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FrednGinger
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
0 miles · Milton Keynes
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Hi,
Not expecting much response as a single male, but no harm in trying....
I'm looking to fix up one or more meets in the week beginning Monday 28 July (from the Tuesday onwards).
Thinking about trying my first club visit (Tease II at Alconbury) on the Wednesday evening. Other than that I'm happy to fit in a social meet (or more if anyone is interested) or two on other evenings.
Maybe something during the day or evening on Saturday 2nd August.
I enjoy outdoor fun, and might well be interested in giving dogging a try.
Not expecting much response as a single male, but no harm in trying....
I'm looking to fix up one or more meets in the week beginning Monday 28 July (from the Tuesday onwards).
Thinking about trying my first club visit (Tease II at Alconbury) on the Wednesday evening. Other than that I'm happy to fit in a social meet (or more if anyone is interested) or two on other evenings.
Maybe something during the day or evening on Saturday 2nd August.
I enjoy outdoor fun, and might well be interested in giving dogging a try.
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Hi all,
I'm looking to spend a few hours at Rios in Kentish Town on Sunday 6 April. It'll probably be around 11am through to 2pm.
Any ladies or couples who want to join me, please feel free to get in touch. I'm happy to meet up first then go along together or meet inside.
Cheers,
Fred.
I'm looking to spend a few hours at Rios in Kentish Town on Sunday 6 April. It'll probably be around 11am through to 2pm.
Any ladies or couples who want to join me, please feel free to get in touch. I'm happy to meet up first then go along together or meet inside.
Cheers,
Fred.
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I have guidelines but not limits. In the same way that I have guidelines but not limits about distance and size. Nothing is set in stone, just an 'average' based on past experience.
It just helps anyone reading my profile work out if they think I might suit them and vice versa.
It just helps anyone reading my profile work out if they think I might suit them and vice versa.
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My experience is that some do reply with a no thanks, it's pretty rare but not as rare as someone replying "Yep, get round here now!" :-)
When I reply to an ad I do usually end with something like "I look forward to your reply, even if it's 'thanks, but no thanks'" but that doesn't seem to have any effect.
I simply assume that folks are inundated with replies and simply don't have the time to reply to those that don't interest them. I can only imagine what that must be like!
When I reply to an ad I do usually end with something like "I look forward to your reply, even if it's 'thanks, but no thanks'" but that doesn't seem to have any effect.
I simply assume that folks are inundated with replies and simply don't have the time to reply to those that don't interest them. I can only imagine what that must be like!
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Pussygolightly if you're out again and looking for a male to join you drop me a mail.
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As Trevaunance says, narrowing it down a bit geographically might help.
I'm in the south of England and a photographer so might be able to help, depending on locality.
I'm in the south of England and a photographer so might be able to help, depending on locality.
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Against a gate by the roadside. We were walking back from the pub one summer evening and set about things as you do. As we were at it a car could be heard approaching. The hedge was grown enough to shield us from view until quite close so we carried on.
Eventually a Landrover drove past at about 10mph. No idea if the driver saw us. I always thought that driving at that speed at that time of night he was probably drink driving so probably didn't even notice us.
Still waiting to fulfil that fantasy of the shop fitting room with just a curtain to shield us from the world......
Eventually a Landrover drove past at about 10mph. No idea if the driver saw us. I always thought that driving at that speed at that time of night he was probably drink driving so probably didn't even notice us.
Still waiting to fulfil that fantasy of the shop fitting room with just a curtain to shield us from the world......
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Quote by Sofakingspecial
It may only be us, but WHY bother with the "I'd like to know more" messages....
Just in case you missed the friend request they also sent!
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As a single male I get few enough mail so I have to admit that I even look at the profile of winkers (yes I did spell that right), even if I then subsequently delete and block.
Even those of us who receive limited mail/winks/contact get our share of interest from those who are not only unsuitable for what we want but clearly haven't read our profiles. These are the easy one's to deal with. Delete, block! I have in the past received a friend request from a couple who I would actually quite like to "get to know" better, but on reading their profile find that I don't fit what their profile says they want, at all. I guess that shows people will consider others not in their "job description" and hence why, on the other side of the coin, some chance their arm.
I can take the moral high ground and say that I have never sent a wink in all my years on SH. I usually only mail those where I definately fit their profile, but have also been known to chance my arm to a degree if the profile in question alludes to a bit of leeway and I am very close to what they want. My own profile is worded this way and I 'consider' all comers.
All that said I'm sure as a single female your problem is mulitiplied 100 fold on my own so I do see how it can become frustrating and annoying, but at the end of the day you have no obligation to reply or accept their advances. As has been said already, take it as a compliment and move on. Oh, and make sure you have fun when you do move on.
Ultimately you get out of a site like this what you put in. As long as you meet the people you like and have fun, that's the main thing. Most of those causing your 'issue' don't seem to put much in and therefore probably won't get much out of it. Their loss.
Even those of us who receive limited mail/winks/contact get our share of interest from those who are not only unsuitable for what we want but clearly haven't read our profiles. These are the easy one's to deal with. Delete, block! I have in the past received a friend request from a couple who I would actually quite like to "get to know" better, but on reading their profile find that I don't fit what their profile says they want, at all. I guess that shows people will consider others not in their "job description" and hence why, on the other side of the coin, some chance their arm.
I can take the moral high ground and say that I have never sent a wink in all my years on SH. I usually only mail those where I definately fit their profile, but have also been known to chance my arm to a degree if the profile in question alludes to a bit of leeway and I am very close to what they want. My own profile is worded this way and I 'consider' all comers.
All that said I'm sure as a single female your problem is mulitiplied 100 fold on my own so I do see how it can become frustrating and annoying, but at the end of the day you have no obligation to reply or accept their advances. As has been said already, take it as a compliment and move on. Oh, and make sure you have fun when you do move on.
Ultimately you get out of a site like this what you put in. As long as you meet the people you like and have fun, that's the main thing. Most of those causing your 'issue' don't seem to put much in and therefore probably won't get much out of it. Their loss.
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The first time I went on a clothing optional beach at first I didn't strip off, but as Sara says I felt far more self consious like that so very quickly stripped off. Maybe as a bloke you feel more likely to be regarded as a "perv" if you are still covered up. Whatever you decide I think you'll pretty quickly reach the choice that you're comfortable with.
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I think I'm addicted too.....to looking at that picture of you in the shower!
Very sexy Hannah, long may your hunger for sex remain!
Very sexy Hannah, long may your hunger for sex remain!
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Definately!
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Hmmmm
Magenta and fuschia are pretty similar. Imagine you're expecting a spanking and then they go to lick your armpits!
Magenta and fuschia are pretty similar. Imagine you're expecting a spanking and then they go to lick your armpits!
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I think it depends on how you take it....
If I'm looking at a profile that interests me and then I come accross an "under 40s only" type restriction (and there are a fair few out there) I simply move on. If they are that set against it by putting it in writing then I would only be wasting my own time as well as theirs by continuing my interest. No problem there.
Where I would have a problem was if I'd got to know someone and was getting on well and then when it came to meeting up they backed out because of my age.
For the record I have guidelines on my profile, simply as an aid to those browsing. It's simply a statistical analysis of the most common age of people I meet - a 'ballpark' starting point if you want. I would (and have) met people outside of that range.
Don't take it personally.....just look at it as their loss.
If I'm looking at a profile that interests me and then I come accross an "under 40s only" type restriction (and there are a fair few out there) I simply move on. If they are that set against it by putting it in writing then I would only be wasting my own time as well as theirs by continuing my interest. No problem there.
Where I would have a problem was if I'd got to know someone and was getting on well and then when it came to meeting up they backed out because of my age.
For the record I have guidelines on my profile, simply as an aid to those browsing. It's simply a statistical analysis of the most common age of people I meet - a 'ballpark' starting point if you want. I would (and have) met people outside of that range.
Don't take it personally.....just look at it as their loss.
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Quote by Funlovers2009
I ain't exactly backward at coming forward but even I wouldn't walk up to everyone in a pub and ask "Excuse me mate, I dont suppose you're a swinger are you?"
Oh well, best if I stop hanging around at your local then. :lol:
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Well for me it's simply a preference and never a 'deal breaker', and you can call me old fashioned, but I always prefer a lady to have some hair. Not bothered if it's natural, trimmed, brazilian, whatever, but completely shaved in itself I do find unarousing.....just have to find other stimulants ;-)
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Will this be during the day or late night shopping after work?
I will be working but (and yes I know it's a big but) could pop to the centre during my lunch hour. I realise I might not be what you are looking for, and time will be short.
The ball is in your court....
Hope you find someone and have some good fun.
Cheers,
Fred.
I will be working but (and yes I know it's a big but) could pop to the centre during my lunch hour. I realise I might not be what you are looking for, and time will be short.
The ball is in your court....
Hope you find someone and have some good fun.
Cheers,
Fred.
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Sounds like fun.
If Milton Keynes is on your route I would be interested. It's my birthday over that weekend so not sure of my plans yet.
Have a great time.
If Milton Keynes is on your route I would be interested. It's my birthday over that weekend so not sure of my plans yet.
Have a great time.
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Quote by motorcyclerob
There's a similar law in York for the Scottish. It's seems they still have forgiven them for William Wallace sacking the place a few years back.
I was gonna mention that one. I think you have to have been born in York and it must be within the city walls.
I guess these things get corrupted with each telling. The version of the Chester one that I heard was a Welshman on Chester bridge on a Sunday could be shot with a crossbow. I thought about popping up to Chester to check it out, but would need a better reason than that to visit the place. Anyone think of any? ;-)
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Well, well, well. You learn something new every day.
I've been on SH for a few years now, but never found my way to the forum before. Thought I'd say a quick hello before disolving into the background again!
Cheers,
Fred.
EDIT: I thought I'd never been in the forum before but I now have 4 posts so I guess I must have been!
I've been on SH for a few years now, but never found my way to the forum before. Thought I'd say a quick hello before disolving into the background again!
Cheers,
Fred.
EDIT: I thought I'd never been in the forum before but I now have 4 posts so I guess I must have been!
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Hi all
I'm looking to arrange a little get together with either a female or mf couple for tomorrow or Friday. Local area would be best (Milton Keynes / Bedford / Luton / Northampton) but others will be considered.
I'm 35, 5'10", 12 stone 5, clean shaven, non-smoking, straight and married.
More details and pics on my ad/profile.
Happy to "broadcast" it in the chatroom if you are. Otherwise we'll keep it to ourselves.
Mobile number available.
I'm looking to arrange a little get together with either a female or mf couple for tomorrow or Friday. Local area would be best (Milton Keynes / Bedford / Luton / Northampton) but others will be considered.
I'm 35, 5'10", 12 stone 5, clean shaven, non-smoking, straight and married.
More details and pics on my ad/profile.
Happy to "broadcast" it in the chatroom if you are. Otherwise we'll keep it to ourselves.
Mobile number available.
