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/sings 'let's go round again' this thread is just somewhere for all the people who think they're being ignored, to find attention. Or maybe the person who started it isn't as new as it would appear and has a grudge of some kind?
Probably has a grudge of some kind. Maybe thinks the site is an instant shag tool and is dissapointed
Its a hugely emotive subject so may be difficult for it not to get personal.
My views are that each person should have the right to determine the own existence and that no one has the right to to take that away from you. If a termiantion is right for a particular person then so be it. I could never criticise someone for taking that decision. Having said that, in a previous relationship my girlfriend thought she was pregnant and was determined to have it terminated. I have to say that it was something I had huge problems dealing with. It was a false alarm and so I was spared having to. But It made me realise just how emotive a subject it is.
My views are that each person should have the right to determine the own existence and that no one has the right to to take that away from you. If a termiantion is right for a particular person then so be it. I could never criticise someone for taking that decision. Having said that, in a previous relationship my girlfriend thought she was pregnant and was determined to have it terminated. I have to say that it was something I had huge problems dealing with. It was a false alarm and so I was spared having to. But It made me realise just how emotive a subject it is.
I agree that sadly it is impossible to predict who will ultimately become a true friend. My trust has been betrayed on a number of occassions and it would be easy to just not trust anyone at all. But I have found true friendship in the most unlikely places and so I prefer to stay optimistic and at least give people a chance.
I think you have to be open minded and asume that sadly a lot of people are in life purely for themselves. Trust and friendship has to be earned and once it has I think you find those people tend to be the ones you class as friends. Thats not to say you can have a great time with people that don;t ultimately earn the tag of friendship. I think you just have to accept people for what they are untill the trust is earn't.
I think you have to be open minded and asume that sadly a lot of people are in life purely for themselves. Trust and friendship has to be earned and once it has I think you find those people tend to be the ones you class as friends. Thats not to say you can have a great time with people that don;t ultimately earn the tag of friendship. I think you just have to accept people for what they are untill the trust is earn't.
Hi all,
The dreaded first post.
My name is Matt and i'm a 32 year old guy from the East Midlands. I am an IT manager but please don;t hold that against me (i'm not a techie geek). I am a single guy but am not here to wave my 20inch manhood (seems to be the average size of single guys dicks) for you all to jump on. It just seems like a good site with mainly genuine members for a change. Oh and nice that you don't have to put ya credit card numbers into some database hidden deep inside Eastern Europe somewhere.
Anyway looking forward to getting to know everyone and hope some of you get to know me.
Keep it safe
Matty
The dreaded first post.
My name is Matt and i'm a 32 year old guy from the East Midlands. I am an IT manager but please don;t hold that against me (i'm not a techie geek). I am a single guy but am not here to wave my 20inch manhood (seems to be the average size of single guys dicks) for you all to jump on. It just seems like a good site with mainly genuine members for a change. Oh and nice that you don't have to put ya credit card numbers into some database hidden deep inside Eastern Europe somewhere.
Anyway looking forward to getting to know everyone and hope some of you get to know me.
Keep it safe
Matty
