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PassionateWildStallion
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
0 miles · Nottinghamshire

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Quote by Sexysteph
... TURN on the anon email system this will prevent spam sites from such easy access to your email acct.
Its there for your protection hun suggest you use it.
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Thanks for the advice Steph... only problem with that is people can only send one single pic, the size of which cannot exceed 50k, so it's a bit limited... but I'll give it a thought x
Quote by fabio grooverider
can i also suggest that not everyone wants to see a picture of a penis on the profile....

Quote by naughtynymphos1
personally i think a 'normal' pic would go down well on your add, cock pics are ok but as an as well as not an instead of pic.

Quote by Jim_York
Does one become a cockless face pic poster or a faceless cock pic poster??

Quote by sexyfella
...your better of with a fice pick then providing a cock one if the ad specificaly asks for one or if you get a reply asking you to provide some of your man hood ...

Fabio, Naughtynymphos1, Jim and sexyfella, thanks allot for your input... it's a very difficult issue to decide about though.... I am a bit shy and so wouldn't like my face pic there for all to see... but I'm always happy to send it to genuine replies to my ad and to ads that I reply to...
I know that some people would rather not see a penis pic and some would... so do I put it or do I not??? If I don't put it ... and dont put a face pic either... then the profile has no pic at all... and my impression is that most adds with no pics get ignored... so... still confused really... and still need advice... please smile
Oh and NaughtyNymphos1... do you have an ad somewhere? do you play with single guys? wink
Quote by the_Laird
Mr Firey Horse
Dont lose heart.
When we first joined, we had our add and "bumped" it regularly (and for all I know it's still in the adds section if you search hard enough!!) We now have a link to it in our sig. and dont bother with the bumping.
We have successfully met with people as a direct result of it so they do work, honest!!
We now see our add as more of an info slot that lets those who get to know our character on the forum, know a little bit more about us.
Without doubt, in our experience, the forum is the place to be if you want to make friends to....errr....play with redface :wink:

I can't thank you enough Laird for your reassuring comments .... :) thanks
oh and lovely ad by the way... do you only play with couples? I'm single and I wanna play too ;)
Hello everyone ...
I've been on the swinging scene for over 3 years now, and while I've met a few memorable couples and single fems, some of whom I'm still intouch with, it seems that all my successful meets have happened by chance...
What I'm trying to say is... it seems almost impossible to find the right single fem or couple to swing with using the ad section of swinging sites! I'm saying this because I've put allot of effort into my ads (#53828 & #166997) however all the responses I get are spam e-mails! I aslo reply often to ads that match what I'm looking for and that I think I match what they're asking for, and I put allot of effort into these replies as well, but again all I get back is spam, unsolicited emails, and referals to porn websites!
Am I missing something? Am I doing something wrong? Are my ads bad? Are there real genuine single fems and couples who look for contacts through the ad section???
Help me out here .... please!
Thanks
PassionateWildStallion
Hello Marcuso... and everyone... hope you all had a great christmas ....
We're afraid we can't make it to the party tomorrow after all... I'm (Derek) have got the flue and it's quite bad at the moment... and looks like Tara has caught it from me as well sad
We are very sorry we were really looking forward to seeing you all and to lots of fun... We hope you'll enjoy our share of the fun and hope to get the chance to see you all in the next party..
Take care have fun and a very happy new year
Derek + Tara
Quote by Wishmaster
The way it normally works is that everyone knows who they are buying a pressie for...
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The other benefit is that each person knows who is buying them a pressie so you get a bit of banter in the lead up to it.

I think this sounds great, it would be indeed alot of fun :giggle: ... good idea Wishmaster :thumbup: ...
Marcuso: ---> what do you think mate?
Quote by freckledbird
the only problem there is that some people may have to drop out at some point, or even at the last minute, for whatever reason - then what do you do?

Well... if someone drops out... the reserve list has plenty, so the new lucky person/couple just take the place of the ones who dropped, both for giving and receiving (presies that is... lol)... problem solved smile
Quote by Marcuso
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If I don't get any more wanting to come after the 9th I will be adding those on the reserve list to the full list, so anyone who can't make the 29th please let me know as soon as possible and I'll sort it.
see you all on the 29th.
Take care all
Marcuso
xx xx xx xx

wow... tomorrow's reserve list promotion day.... :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: hope there's still places for us to get promoted... sounds like a party not to be missed with pressies and loads of fun... we're so excited and looking forward to cuming and meeting you all... :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: so hope we get in... keep your fingers crossed for us everyone :lol: ...
Cheers,
Derek + Tara x
Quote by Marcuso
Was this the post that you meant Derek???

confused Urrmmmm... no... never mind... I was just saying that with it being your party you shouldn't be doing any 'passionate appologies' you should be doing 'passionate welcomes' instead wink .... which leaves the 'passionate appologies' to me biggrin
Anyway... I must have done something wrong and lost the post somehow ... probably previewed it and forgot to post it... silly me redface ... but hey... there's another reason for me to passionately appologies to all the lovely ladies in person.... hehehe... :D
Cheers,
Derek + Tara xxxx
''IOU snogs ladies'' (Derek) :wink:
Quote by Marcuso
Can I ask if I'm allowed to blatantly bump this back to the top???........lol

hmmmm... not sure what you mean m8, and where's my reply gone, I'm pretty sure I posted a reply to your earlier post.... ??? confused
Derek + Tara
Quote by Marcuso
Here's the list so far folks.........................gonna be keeping it to a maximum of 40 this time.
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It's most probably gonna be on Wednesday 29th, as my son usually stays at his mums on a Wednesday, but can't be definite till I've talked to her about it

Well that's 28 on main list and 13 on reserve already, it looks like it's gonna be a full house marcuso wink ... can't wait already! :bounce: ... are you having a special theme for the party with it being so close to both Xmas and new year? Should we say dress as santa or bring each other saucy Xmas presents :wink: ... mind you I might just pretend to have forgotten all the presents and appologies passionatelly to all the lovely ladies in person passionkiss :wink:
Let us know as soon as you can confirm the date mate, so we can confirm it in our 'almost finished' calendars lol assuming offcourse that santa's gonna grant us our wish of being promoted to the main list :lol:
Cheers :cheers:
Derek + Tara x
Quote by bi_curious_man123
Marcuso, was a shame to miss your bday party, so really hope we are not too late to be included in this one... please please please count us in :-)
cheers mate,
Derek + 1 ;-)

Hi Derek
I'll have to put you on the reserve list at the mo mate.
As I said to Helen39 I have to give those that have been to my house parties before a chance to get their names down first, but you are second on the reserve list mate.
Take care
Marcuso
Fair enough mate smile , was actually hopeing we'd get straight in for comming to the munch you organised before in chesterfield... but I'm feeling lucky anyway so will keep fingers crossed and hopefully get on the main list soon :))
P.S. any idea about the exact date yet?
Cheers:thumbup:,
Derek +1
Marcuso, was a shame to miss your bday party, so really hope we are not too late to be included in this one... please please please count us in :-)
cheers mate,
Derek + 1 ;-)
Quote by bi_curious_man123
Passionatewildstallion..............couldn't leave you off the list after you asking so nicely
Cheers all
Marcuso
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Marcuso,
Thanks a lot m8... :thumbup: really appreciate you putting my name down for this one.... I'll o u a drink for that :cheers:
Getting more & more excited every day about meeting everyone... should be a lovely party(s) ;) with loads of fun .... :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Looking forward to seeing you all soooooooooooon...
Hello everyone,
This sounds like a fun idea... would love to join you all... may I pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeese? smile
Cheers,
Derek
Hiya Marcuso
How are you mate? wave Haven't seen you since the previous munch wink , hope all is good and well biggrin . Would appreciate it if there's still a place for me at the after munch house party, would really like to come... hope I'm lucky enough to find a place ... and let me know if there's any prerequisites or rules if any...
Cheers :thumbup:
Derek
Hello,
New single male on forum, not so new to swinging ... would love to come as I'm in notts... would be nice to get to know you all... please count me in and book me a place...
Cheers,
Derek