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Gordonbennett
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 72
0 miles · Buckinghamshire
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Actually, sweetshygurl..you do pay for full access to this site, but that's not the point. (Actually, I'm not entirely sure what point you were making, but, never mind and thanks for your contribution.)
The need to pay is not going to deter these characters...and, yes, the internet is a big scary place with all sorts of loony-tunes rattling around in its bi-ways and corridors, but it also connects people in a way that no other medium has managed to do before now.
DeeCee it sounds as if you have had a similar experience which is both reassuring and disturbing at the same time..
The need to pay is not going to deter these characters...and, yes, the internet is a big scary place with all sorts of loony-tunes rattling around in its bi-ways and corridors, but it also connects people in a way that no other medium has managed to do before now.
DeeCee it sounds as if you have had a similar experience which is both reassuring and disturbing at the same time..
Swinger, in the light of what you've said perhaps I should report this Walter Mitty moron to the SH administrator. As you rightly point out, he's probably weaving the same time-wasting fantasies with others. I'd be happy to let anyone know who it is in private, but perhaps ought not to reveal his identity in open. Actually, there are two guilty parties here: one male and one "couple", but it was the single male who lead me a merry dance while the other one was a little eager and perhaps had ideas that did not go down so well with his partner..
Keeno, it does sound as if you had a very similar experience, learning about the site and its inhabitants in much the same way as I have, and becoming that little bit wiser.
Having said that, I would re-iterate the point I made in an earlier message in this thread and that is that I have had some good fun here on-line, some great meetings, and have generally enjoyed my time. This is by no means a rant or a moan, more of a cautionary tale.
Those of you who have been here already will know exactly what it's like, and it's good to hear from Keeno and Noladreams about their experiences and reactions to them.
Those who haven't experienced this just might like to beware, but don't be put off persisting with the general experience of making contact with genuine people who want to have fun.
Having said that, I would re-iterate the point I made in an earlier message in this thread and that is that I have had some good fun here on-line, some great meetings, and have generally enjoyed my time. This is by no means a rant or a moan, more of a cautionary tale.
Those of you who have been here already will know exactly what it's like, and it's good to hear from Keeno and Noladreams about their experiences and reactions to them.
Those who haven't experienced this just might like to beware, but don't be put off persisting with the general experience of making contact with genuine people who want to have fun.
Bonedigger you may well be right
It's a consoling thought..
As I'm sure some of you must know, looking back, it's not just the acres of time spent online with these sad bozo fantasists, but the foregone opportunity and meeting.. the one that could have been set up instead of the one that was never going to happen...that's what's so annoying
It's a consoling thought..
As I'm sure some of you must know, looking back, it's not just the acres of time spent online with these sad bozo fantasists, but the foregone opportunity and meeting.. the one that could have been set up instead of the one that was never going to happen...that's what's so annoying
Yes indeed, there are fantasists aplenty on the internet, and now I realise there are one or two here, but I do agree that there are fortunately plenty of genuine people here, and I have had some great meetings and met some really nice people.
Looking back to the initial discussion, I recollect that I was called away from my PC for a few minutes, and when I returned the guy was practically ranting: "Where are you?! Don't you want to f*** my girlfriend?" which did seem rather odd at the time as he had been so calm and convincing up to that point.
Picking up the point about contacting people by phone..this tends to be something I only get round to doing, if at all, when finding out an address for a meeting, and even then it's usually a text message. In this case, of course, I can see that it would have prevented a lot of wasted time, but, even so, he might have told some kind of tale about her being unavailable, especially as he claimed that they did not live together. I guess up until then I had only had dealings with genuine people on this site, and therefore had no reason to doubt him..
Looking back to the initial discussion, I recollect that I was called away from my PC for a few minutes, and when I returned the guy was practically ranting: "Where are you?! Don't you want to f*** my girlfriend?" which did seem rather odd at the time as he had been so calm and convincing up to that point.
Picking up the point about contacting people by phone..this tends to be something I only get round to doing, if at all, when finding out an address for a meeting, and even then it's usually a text message. In this case, of course, I can see that it would have prevented a lot of wasted time, but, even so, he might have told some kind of tale about her being unavailable, especially as he claimed that they did not live together. I guess up until then I had only had dealings with genuine people on this site, and therefore had no reason to doubt him..
Yes Fran, it does sound a bit of a faff doesn't it? Why make up a girlfriend? Why indeed? That's what puzzles me...
I'm glad, but not entirely surprised, to see it hasn't just happened to me H.x.
I do take the point about insisting on speaking to both parties early on in the contact, though the first guy did say that he and his girlfriend didn't actually live together, and I had no particular reason to doubt his word at that point..in fact, it didn't occur to me then that he was fantasising...
Why go to the bother of making up a girlfriend?
I'm glad, but not entirely surprised, to see it hasn't just happened to me H.x.
I do take the point about insisting on speaking to both parties early on in the contact, though the first guy did say that he and his girlfriend didn't actually live together, and I had no particular reason to doubt his word at that point..in fact, it didn't occur to me then that he was fantasising...
Why go to the bother of making up a girlfriend?
I'm quite new to the site, been a fully paid-up member on here for just over a month now, looking for action with females and couples, and, on two separate occasions, I've been contacted by a guy asking me to join him and his "girlfriend", with some fairly explicit details about what he'd like us all to do.
Fair enough. Sounds fine.
A meeting is set up and then..lo and behold with a couple of hours to go..we can't meet.
It's cancelled.
OK.
That happens.
In one case though the guy claims that his girlfriend has just been shagged by a "friend".. so isn't up for any more action.
A bit strange, a bit far-fetched I thought, but, still...
Let's fix another time.
So I wait
and wait.
Nada.
Sound of penny dropping...
A hoax.
a set-up.
a fantasy..
I don't know what it is, but I'm getting no reply every time I send a message.
It's happened twice now so I'm wise to the "Let's you and me shag my girlfriend" ploy.
What puzzles me is why guys do it...where is the satisfaction? What's the angle here?
Fair enough. Sounds fine.
A meeting is set up and then..lo and behold with a couple of hours to go..we can't meet.
It's cancelled.
OK.
That happens.
In one case though the guy claims that his girlfriend has just been shagged by a "friend".. so isn't up for any more action.
A bit strange, a bit far-fetched I thought, but, still...
Let's fix another time.
So I wait
and wait.
Nada.
Sound of penny dropping...
A hoax.
a set-up.
a fantasy..
I don't know what it is, but I'm getting no reply every time I send a message.
It's happened twice now so I'm wise to the "Let's you and me shag my girlfriend" ploy.
What puzzles me is why guys do it...where is the satisfaction? What's the angle here?
