Mik69
It was a joke... The comments were in jest based on preconceived ideas which have been put right on this thread. Nicely so too! Obviously our humour doesn't come across here....
The comments have been surprising actually - and probably have changed our view of the single-guy scene. We truely hope we are as lucky with any meets than we have been with the respondants here....
THANKS!
Damn damn damn damn damn damn and damn again!
XX;)
lol!
Lovely idea! ;)
But not tongiht for us! We like AbFabs and their lovely *hot* pool ;)
Hope you get some together - as (we find) just chatting is harder than you think! We would go with confidence then end up hiding! lol!
GOOD LUCK!
F-B
Absolutely - point taken on board. All assumptions are based on 3rd party posts and comments we have heard - none on first hand experience. Your response (and others in this thread) have inspired confidence. We just need to make sure (when we do) we find one who has the attitude that everyone on this thread seems to have!
Guess when (if) we do look for a single guy - we'll post asking for references! lol!
Seriously though - think you hit nail on head - we have a preconceived idea based on negative mutterings rather than honest fact.
XX
Thanks both!
How many couples are there on a normal Saturday - and what time is it worth turning up?
Sorry to excite all the single guys out there! ;)
Another silly question from us - and again - just researching!
If we wanted a single guy to join us - where is the best place to find them? Don't have time to hang around the forums - and the ads are cluttered! Are the ads the best way to go? (reply or place?) Is this site the best to use - or do pay sites provide more genuine ones? Or is it best to just grab them at a club? (we've only been on couples nights).
We would have strong limits and would only "soft play" - e.g. no penetrative sex - and we feel single guys want more? Is this view accurate - or are single guys happy to just play? If we met via email then it can be laid out, but how about meeting at a club? Its a bit more difficult to find out then - and guess the guys would say yes to anything - then try it on anyway when hormones kick over!!
Anyway - thoughts, experiences and tips - esp from single guys most apprecaited...... If we were to go down this route, we'd probably go for a bi or curious guy just to ensure everyone gets their turn at a good pampering! ;)
....lets see if we get tempted down this path...!!
We've heard a little about this place and found their website...
It seems a nice clean place - but we see no mention of swinging on any site! Its also not listed in the club reviews area.....
Comments welcome please! (thinking maybe future couples only sat night)
Also - they do massages there. Now - being niaeve, what would these entail? Completely legit or a bit dodgy? Its a serious question! We both would fancy one if we went but would want to set expectations before! ;) And would they do joint ones? ;)
Seems to be the only place like this that is designed for normal people - as it appears to close at 10:30pm! Hurah! No need to stay up till silly o'clock!
Abfabs opens at 9:30 and by 10 its busy though people to appear after. So that may be a good start and it is close to you - so short quick drive back too.
We've been to Chams and were bored till gone midnight when the drunks turned up...! lol!
Bit far - but are having a party! ;) We'll be there and more the merrier!
We're hoping to have a more exciting new years eve than the average ;) - and are hoping to go to a local club for new years eve and make an event of it.
But - what is new years like normally at clubs? Quieter, busier? Different types of people? Or is it just as-per-normal?
And what the heck do you tell your mates!! ;)
Saturday night was fun! And we were kept busy!
Very much recommend this club - more of a polite, fun, and social house party!
Hello!
We are going to go down tonight for the first time ever. We are also wondering what to wear! Have you "reserved" your place and got your ID ready?
Contrary to previous posts by others, BSC is open tomorrow in the good old format we know and love!
(Think the buy-out got delayed so previous (current) owners are staying until Sunday).
I've just got off the phone from them so can confirm it to be the case!
So - do we:-
1 - go to Brighton on Saturday!
or
2 - go to a new club (for us) a bit nearer....?
Bit scared of a long drive to Brighton and finding no one there as they think its closed....
!?
Its not that far - a mini-cab ride but thats about it - about 3 miles.
We may whet our feet there on Saturday....!
Roof over pool? Good idea - we were dissapointed when we went last Jan and the pool was closed ;)
Dave - wasn't sure that was open.....
Be interested in more (if you want to pm)
Ah pants!
BSC is (was) our fave place to go (well - not that we go that often or to that many places)
Whats the latest - the website still seems to be for the current owners.
We liked it on Saturdays because there was never any presure and all couples....
Dave - what else is around the area? (Oh - and hi again - we've not chatted for a VERY long time!)
We were just looking to see if they were having a new years eve party.
We would be interested in hearing more of the new owners plans.........
(PS we always wondered how they could actually make money out of the place....)
Been hunting on the web all evening and trying to find nice (but reasonable) B&B or hotel for an up and coming trip to BSC (Hamshaw).
Ideally near the club, or down towards Brighton.
Ideas welcome! Don't know where else to ask.
(And its Hamshaws 1st birthday in a few weeks! ;))
We've bought from them on line and were very pleased. Will be popping in there shortly as they have a shop in Brighton!
Address here:
Thanks. Again - its one of those "uknown" factors - as we've only ever gone clubbing on couples night.
When the summer is here we are plannong to go to Brigton Sun Club fairly frequenltly to just chill during the day (and get a good all over tan) - and play later (can't play all day ZZZZzzzzzzzz) . But as single guys are going to be there - perhaps one day the situation arises!
What we need is a menu card! ;)
We were hoping for more answers - but guess the lack of them suggests no one else tends to worry!
Till the summer!
(Oh - Q2 for later in the year - would you look out of place at BSC just tanning, relaxing and reading during the day!!!? Or is that whats it is designed for!?)
Silly question...!
What do single guys at clubs "expect" - and what would they be "dissapointed" in - and what is the norm!?
Asking as we are a couple and really only looking for couples, and when we go clubing on on couples nights. But we're bound to go on another night one day...!
In which case we may be happy to "play" - but do single guys expect full-sex - or are they happy with "whatever they get"!? ;) - eg just "foreplay" type stuff? (Not interested in full sex)
Hate us to play with a single bloke only to have him say at the end "oh - I was expecting a shag!"
Anyway - just a saturday-lunch-on-the-sofa thought!
Your expieriences most welcome!
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