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RedVelvet
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Thank you to all who replied.
I'm actually in Bournemouth, but I don't mind travelling if it's not too far. I think Bucks could well be a bit of a trek though!
Steve, Mal and Paul - you need to get down here! It's only polite to return the favour isn't it... you three would be welcome anytime :twisted:
Sab :rose:
I'm actually in Bournemouth, but I don't mind travelling if it's not too far. I think Bucks could well be a bit of a trek though!
Steve, Mal and Paul - you need to get down here! It's only polite to return the favour isn't it... you three would be welcome anytime :twisted:
Sab :rose:
Hi and welcome Red Baron,
It was of my opinion till recently that all the fun is happening up North and not down here. You missed a munch in Chichester last week (organised by the gorgeous Mandy). Hopefully we'll be organising another soon in or around Bournemouth. But until then nice seeing you in the forum.
Sab :rose:
It was of my opinion till recently that all the fun is happening up North and not down here. You missed a munch in Chichester last week (organised by the gorgeous Mandy). Hopefully we'll be organising another soon in or around Bournemouth. But until then nice seeing you in the forum.
Sab :rose:
Bless you Fisher, as I said, I'm not ostracising you; just refering to the contact I've had with others in the past. You were the straw that broke the camels back 
But thanks for all your views peeps, glad to know I'm not alone and not being overly touchy about the subject!
So. I'll take this opportunity to advertise myself as a gorgeous black specimen in need of cuddles from willing fems and couples! :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
But thanks for all your views peeps, glad to know I'm not alone and not being overly touchy about the subject!
So. I'll take this opportunity to advertise myself as a gorgeous black specimen in need of cuddles from willing fems and couples!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Very true Paul, but I personally think that's wrong. All that serves to do is widen the gap between the blacks/asians and whites in our society. It's seemingly harmless, but the implications further the racial stereotypes each of us already have.
I didn't intend to pic on you personally Fisher, a few people I've encountered have said similar things to you and I understand that you meant no harm... I just thought a few words from a black woman may be beneficial.
I didn't intend to pic on you personally Fisher, a few people I've encountered have said similar things to you and I understand that you meant no harm... I just thought a few words from a black woman may be beneficial.
Hi guys,
I hope you all don't think I'm a miserable cow, although my recent posts will imply that I am
I'd just like to point out something I said in another post, which (as I'm part of a minority group) really gets my goat!
I am black. I don't mind if people like blacks or they don't, each to their own, but please don't tell me 'oooh, I've never had a black woman', or 'i fancy trying black p***y' cos that really upsets me. I am a woman first, and black second. Being black is just a description of my colouring, and not part of my essence. I am no different in bed than a white woman, and to think otherwise is like saying that I have two clitorises and a tail. (Is someone with freckles any different in bed to someone without? No.)
Please don't think that I don't understand there is a novelty factor about being with a black or asian person, because I do. I'd just like people to have a think about what they say a little before saying it.
In a society which is getting better about racial issues, lets not go back the other way.
I hope you all don't think I'm a miserable cow, although my recent posts will imply that I am
I'd just like to point out something I said in another post, which (as I'm part of a minority group) really gets my goat!
I am black. I don't mind if people like blacks or they don't, each to their own, but please don't tell me 'oooh, I've never had a black woman', or 'i fancy trying black p***y' cos that really upsets me. I am a woman first, and black second. Being black is just a description of my colouring, and not part of my essence. I am no different in bed than a white woman, and to think otherwise is like saying that I have two clitorises and a tail. (Is someone with freckles any different in bed to someone without? No.)
Please don't think that I don't understand there is a novelty factor about being with a black or asian person, because I do. I'd just like people to have a think about what they say a little before saying it.
In a society which is getting better about racial issues, lets not go back the other way.
There is at least one non-white female in this form, that being my good self, but I'd just like to use this thread as a way of getting a few things off my chest.
Firstly; Why is it that people think that 'blackness' or 'asianness' is a thing to be had or tried. There is more to me than being a black woman. Perhaps it's the novelty factor, but I take mild offense that black p**sy is any different to white p**sy. It isn't. There is nothing but a colour difference. All women are different in sight, smell and sexual experience I suppose, but that is it.
Secondly, uk-fisher, you're going the wrong way about it. If i'm taking slight offense, then I'm pretty sure that other blacks and asians will too, cos I'm a pretty easy going person normally.
Firstly; Why is it that people think that 'blackness' or 'asianness' is a thing to be had or tried. There is more to me than being a black woman. Perhaps it's the novelty factor, but I take mild offense that black p**sy is any different to white p**sy. It isn't. There is nothing but a colour difference. All women are different in sight, smell and sexual experience I suppose, but that is it.
Secondly, uk-fisher, you're going the wrong way about it. If i'm taking slight offense, then I'm pretty sure that other blacks and asians will too, cos I'm a pretty easy going person normally.
Hi Albert,
Well, I'm pretty new to this too. But I would suggest putting yourself in the shoes of whoever's attention you want to grab. What would you think if you read your message? Is it the type you'd want to reply to? You know how funny us women are!
Also, I've noticed there are a lot more men wanting women than vise versa, so perhaps you'll have to be extra eloquent to grab attention!
That's just what I think, could be wrong.
Well, I'm pretty new to this too. But I would suggest putting yourself in the shoes of whoever's attention you want to grab. What would you think if you read your message? Is it the type you'd want to reply to? You know how funny us women are!
Also, I've noticed there are a lot more men wanting women than vise versa, so perhaps you'll have to be extra eloquent to grab attention!
That's just what I think, could be wrong.
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my mate and i are looking for a lady with big breasts , he is into big boobs , to have fun with. i would like to watch while he and her give it to each other.
I fit your criteria Tarnap, but I'm not convinced by your ad and I'm not sure other ladies will be either. Perhaps you could try a more subtle wording?
Good luck
''Just because single men say welcome on here, it doesn't mean they want to jump on your bones - they're just being friendly. ''
You misunderstand me Mal.. thanks to all who've made me welcome. What I was refering to was the private messages being sent. You guys have been very sweet.
I like the forum very much Wilma
You misunderstand me Mal.. thanks to all who've made me welcome. What I was refering to was the private messages being sent. You guys have been very sweet.
I like the forum very much Wilma
