we try to feed our child a healthy and varied diet. we substitute highfat for lowfat where possible. but our son has a condition that makes it very hard to give him as varied a diet as we would like him to have, we do have full support of our doctor. but he is still looks overweight, but our doctor is not concerned because he is within paramiters for his height,and he is healthy. he is 5ft tall and only eight. but to outsiders i know they look at him and see an obese child. so i don't think you can generalise and say that it is always the fault of the parents and they should be done for child abuse. when too many people are willing to point an accusing finger without knowing all the facts. and cause irrepairable damage to families. lets face it the state of social services is highly questionable and i have lost all faith in them due to recent headlines and past performances.
seeing that on the news the poor babe reminded me of the victoria climbie case where she was failed right across the board by the very agencies set up to protect her. it was said in government reports that it should never happen again. well they've just proved they are basically worth shit when it has. i hope she rests in peace the poor child
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.
my parents were married for 28 years before my mum passed on. but those 28 years were the happiest they had both ever had. i was the envy of all my friends because my mum and dad had such a happy marriage. (most of my friends were from broken homes) we threw them a big silver wedding anniversary party to celebrate and show them how much everyone loved them. my mum and dad said it was a perfect way to celebrate surrounded by friends and family who all wished them well. my dad who recently passed away said it had been one of his best memories of his marriage that he could of wished for. so congrats to your parents and take my word for it, it will be a lasting happy memory for them both and if they have family arround them even more so. material things fade over time but memories live on forever
:cheers: and lots and lots of :love: :love: :love: :love: :love:
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just to say i haven't laughed so much in ages
me an mr w still crying :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
:shock: i am appalled when wade said that i could ride the big one i thought he meant the ride :confused2:
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