi fem" for which we are grateful, but we actually already do all this on this website.
Easy, we know its the biggest site, that is why we joined.
It is unfortunate that obviously people do cut and paste e-mail / messages on this site (as i am sure they do on others) to obtain "notches on bed posts" which we feel defeats the ethos behind swinging, maybe we are naive, in asking what we could do for a single bi fem, to make us more attractive and appealing to them.
We wanted advice from regulars / long term members obviously they know the site better than we do, up until the replies on this forum post, we didn't have the "complete negativity" towards the site. We had hope hence why we asked for advice, no body asked, if we had been to clubs. no one asked what kind of messages we send. We were treated as though we were honestly a bit thick, we were told to do stuff that we have already done and is apparent on our profile.
Again thank you for your help, advice and understanding on this matter.
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We thank you all for your messages and advice, Mr Powers you said all websites are different, we agreed with you. Hence why we asked for advice / info / anything really about this site and if anyone could offer the advice as to why no repsonses or messages.
We have been given at lot of advice on how to search for "the elusive single bi fem" for which we are grateful, but we actually already do all this on this website.
Easy, we know its the biggest site, that is why we joined.
It is unfortunate that obviously people do cut and paste e-mail / messages on this site (as i am sure they do on others) to obtain "notches on bed posts" which we feel defeats the ethos behind swinging, maybe we are naive, in asking what we could do for a single bi fem, to make us more attractive and appealing to them.
We wanted advice from regulars / long term members obviously they know the site better than we do, up until the replies on this forum post, we didn't have the "complete negativity" towards the site. We had hope hence why we asked for advice, no body asked, if we had been to clubs. no one asked what kind of messages we send. We were treated as though we were honestly a bit thick, we were told to do stuff that we have already done and is apparent on our profile.
Again thank you for your help, advice and understanding on this matter.
x
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We have been visting clubs longer than we have been on websites, we do mention that we attend clubs in our advert, we have the advert, we have the pics, we do use the chatrooms.
We were not asking for advice on how to meet a single bi fem, we have had that amazing opportunity previously.
It felt as though nobody was actually responding to the post, we simply got a barrage "what to do lists".
We did try through out the forums post to make it clear we have had meets, we understand the "ettiquette". We actually wanted was advice on this site!
We make a concious effort in our message to explain that we know that the "single bi fem" has ultimate control, she is the one who is in charge and we both understand, respect that fact and would never expect it to be any other way.
We have never asked for advice on how to make our profile stand out, how to find people, what features to use we just wanted to know why in 10 months we hadn't had one message or one reply, when in the same time on others we have, we asked for advice on that. Maybe that wasn't made clear.
We liked this site, we liked the people we searched, the people we sent messages to, some very sexy people as we have said before.
Mr powers, you really were brutal in your repsonse, we are on other sites, we asked advice on this one and you basically told us to leave!
Certain replies to this post are not relevant at all they basically hadn't read the post, hence why we felt the backlash.
We were not asking for advice on how to meet a single bi fem, we have had that amazing opportunity previously.
It felt as though nobody was actually responding to the post, we simply got a barrage "what to do lists".
We did try through out the forums post to make it clear we have had meets, we understand the "ettiquette". We actually wanted was advice on this site!
We make a concious effort in our message to explain that we know that the "single bi fem" has ultimate control, she is the one who is in charge and we both understand, respect that fact and would never expect it to be any other way.
We have never asked for advice on how to make our profile stand out, how to find people, what features to use we just wanted to know why in 10 months we hadn't had one message or one reply, when in the same time on others we have, we asked for advice on that. Maybe that wasn't made clear.
We liked this site, we liked the people we searched, the people we sent messages to, some very sexy people as we have said before.
Mr powers, you really were brutal in your repsonse, we are on other sites, we asked advice on this one and you basically told us to leave!
Certain replies to this post are not relevant at all they basically hadn't read the post, hence why we felt the backlash.
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Mr Powers, We find it disappointing that in the time we have been on the websites and in the swinging scene, your message is actually one of the worst we have every recieved.
We find it disappointing and quite amazing that we have had such a backlash from this forum post, we asked for advice on where we may be going wrong or any suggestions as to how we may improve our success on this site, as we are aware they all work differently so we HOPED someone who has been on this site longer than we had could offer any guidance / advice.
Everybody who has replied has viewed our profile (yes we paid for the extras, the only cost involved in this site!)
We are fully aware of the fact that single bi fem's are the most in demand, they have full control of the situations, they can pick and choose that is why the the messages we have sent to them actually say that and we respect that totally! They have the right to be, as do we, as does everyone on these sites.
We never asked for advice on how to meet "single bi fems", we have had that pleasure previously, as it does say on our profile.
Poshkate, If a profile says they are not meeting, not playing etc, we will not send a message, we respect the fact that they have said that. We have realised some people just enjoy the chatrooms and we will never critise / complain about that as the people as they make it clear on there profiles.
We are sorry that asking for advice has stirred up such a hornets nest.
We find it disappointing and quite amazing that we have had such a backlash from this forum post, we asked for advice on where we may be going wrong or any suggestions as to how we may improve our success on this site, as we are aware they all work differently so we HOPED someone who has been on this site longer than we had could offer any guidance / advice.
Everybody who has replied has viewed our profile (yes we paid for the extras, the only cost involved in this site!)
We are fully aware of the fact that single bi fem's are the most in demand, they have full control of the situations, they can pick and choose that is why the the messages we have sent to them actually say that and we respect that totally! They have the right to be, as do we, as does everyone on these sites.
We never asked for advice on how to meet "single bi fems", we have had that pleasure previously, as it does say on our profile.
Poshkate, If a profile says they are not meeting, not playing etc, we will not send a message, we respect the fact that they have said that. We have realised some people just enjoy the chatrooms and we will never critise / complain about that as the people as they make it clear on there profiles.
We are sorry that asking for advice has stirred up such a hornets nest.
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Mr Powers, On the other sites we are on, we have had never had a arsey reply from a thanks but no thanks, we have actually be thanked for simply repling and acknoweldging the message. We have been in clubs and said no and had no said to us, we understand it is part and parcel of the whole scene.
We feel that if some one has taken the time to read the profile and fully understand what we want it is only polite to reply in any way!(to polite for our own good obviously!!)
We have had the thanks but no thanks replys, that to us shows a mutual respect for each others situation. After all we all here for our own "personal" desires, wants, fantasies.
Varca, we do fully understand that single bi fems are very much in demand as we are know they are on all sites, in all clubs every one wants you!
We do have the utmost respect for single bi fems. We understand the constant demand for the "elusive single bi fem" we would never push or expect anything as we have said, but not one reply in 10 months, we obvioulsy question why this site is so very different!!
We feel that if some one has taken the time to read the profile and fully understand what we want it is only polite to reply in any way!(to polite for our own good obviously!!)
We have had the thanks but no thanks replys, that to us shows a mutual respect for each others situation. After all we all here for our own "personal" desires, wants, fantasies.
Varca, we do fully understand that single bi fems are very much in demand as we are know they are on all sites, in all clubs every one wants you!
We do have the utmost respect for single bi fems. We understand the constant demand for the "elusive single bi fem" we would never push or expect anything as we have said, but not one reply in 10 months, we obvioulsy question why this site is so very different!!
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We know it happens it has happens to us before we don't expect everyone to reply to every message!
We never suggest dates (we don't feel thats not fair on a single bi fem to put that undue pressure on her).
As an experienced bi fem and one half of a couple, it is important to me / us that we make sure the messages we send relate to that person, they are never one liners, they never say fancy a shag, they are all individually thought out!
As we have said this is the only site where we have NEVER had a response to anything!
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We never suggest dates (we don't feel thats not fair on a single bi fem to put that undue pressure on her).
As an experienced bi fem and one half of a couple, it is important to me / us that we make sure the messages we send relate to that person, they are never one liners, they never say fancy a shag, they are all individually thought out!
As we have said this is the only site where we have NEVER had a response to anything!
xx
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We do have to say that no we have not answered our own question, the initial post was regards to people simply not replying to messages!
We have met various single bi fems both in clubs (which we have been attending for quite a while now!) and on other websites and have had fantastic times.
The initial post was "NOT about trying to find a single bi fem", it was with regards to the lack of responses to any kind of messages, as we said whether that be good, bad or indifferent!
It is becoming more and more apparent that there is a huge lack of not only responses but general "swinging ettiquette" and dare we say it all round politeness on here.
We are not old fashioned, we are not demanding, we don't expect anything, but surely common courtesy is to not to much to ask, maybe we are wrong!
Maybe as we said before, this site is simply not for us! Shame though as there some very sexy people on here!!
xx
We have met various single bi fems both in clubs (which we have been attending for quite a while now!) and on other websites and have had fantastic times.
The initial post was "NOT about trying to find a single bi fem", it was with regards to the lack of responses to any kind of messages, as we said whether that be good, bad or indifferent!
It is becoming more and more apparent that there is a huge lack of not only responses but general "swinging ettiquette" and dare we say it all round politeness on here.
We are not old fashioned, we are not demanding, we don't expect anything, but surely common courtesy is to not to much to ask, maybe we are wrong!
Maybe as we said before, this site is simply not for us! Shame though as there some very sexy people on here!!
xx
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Sara,
The reason we ask for a single bi fem is because we don't want a couple,we also don't personally want some one who is part of a couple and allowed to play alone, we want just a single bi fem, we know exactly what we want and are not afraid to be fussy and yeah may take a while to meet someone (rocking horse shit has been mentioned!) but we would rather be fussy and wait to get what WE want!!
With regards to your comments re pics, yes there is pics of Mr, actually laid naked on the bed for all to see. We have private pics as well if anyone wanted to see so there options are there for all.
The thing that is VERY strange is that on the other sites we are on, we have exactly the same pics, profile, info and people respond to messages, we have had replys simply to say loved the message great to see people take the time to read the profile but no thanks and we have had replys that had lead to us making some great friend and having some fantastic nights.
Maybe this site just isn't for us!!
The reason we ask for a single bi fem is because we don't want a couple,we also don't personally want some one who is part of a couple and allowed to play alone, we want just a single bi fem, we know exactly what we want and are not afraid to be fussy and yeah may take a while to meet someone (rocking horse shit has been mentioned!) but we would rather be fussy and wait to get what WE want!!
With regards to your comments re pics, yes there is pics of Mr, actually laid naked on the bed for all to see. We have private pics as well if anyone wanted to see so there options are there for all.
The thing that is VERY strange is that on the other sites we are on, we have exactly the same pics, profile, info and people respond to messages, we have had replys simply to say loved the message great to see people take the time to read the profile but no thanks and we have had replys that had lead to us making some great friend and having some fantastic nights.
Maybe this site just isn't for us!!
