Found this thread really the video chat,i hardly ever went into chat and found the forums to be much more of a community ,and much more the chat is a bit more of a magnet friendly too in the main. Must admit sometimes I am totally bemused! Sometimes feal a kind of surreal to hear others views.
Thats me !You my soulmate?Say hello you might get a pleasant surprise.......so might I !
Not that I can spek for anyone but clubs' in this scenario, only facilitate meeting people with similar taste or people,I guess ,in a swinging environment have a fairly open approach to what anyone would find to be a turn on,and would try to be considerate to a person's taste.I for one find the concept and imagery of Bdsm to be pretty erotic,I'm seriously not into pain,and even more seriously not into inflicting what i'm tryin to say is 'clubs' are just a collection of people with tastes desires and 've all got limits and always pretty much everything goes as long as people are all happy bunnies,but the connection rate is going to go down proportioately with the extremity of any particlar fetish Always feel that the big criterion is integrity.......making people feel respected,safe, and happy.
Take care and Happy swinging
Never realised how much I missed the catfights lol
Nice to see you back...Hope it'll be a happy house
Paul xx
Love them to bits..Hours and hours of endless if there are any rusks!
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Have we deteriorated so much as a nation up here it takes four months to arrange to meet our friends for a drink?No disrespect to those who are arranging the munch, but more as a comment to the others .....we know that swingers are a lot thinner on the ground up 're not enjoying the clubs or contacts here there are further southso I must admit I'm amazed at the reluctance up here to get together socially on a more regular basis or keep in touch as groups or crack if we don't want to meet up with one another at least for a cupof tea1Would it not be more logical to try and form our own social group up here. Guess I could arrange a good drink up in 24 hrs!!!
A lot easier to get on than get paid! Running at least three month in arrears at minute.
Not that it has ever happened to me,lol,but I would have to say I reckon the worst way is when people just disappear and become constantly 's very temting to keep trying to get the person,but becomes aware that if you persist it would start to become a nuisance like it could be portrayed as such. This stuation often comes at times that are quite unexpected leaving you to figure it out for yourself,and also to judge what is a reasonable time to be worried,concerned,unsure as to what has actually happened!I think this scenario is not only cowardice,but also emotional bullying of the worst type.
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Fairly embarassed that anyone could have taken my comments as any criticism or comment on the efforts of Lucyand Co.I stated quite clearly that I intended no disrespect or criticismism of the munch most of you replying understoodthis and I have sent PM's answering your points and thanking you for your advice ,however I feel I took an unwarrented slap and although I shouldn"t be too upset.......because the person concerned obviously failed to read my posting and understand what it said.....(his criticism and spelling show no better grasp on the language!)....it is still hurtful.......maybe I should learn to keep my big mouth shut! I made the mistake of thinking I could air my views freely to my friends!
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After a spell away from this community,can I say it's very comfortable to be to all my friends old and new.I hope anyone that knows me and hasn't come across me for a bit will say hi!
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