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LeedsGuy33
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 49
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I've been to a club before had a good time, and after the experience I think i'm just generally more aware of the people around me. I'm confident enough in what I look like and the way i conduct myself to believe that there was more too it than just people thinking im a bit strange. Like I say I did have a chat with some of these people. It just felt we were waiting for someone to make a move and it never happened. Maybe i just need to be a bit more bold and mention that I swing? Or is that not the done thing?
I've got a question about random meets in bars. Recently when I have been out I'm pretty sure I have been hit on by swinging couples. There is one bar I go to regularly and I believe that there have been three couples in there who have shown a interest. My question is who should make the first move and what should I say if this happens. Things are generally complicated by fact that i am often in a bar with friends who dont know i have a interest in swinging. The signals i see are a lot of eye contact from the lady of the couple. She will often talk to the guy and they will both look at me, as if they talking about me. I often move a short distance away from them and see if they move to where i am to dance. At this point they generally kiss each other and then move closer to me to dance. Again the lady will look at me directly and the man occasionally. Some time they will swap place so the guy is closer to me. I guess this is to work out if im straight or not. I always totally ignore the guy as im straight. after a while if i think the couple are up for it i tell the guy that i think his girl friend hot and make a little small talk. This is where things tend to get awkward. I would like to ask them if they are swingers but i don't want to offend them if they are not. Also because i have friends there who don't swing i get little nervous about them seeing what's going on. Should i be asking them or they be asking me. And is there a discrete way of handling things when im around my friends?
Any of you ladies and gents had the feeling that you've met another swinger on an night out but not had the balls to talk to each other? I'm pretty sure I've seen swingers in Sandinisata on a Friday but i've never confirmed it. I'm in there regularly say "hi you look like your enjoying yourself" if you see me again!
A world wide depression is baked in at the moment, all nations are trying to buy time and exports by devaluing currency. Greece cant do this at the moment because they are locked into the Euro and that's why they are screwed. its not pretty and all the western economy's are going to go through some real pain. but at least as we are not in the Euro and we can devalue the pound which to some degree is easier to take than out right wage deflation.
Im Impressed by conversation guys!
Im Impressed by conversation guys!
I work as a Software Engineer in Leeds. I've done it for ten years now and everyone i have met during my career have had Higher Nation Diplomas or a degree. The only other qualifications that employers seem to value are the Microsoft MCP certificates. I would recommend you do a open university course and try to get at least a HND or HNC qualification. that should open some doors.
Interesting thread. Debz looking at it from a basic level you should never have to compromise on what you are looking for. There are far more guys than girls on the scene and because of that you as an attractive lady should be able to choose what you want. Its just a shame that non of this is simple.I think your always going to meet a percentage of guys who lie or try there luck and thats going to happen no mater what you request. It basically comes down to being very strict on your criteria and selecting from less people. or giving more people a chance and expecting to reject more. personally i think you should go for what you want and still expect some degree of disappointment.
Also its nice to know that there are other people insecure about how they fit into the scene. I've been on this site for a while now but I've yet to fully embrace the scene. I'm still building up to my first club visit. I'm sure once i make my first step I'll settle right in. likewise also i think you'll find your spot in the scene and feel happy with it sooner or later. Good luck Si
Also its nice to know that there are other people insecure about how they fit into the scene. I've been on this site for a while now but I've yet to fully embrace the scene. I'm still building up to my first club visit. I'm sure once i make my first step I'll settle right in. likewise also i think you'll find your spot in the scene and feel happy with it sooner or later. Good luck Si
I like to buy branded home entertainment kit, but I've finally learned my lesson.
My first dvd play cost me hundreds and I bought a play station2 the first week they were released . Both times I've paid through the nose to get branded kit first. Now i play the waiting game to get better prices. I'll be getting a large LCD tv only when they have come down to a decent price! probably in next years sales.
Some time you just have to wait to get the price that you want.
My first dvd play cost me hundreds and I bought a play station2 the first week they were released . Both times I've paid through the nose to get branded kit first. Now i play the waiting game to get better prices. I'll be getting a large LCD tv only when they have come down to a decent price! probably in next years sales.
Some time you just have to wait to get the price that you want.
