In Bucks, the closest would be Abfabs which is very busy and big.
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OnlyUs
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 51
Bisexual Female, 57
0 miles · Trowbridge
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We've previously found the same. Even at club bi nights, the F seems to get more attention, as if the guys only turn bi 20 mins beore closing! (not all the time mind :twisted: )
Bi couples are a tough challenge too though lol!
Been chatting to a few bi guys of recent, so things looking up for a few months time when we're back around.
Bi couples are a tough challenge too though lol!
Been chatting to a few bi guys of recent, so things looking up for a few months time when we're back around.
:giveup:Quote by goldenandboytoy
We went for the first time last night and we loved it. Had no idea what to expect but all are friendly and helpful, the place is a bit of a rabbit warren to navigate but again folks will help if you get stuck, or, like us, just wander around for a while. We didn't play this time but certainly will next time. Pity we can't join you but have vanilla plans.
Have a great time.
Tina and Paul
Hi
We saw you there and said "hi" (quietly and to ourselves as we were hiding in the corner
) And very nice you looked too.I'm sure its improved since we went last time (4-5 years ago) - I'm sure there used to be one jacuzzi not two, and everything else seemed much improved.
Have to say we'd recommend it as a first club, no pressures at all there, though of course success or otherwise depends on who you speak to!
Where abouts are you?
How technical are you?
Its easy enough to reset a Windows password - the tool I use is the "ultimate boot cd" which is an ISO you can burn, and simply use the file system utilities to reset the admin password, then log on as that and do what you like.
Unless you have hard disk encryption or bit locker of course...
How technical are you?
Its easy enough to reset a Windows password - the tool I use is the "ultimate boot cd" which is an ISO you can burn, and simply use the file system utilities to reset the admin password, then log on as that and do what you like.
Unless you have hard disk encryption or bit locker of course...
Or worse and misinterpreting what was said!
True story from a short time ago....
To us: "....at a party run by a gay guy we know and his partner, there were loads of gays there and even gay girls - didn't know there were that many"
(Us looking at each other smirking thinking "you do know girls who like girls")
Them continuing "...they had really nice food, good finger buffet and a big spit roast"
(Cue us bursting out laughing unstoppable for a few minutes with rather confused looks from the others).
Ooops.
True story from a short time ago....
To us: "....at a party run by a gay guy we know and his partner, there were loads of gays there and even gay girls - didn't know there were that many"
(Us looking at each other smirking thinking "you do know girls who like girls")
Them continuing "...they had really nice food, good finger buffet and a big spit roast"
(Cue us bursting out laughing unstoppable for a few minutes with rather confused looks from the others).
Ooops.
One night, in the pub, chatting to a friend about someone who worked for me and not being that polite about them as, in truth, they were not very good.
My mobile phone picked up me speaking their name on "voice dial" and called them without my knowledge and the call lasted 20 minutes......
The next day they were a little unhappy and mentioned I called them from the pub. No idea what they heard....
Even today I do not use voice activated dialing for this reason, and if I need to talk about someone I still check phone isn't on..... And if meeting playmates the phone is fully off! lol!
My mobile phone picked up me speaking their name on "voice dial" and called them without my knowledge and the call lasted 20 minutes......
The next day they were a little unhappy and mentioned I called them from the pub. No idea what they heard....
Even today I do not use voice activated dialing for this reason, and if I need to talk about someone I still check phone isn't on..... And if meeting playmates the phone is fully off! lol!
Thank you for all the tips.
We decided that the responsible adult thing would be to go, so we went along this morning and had a check up.
For all those worried about it, apart from it took a while (walk in - no appointment) it was pretty much hassle free and was not scary in the slightest.
We weren't entirely honest about our name, DOB or postcode, but apart from that we told the truth. Simple blood sample, urine sample, and Rachel had a couple of swabs.
We were recommended a couple of vaccinations as playing makes you more prone to Hep A/B so they were given with no problems.
Overall - not as bad as expected and perhaps if everyone went it'd be a safer place to play.
Thank you all posters for the tips - they helped us make our mind up to go.
We decided that the responsible adult thing would be to go, so we went along this morning and had a check up.
For all those worried about it, apart from it took a while (walk in - no appointment) it was pretty much hassle free and was not scary in the slightest.
We weren't entirely honest about our name, DOB or postcode, but apart from that we told the truth. Simple blood sample, urine sample, and Rachel had a couple of swabs.
We were recommended a couple of vaccinations as playing makes you more prone to Hep A/B so they were given with no problems.
Overall - not as bad as expected and perhaps if everyone went it'd be a safer place to play.
Thank you all posters for the tips - they helped us make our mind up to go.
Resurecting this old thread as the topic of blood donation came up and this is one of the more thoughtful threads on the topic.
If Adam, Brian and Clare were all virgins they could all give blood.
Clare gives Adam and Brian a BJ - they can still all give blood.
Adam gives Brian a BJ - then Adam and Brian can never ever give blood, and if Claire gives either of them a BJ then she can't for 12 months.
Even if wearing condoms.....
What a stupid rule! Does a guy giving a guy a BJ really increase the risk greater than a girl giving the same guy a BJ? Don't quite understand why the blood donation service have the rules this way. Do they assume guys are always unsafe and take risks that women do not?
If Adam, Brian and Clare were all virgins they could all give blood.
Clare gives Adam and Brian a BJ - they can still all give blood.
Adam gives Brian a BJ - then Adam and Brian can never ever give blood, and if Claire gives either of them a BJ then she can't for 12 months.
Even if wearing condoms.....
What a stupid rule! Does a guy giving a guy a BJ really increase the risk greater than a girl giving the same guy a BJ? Don't quite understand why the blood donation service have the rules this way. Do they assume guys are always unsafe and take risks that women do not?
Thank you - useful tip.
Found a GUM clinic locally - something for us next week and do some shopping as well!
So apart from a name, do they ask much about what you get up to? If so should you be honest about the whole thing? "Yeah - we're swingers. Well - if anyone ever turns up when they are supposed to we are. We go to the odd good party, fancy coming along?"
Do they take a blood test? Or swab?
And can we go in together for mutual support!?
Sorry - really naive on this so any more info much appreciated just so we know what to expect
Found a GUM clinic locally - something for us next week and do some shopping as well!
So apart from a name, do they ask much about what you get up to? If so should you be honest about the whole thing? "Yeah - we're swingers. Well - if anyone ever turns up when they are supposed to we are. We go to the odd good party, fancy coming along?"
Do they take a blood test? Or swab?
And can we go in together for mutual support!?
Sorry - really naive on this so any more info much appreciated just so we know what to expect
Its been discussed here before and many swingers say they have regular sexual health check ups.
We haven't mainly because we don't get up to much very often (not for the lack of trying
) but we really should.
So where does one go for such a test? What do they do? What do they test for? And how do you do it anonymously?
We haven't mainly because we don't get up to much very often (not for the lack of trying
) but we really should.So where does one go for such a test? What do they do? What do they test for? And how do you do it anonymously?
We had a full cast (Neck to leg) of Rachel - and it is superb.
Problem is only playmates have seen it as its too revealing to show family! lol!
Not cheap, but unique.
If you get it done, use a real pro as some "cheaper" ways come out quite crap.
We used one of the guys who shows at Erotica and is one of the "core arty" people for the show.
HTH
Problem is only playmates have seen it as its too revealing to show family! lol!
Not cheap, but unique.
If you get it done, use a real pro as some "cheaper" ways come out quite crap.
We used one of the guys who shows at Erotica and is one of the "core arty" people for the show.
HTH
we've not been to chams for maybe 3 years and never on a bi night.
What are these nights like? How many couples go vs. single guys? And is it generally the same as other nights so shy people (ahem) are safe hiding in the corner and avoiding everyone! (We do try not to lol!
)
Any 1st-hand info appreciated
Thanks!
What are these nights like? How many couples go vs. single guys? And is it generally the same as other nights so shy people (ahem) are safe hiding in the corner and avoiding everyone! (We do try not to lol!
)Any 1st-hand info appreciated
Thanks!
