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KazBBW
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 47
Straight Female, 47

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Normally when we swing with other couples we usually meet them for a drink and a short social event then go our separate ways .. talk about it and decide to meet them again or not.
We then arrange a meet and maybe have a drink in a pub then go back to ours or theirs.
We are struggling with ideas on how to break the ice and get from chatting to playing mode in a fun way. What has tended to happen is we chat for ages and then sloooowly progress and ends up getting to 5am or some really ridiculous hour in the morning.
Any ideas on how we can break the ice and go from chatting to playing/swinging in a relatively quick and fun way??? Playing striping card games is boring when you use it all the time confused
Thanx in advance for your wonderful words of wisdom and expert advice
Kaz and Mr Kaz biggrin
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Quote by Mr-KazBBW
Number one on the list has to be Mrs KazBBW :inlove:
After that.. anyone with a friendly and laid back attitude that i get on well with, looks don't really concern me that much.

Aww how sweet is that ... I love you too babes :inlove: :inlove:
We have swung with a few people that use the forum a bit .. We did meet some nice people at the social event we went to about a month ago .. would like to get to know them a little bit more.
But I have to agree with me hubby .. the personality has to be right between us all
Is there a guest list for this mini munch?
I can verify for everreadycouple, they are good peeps and lots of fun .. we have become close friends with them over the past few weeks.
I cant wait .. will be good fun biggrin
Hmm my bests
I guess physically would have to be my brown eyes (the only part of me I like confused )
On a personal lvl - I get on with most people and HATE arguing so avoid it at all costs. I am fair and patient. I think I have a good personality because I am a genuine and loving person biggrin
Kaz
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I like doing and watching .. I am still new so am a little scared of making first moves so tend to sit and watch a little.
That said - I don't like being watched. Makes me feel all self conscious and it really stops me enjoying the moment.
Have to agree with you all and doing is soooooo much more fun wink :wink:
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A few have sent me a PM saying they cant make friday but can saturday - is there anyone who wants to come that would be able to make it on saturday
well tomorow if friday - if peeps cant make it thats fine for us ..... more vodka jelly for us !!!!!
Quote by Darkfire
biggrin :D meeeeeeee oh oh pick meeeeeeee!! worship
if you're offering vodka jelly, you'd best stick me name down for Friday wink
oh - any room on the sofa again or do i bring an air bed? lol

Its up to you babe - depends on how comfy the sofa was last time you slept on it - maybe an airbed would be good anyway ;) - you know .. just incase :P
Hi all,
We're having a party on friday, and are now looking for 4-5 extra people to come along - We have sent a couple of personal invites through pm and we currently have 8 people (3 are still maybe's) cool
However, we are only looking for two more couple and 2 singles or one couple and 4 singles. :smile2:
If you're new or we have not met you, we're sorry but we cannot invite you this time. we're specifically looking for people we have met, or who can be vouched for by others already coming - if this is not you, please dont ask. sad
We live in Chesterfield so ideally you will be in chesterfield / notts / Sheffield area and be known on the forums. There are hotels available for anyone wishing to come that need somewhere to stay.
Leave a post :small-print: and we will send a pm with details and arrangements or hotel details.
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Please, please, please, pretty please .... can we come too :angel:
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P.S - PM on its way biggrin
K&G
Hiya folks,
Welcome to the forum, put your feet up and enjoy
Can we come please ..... pleeeeeese
Pretty please with cherries on top :angel:
kiss
K&G
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OOOH
We can possibly make the 7th - but unfortinatly Mr KazBBW is on call NYE so that would be a no no for us.
I will know for definate when he gets home from work biggrin
But put us down for a definate anyway
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OOOH
We can possibly make the 7th - but unfortinatly Mr KazBBW is on call NYE so that would be a no no for us.
I will know for definate when he gets home from work biggrin
But put us down for a definate anyway
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How bloody typical :doh:
My MSN has been having problems connecting too - now it is FINALLY got there and stayed for longer than 15 mins no body is around to talk :boo:
Slap those in control of MSN - Get your act together because your ruining all these lovely peoples social lives
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Thank you to everyone for a brilliant evening. Both me and MrKazBBW had a wonderful time.
Like mostly everyone said - It is nice to put faces to names, and being a noob it makes all the differance and easier to go to more socials to meet up with all of you.
Good Job Sarah .. and we look forward to the next one biggrin
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Not long now boys and girls ... Getting really excited about it now .. and if I am honest quite nervous.
This is our first social gathering .. but we expect it to be fun biggrin :happy: :thrilled:
See you all tonight
Quote by marmalaid
If they are that small you could always empty them into the larger tub of unset jelly to make a larger batch. Or even make a complimentary flavour (different colour) jelly and put in cube of the first jelly as it cools enough to not dissolve the first set, then you could have artistic diferent coloured squares in the jelly.

Yeah that might work .. because when I went to pour them into a big bowl and mix them together they had already set too much
Thanx for the idea :happy: :happy:
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Haha .. I ma such a goody two shoes
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I am glad I didnt upset u too much Marmalaid kiss
I was just wondering if this recipe would work with anything other than Vodka .. such as Bacardi .. just for something differant.
I will make a new Jelly later on .. cant go out right now .. might keep the little individual jellies anyway .. they are only small 1-2 tbs portions .. but quite strong I think so should still be ok - maybe ???
I just it to be right .. would prolly get upset if it didnt turn out right .. lol .. am a bit sensitive when it comes to things like that :angel:
Thanx to everyone for your help and input biggrin
Kaz
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See :shock:
I told you I'd mess it up .. and thats even with posting on the forum redface surprisedops:
Oh well .. live and learn
AH bugger it ... will go to the shop and buy some more Vodka and make a big bowl rolleyes :roll:
Thinking about it .. it seems more logical and more fun that way
besides .. I just checked on them and they look like blamonge now
Quote by Sarah
I would like to know if it is best served in individual portions or a huge bowl tho. If I make it with LOTS of vodka .. you will only need a bit at a time
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Large bowls, shared liberally and intimately usually smile quite sexy being spoonfed jelly like that biggrin
Can I offer my services to spoonfed those that need it,,,,,,I've had lots of practice at Blue's parties :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: please amke sure you are naked, in case I miss your mouth and have to lick it off you :shock:
Sorry Sarah .. they are all individual portions :cry:
Well 12 small bowls with a couple of spoons worth in and filled some ice cube trays for one bite boosters :mrgreen:
On a plus side .. I have been talking to my lovely husband about maybe holding a small munch at our house some time in the future - can always make a good excuse to make more Jelly (this isnt an ad for a munch - just something that MAY happen .. tbh is just as likely not to .. lol)
ok .. not got many coming over so made 12 small(ish) bowls .. if needed people can share
I hope it works blink :bounce: :bounce: :lickface: :lickface:
Thanx for the advice .. going to make it some time this afternoon - give it a good 24hrs to set.
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I would like to know if it is best served in individual portions or a huge bowl tho. If I make it with LOTS of vodka .. you will only need a bit at a time
One pint of jelly doesnt normally last long with me because I love it biggrin
As for the Melon Idea - that sounds good but I just been shopping and havent got one .. so will have to wait till next time rolleyes
Will let you know how it turns out
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Me too Wibbly
Am really looking forward to it, cant wait
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drinkies :cheers: :drinkies: :cheers: