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Johnno1973
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
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I think ive have posted a similar message, if its the case where one person is not feeling confident or happy enough to discuss what they actually would like or want, surely it would be better to spend more time on the basics of mood, setting, environment rather than the act. I think and this is only my view agian, That if i was thinking of becoming sexually active with someone i would want to know what makes them happy, what relaxes them rather than what makes me happy. If your partner is enjoying it, it makes it twice as nice for you.
well blinkin heck, I would appear that its not just me who has dived in at the deep end and has been dragged out with a slapped arse. I think that as swingin is such a new thing to reach the public it has to be controlled in a strick fashion. I hold my hands up at being at fault, to much to soon is a bad thing for all concerned. This is a completely different way of life and therefore needs to be handled differently. This will sound so arse lickingly bad but well done for getting this site running so well. Johnno, fresh from the pub after ten pints.
hello again, i kind of entered this debate half way through, im a firm believer in fact and not ifs and buts. Yes a man can ejaculate and not come for the benefit of who ever it was that asked that question. before you jump all over that, just remember that the "come" is a mental stimulas created by the mind and the ejaculation is the bodily function caused by stuimulating the penis. My fact for that is male . you can make a man ejaculate but not come. Now, i could go into female ejaculation and a female orgasm but ive had ten pints and dont need the abuse.
I think that this is a very touchy subject. Lets get this straight, NOONE is to blame. Its not anyones fault its a bodily function. You cant just make someone orgasm just because you think they should be. There are thousands of men and women who have never had an orgasm, this be through choice or medical reasons or they havent found the right technique that does it for that particular person. This is only my view on the subject, im not point scoring or trying to be funny or make anyone feel silly. Just my view.
Truth hurts does it bisto. You put the thread up, are you trying to dictate what people should reply. I think your the one who should shut up if you havent got anything constructive to say. You can always tell when a mans beat, he has to resort to name calling. Well if im a cock at least i can get my women to orgasm. Leave it, lets not fall out.
ok heres the question, put your hand up if you have been told that you will go blind if you have a wank. This stems from the church and as such is a religous argument. I was told many years ago by a wise man, never argue about polotics, religion and i cant remeber the last one as i was pissed at the time. STOP NOW.
surely were missing the point here, forget that bisto lives in the 1800s, You cant generalise a male/female orgasm. There are so many factors that contribute to having a full on gush/spurt to having a little judder/ was it or wasnt it orgasm. What does it matter if you masturbated before or after or ideed whilest doing it. I find that the mood, setting, the chase, the petting, what kind of a day its be all contribute to the ORGASM. I would bet that even bisto himself if he was to find a women, treats her like a lady, relaxes her cooks for her, bathes her, massage, the full works but the main thing takes his time and is relaxed with it all, might even be able to see a female orgasm in action.
I only joined on the 03rd of october 2005 but am getting the hang all this posting and pm business. Maybe a little to good. I have been posting and pm ing my little heart out testing the water as it were. I obviously didnt know that as a newbie you have to gain the trust and confidence of the group before being taken in. I thought it was like being in the pub, you join in and your away in no time, not so. I am sorry if some members thought i was out for a "quick shag" or similar but im only here to see what all this "swinging lifestyle " is all about. My mistake was to try and start like a seasoned pro and not as a beginner learning the ropes. Again i appologise to any members that thought i was being to eager. Johnno
whats an ipod, ill tell you what gets me, LIGHTBULBS. why is it that lightbulbs all gang up and blow within a day of the first one going. Bloody trip switches turning off every light in the house. Great when its in the morning and your full as a mop. Who invented trip switches. They should be hung.
