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Phoenixcouple
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 50
Bisexual Female, 46
0 miles · Leicestershire

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Can't comment on Tease but we went to VA for our first club visit. We love it there! We have only been on a Saturday night which is coupled only night. We would also recommend Linerty Elite for a first time club visit to. Both have seperate social area's so no pressure to do anything your not ready for. Hope you have lots of sexy fun ;).
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Thanks for the advice. The link takes you to love honey which is a great site, but the lingerie is a bit tame. Thanks for the link to as I was not familiar with this site. Are you able to provide links to your favourite purchases from the site? I've also come across a great site called with a great range of sexy lingerie. Let me know what your favourite outfits are on the site that I could purchase for my other half.

We have used that website to. We have had mixed results some stuff arrived straight away. Other stuff.... Not so quick.
They do have some great stuff but I wouldn't order if your on a time limit is what I am trying to say... I think lol.
P.S. judging by your pics we think your otherhalf would look fantastic in most of it! ;)
Try her favorite colours and stylishly sexy...
Your not the only one lol. Mrs P is all tanned up to... Just the challenge of the outfit now!
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Looks like it will be a busy night! :bounce:

It's looking like its gonna be a great night!!! ;) lol
Little update for everyone going.
So far including from 'the other popular site' we have 6 confirmed couples going and a 7th couple that are trying very hard to get there.
As far as we are aware this will be a first club visit for 3 or maybe 4 of those couples.
It's looking to be a fantastic night really can't come soon enough! Can't wait to meet you all!
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Ok so we know it's a bit early but it's how we have to roll, we are going to Vanilla's on 21st July...
Anyone else interested in going? This is aimed at those couples we have been trying to meet for ages! ;) lol .
If your new and want a couple to hide behind then drop us a msg and we promise to be gentle with you. We only bite on special request ;) :lol: .
It would be really cool to get a group together that just wants to have a great laugh, with hopefully lots of sexy fun to.
Let the fun begin!

hello everyone, whilst not newbies, we are deffo going on the 21st, we hope to meet you lovely people and lets hope some fun can be had by all xx
Welcome to the party guys!
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Oh no, we thought it was this coming Saturday, but it is actually nearly two weeks away :-(

We did wonder. Lol
Two weeks will fly by! Mr P's will because he is working right through now!
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Dammit this is sounding like a really fun night! :doh:

Can you get out of it and squeeze in some playtime? Always room for more ;) lol.
Would love to biggrin But it's the same weekend as my stag do and H is away on a friend's hen do, so it's not stuff we can shuffle.
Hopefully see you guys another time though xxx
Lol guess you can't really back out of your own stag do!
We'll save you a spot for next time guys...
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We hope to make it. As the chams social has been cancelled for that night, there may be a sudden increase in numbers choosing VA on that night x x

Cool guys! See you there... X
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Dammit this is sounding like a really fun night! :doh:

Can you get out of it and squeeze in some playtime? Always room for more ;) lol.
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Hi
Wonder if someone would answer a question please.
Just a point, as planning our first visit to a club in the UK, do clubs here have a nightlub sort of area with music etc. to set the mood with a bit of a smooch before venturing off to other areas ?
Looked at several club profiles and all have 'bars & lounges' but doesn't say if they have what we are looking for. Fancy Chams or Liberties but would like to know whats what and go for somewhere with a bit of 'atmos' to start things off.
Thanks in advance
Duotwo

Out of those two Liberties will be what you are looking for. We love Vanilla Alternatives to. Both have hotels attached which is always a bonus.
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Hi guys,
Yes we are definitely going! All booked up and we can't flipping wait!!
Thank you both sooooo much for being so lovely online while my hubby is away, you've really helped me.
See you very soon in the flesh.
Rachel and Simon xxxx

Awww your more than welcome.
We thought we would get everyone posting in this thread thats on this site. That way everyone knows who is going so then we can all checkout who's new, who's not and maybe the odd perv... Er i mean research of profiles.
Anything we can help with, we will, just got to ask here or msg.
God we're getting soooo excited! lol
It's not the grandest of accommodations as they are in the process of re-investing into it.
However the rooms are very clean, it's perfectly servicable and the beds are comfortable.
It is also very reasonably priced due to the above...
Hope that helps.
P.S: 21st July would be a better date to go! ;) lol
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Aww that's a shame we won't be able to come then! Hope you guys have a great time though. Hope to see you soon though xx

Argh. Typically bad timing kicking in again. Hopefully next time guys....
Xxx
Ok so we know it's a bit early but it's how we have to roll, we are going to Vanilla's on 21st July...
Anyone else interested in going? This is aimed at those couples we have been trying to meet for ages! ;) lol .
If your new and want a couple to hide behind then drop us a msg and we promise to be gentle with you. We only bite on special request ;) :lol: .
It would be really cool to get a group together that just wants to have a great laugh, with hopefully lots of sexy fun to.
Let the fun begin!
There is also a 'Themed' night this week at VA so maybe people could be waiting for that?
Pretty much everything that is not a necessity is going to suffer in the current climate I think tho.
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any bloody weekend would do us--just can't get out...
Planetary alignment is just not happening for us at the moment sad
ARGHHHHHHHHH!!

We know that feeling very well!!!
Hope the planets line up for you soon!
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Right there seems to be loads going the weekend before and loads going the weekend after anyone else going on the 28th?
Be sure to come and say Hi!
We'll be the ones in the bar having a great time. Well until we're the ones in the jacuzzi and play area having a great time! Lol
Been having loads of problems with the site over the last few days! Is it just us?
We're getting '502 bad gateway' errors all the time, trouble logging into site, trouble logging into chat, pics not displaying, really really slow, messenger not working. Probably some others that i can't remember either.
We have raised a support ticket so we'll see if that chhanges things but we're really beginning to get confused we pay a reasonable sum of money to have access to this site and seem to suffer constant problems are we the only ones?
We just don't seem to get it on other sites we use. Its all very frustrating!
We have just discovered the club scene so definitely going to be exploring that more in 2012!
Our boundries keep moving so its going to be exciting seeing where that takes us to.
We have played with a few couples now but we still would love to experience play with a girl on her own as its something we have never had the opportunity to try so fingers crossed we may get to explore that in 2012 to. Well we can hope! Lol
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We can't answer either as we await our first meet, but I guess one every two months would be nice!

Happy to volunteer! Oh wait we already did that lol ;)
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Just my opinion but I think SHREP would be much more credible if Site rep was removed. I dont actually see the need or point in site rep dunno Having the three Vouch, meet and site is like a cross between a worth while verification and a thumbs up on a facebook page.

Totally agree!
We had some really rude messages off a couple the other day. A couple with no photo's or info on their profile wanted to arrange a meet. I sent a message back asking for photo's and some information about what they were looking for. They gave me no info and said they could send photo's by mobile phone. When we said that we don't give out our numbers until we know we are interested in a meet and would prefer to swap pictures on here, the reply was a whole load of abuse, calling us timewasters!
This particular couple already have one negative site rep and I was tempted to add to it but I know that they would have done the same back even though we had done nothing wrong!
I think that if the site rep stays then there should be a way to show a response and explanation to negative shreps. There are two sides to every story!
Have to agree with this. We have had much the same thing.
If you leave negative feedback then odds are you'll get it right back?
Of course the other issue is what someone considers negatives is not necessarily so like for example a polite 'no thanks'!! So shrep leaves you open to negative feed back for a polite no thanks?
This has led to us being reluctant to reply if we know there's no interest which is not ideal either...
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What can Jo wear in the play area if we decide to go into this area? Does it have to be a bikini? Could she wear lingerie or a bodystocking for example?

Most wear lingerie in one form or another.
Or nothing if they choose to go in the jacuzzi, it can be easier just to wrap a towel round while going to a play area afterwards.
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