Sorry no story but i cant believe some of these people!
Dont they realise, that even from a purely selfish viewpoint, if they behave, are polite, clean and well mannered then they are surely infinantly more likely to get a show put on for them, or even some action?
i know if i encounted anything like the people you are talking about i would drive straight out of there and not go back, and be reluctant about it all full stop.
Yeah true i guess the danger element is a huge factor in this, although im sure if a lady was really into it, she could easily find a "minder" so to speak - a good friend who will keep an eye on her, but isnt going out with her!
Its a shame, im sure if the *some* males were better behaved, some of these ladies would feel more comfortable going down on their own, and everybody could have lots more fun!
lol thats what i like to hear!
Nah the girlfriends been all flued up so ive been on duty looking after her!
As ive mentioned in another thread i know of a few places that would be ideal for dogging, just never encounted any action - bit of a newbie so not too keen on jumping straight in on a 80 car action place straight away!
But i think i'll definantly be keeping my eyes open for a car with 4 pretty ladies in driving around at night now ;)
Sounds like they are defiantly out there then, perhaps just doesnt seem like it because single females dont need to advertise their services on here, because theres a much higher chance that they will get plenty of offers when they are out at night?
Im not sure about any places around here mate - but i know theres plenty of places that would be ideal for it!
I'm sure all it would take is a few well meaning couples and well behave males/females from this site to talk amoungst theirselves about one or two which would be best to use, and create a "new dogging site" ?
I know around Ilkeston alone theres 3 or 4 that i could think could be turned into ideal places! some more places more public or convenient than others
I think the newspapers can be blamed for the increase in "lookers"
I think since the Stan Collymoore thing, theres been a huge increase in publicity to it, i know i had not heard much about it till then, and thats what got me reading in to it more and then discussing it with my gf.
I hope to think that im not going to be just a looker, or a waste of time - we just both need to discuss it more and see where we go , but Newspapers are readily available to everybody, and dogging is there in it, you dont have to look for it like you do on the internet, you dont have to specify "dogging" in an internet search engine, therefore you dont even need to have heard of it before.
Boyracers/thiefs and the like didnt need any previous knowledge of it to able them to find new potentially vaulerable targets for their games?
Okay theres a fair few couples on here looking to please plenty of people! enjoy being watched and such.
Theres also a plentiful supply of single males willing to offer their bits or pieces to fill any holes in pleasure that may be there...
But so far i dont think ive seen any ads for any lady doggers out there looking for meet-ups or going out wanting to watch some action?
I know theres bound to be not as many of you out there, but there must be some of you?!
*This isn't going to turn into a "well we might as well meet up then ;) " thread! just curious!*
Doubt i can help out with a lift down there or anything mate, but PM me with what day/time your thinking of heading down - what sort of stuff you/your girlfriends looking for?
Im a newbie also thinking/looking of stepping out into the swinging/dogging wilderness!
potential game here -
Who can put in the most innocent word/phrase in the google image searcher and come out with the most naughty image?!
edited to add: Type in " moustache " and you get this...
Woah, woah, WOAH!
I think everyones missing the point now!
Am i right in thinking that theres 4 lovely ladies on here that enjoy giving a good sloppy sucking?
And including me i make it... erm... LOTs of males willing to provide the hard on...
So.... lets have a gobble party!
Pink Princess, fair enough you want a post where you can get people to contact you to play on webcam with you.
But why spit your dummy out?
It's been explained why your post has been deleted - so why not just post it on the end of a topic thats already been started specifically for the purpose you need it?
Heres the link ==> http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/25802.html
Yeah chill out people! -
I know how you feel,my girlfriends not 'keen' on them, and yes i do keep clean and tidy!
Its not the be all and end all mate, but i know there can be times when your just wanting for a good sloppy BJ lol, but similiar to bifem was saying, you make an effort, or in perhaps your case, that extra effort, then you might just get a "birthday treat!"
I found tieing her up, blind folding her and just kissing her all over, then you know, going down on her for quite a while made things go much easier when we played our next little game of keeping her blindfolded and handcuffed behind her back, and i would put chocolate spread on various parts of my body and she kissed her way until she found it - then after a few goes, i put a little on my fella, and she didnt just suck that off, she carried on until she sucked me off.
I know its not her favourite sex act, and she knows its something i like - this stopped me from havign to ask her, and stopped her feeling pressured into it.
Just keep it fun... unless you find a lovely lady off here to oblige!
Good luck either way!
Thanks for the advice, being new into it im unsure of the areas around here that anything goes on (Nottingham/Ilkeston) but i'll keep my eyes peeled for locations and other words of advice!
As ive briefly mentioned in another topic, me and the gf were getting busy in one car park like we had a few times, when a car pulled up and flashed at us a few times, back then we were unaware as to its meaning! - we'll be more prepared this time ;)
I remember a few months ago, when i was slightly more Naive... Me and my girlfriend went to a quite car park we know, every once in a while theres a car or two in there, but im guessing people just up to the same as us.
Parking up because weve gotten a little frisky, or gone there intentionally for a little session.
However, i rememeber one occassion we had parked up then a car came in, parked the otherside of the car park to us, then a minute or so later flashed their headlights a couple of times, a few minutes later did it again.
We saw it more of an annoyance at the time, but looking back after looking into certain interests, it seems it was definantly somebody, some people into dogging?
Is it likely that this was just a chance occurence, or is there likely to be a build up of dogging action?
Obviously i know i cant give any excate location, but for those who know the Ilkeston area, its actually in xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx - so does anybody know if its a dogging site or not? if so, perhaps should be added to the list on the home page?
(Apologises for any mistakes ive made, this is my first post! ive read the rules, but still a newbie)
