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Saffy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 62
0 miles · Milton Keynes
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Sexlightened
I feel you can build quiet strong friendships with people that you play with as long as you know the limits & when to back out.. Emotions can get in the way & you can get hurt but it’s knowing your limits, & most important knowing yourself. Respecting the people you play with & the big one being honest & trusting each other.
I played with a couple for a long while became a member of their family but I knew the limits which were that neither of them belonged to me. I was a friend & someone that added a little erotic spice to their lives. If at any time I had felt my friendship or our sexual fun was effecting their relationship then I would have ended 's due to respecting their marrage which was more important then me.
I think the kind of relationship I had with this couple is rare in the swinging world & i don't expect to repeat it.
I played with a couple for a long while became a member of their family but I knew the limits which were that neither of them belonged to me. I was a friend & someone that added a little erotic spice to their lives. If at any time I had felt my friendship or our sexual fun was effecting their relationship then I would have ended 's due to respecting their marrage which was more important then me.
I think the kind of relationship I had with this couple is rare in the swinging world & i don't expect to repeat it.
Sexlightened
Hi David
Ok here goes i'm curious, nosie, interest in the results of your last attempt.
You had 130+ hits you say but did you achieve your goal & find any ladies or at least one lady to satisfy your lustful caravings? (No names just a number)
Just trying to work out the law of averages here
Ok here goes i'm curious, nosie, interest in the results of your last attempt.
You had 130+ hits you say but did you achieve your goal & find any ladies or at least one lady to satisfy your lustful caravings? (No names just a number)
Just trying to work out the law of averages here
Sexlightened
I have to say that i have had the experience only once but not from finger insertion, it was with a guy that had a piercing.
The feeling was very scary at first as i felt i had lost complete control & yes there was also the embarrassment of feeling you were going to wet yourself but there was never any pain so i would be very careful if it is hurting you.
The feeling was very scary at first as i felt i had lost complete control & yes there was also the embarrassment of feeling you were going to wet yourself but there was never any pain so i would be very careful if it is hurting you.
Sexlightened
I have to say that i have had the experience only once but not from finger insertion, it was with a guy that had a piercing.
The feeling was very scary at first as i felt i had lost complete control & yes there was also the embarrassment of feeling you were going to wet yourself but there was never any pain so i would be very careful if it is hurting you.
The feeling was very scary at first as i felt i had lost complete control & yes there was also the embarrassment of feeling you were going to wet yourself but there was never any pain so i would be very careful if it is hurting you.
Sexlightened
I can't believe i'm going to do stick up for the single guys ( spank some sence into me someone please)
I don't think we should put all guys in the same pot so to speak there are some guys that have put a lot of thought & effert into their profiles for instance davidfranklin (If i was nearer i might have been tempted)
Then there are those guys that don't put much on their profiles but are regulars in the rooms,they are funny,polite,patient not pushy & respectful. They put time & effert into chatting with people surely if you judge them just for not having a profile what does that say about you?
I don't think we should put all guys in the same pot so to speak there are some guys that have put a lot of thought & effert into their profiles for instance davidfranklin (If i was nearer i might have been tempted)
Then there are those guys that don't put much on their profiles but are regulars in the rooms,they are funny,polite,patient not pushy & respectful. They put time & effert into chatting with people surely if you judge them just for not having a profile what does that say about you?
Sexlightened
Quote by sexkittenhfx
dambuster...i afraid im going ot have to read your post a couple more times before it sinks in......
Yeah - me too.
The whole thing about some people "seeing the sbf, and not seeing Jane" is something I wasn't aware of and it's it's been disturbing me a little since it was brought up in conversation last week.
it sort of reminds me of having a token gay, or token woman in the workplace.
it does happen tho, its the rason i took along time out from the scene and am only tentatively dipping my toe again, contrary to what was said earlier about a 3 some being more about the extra person......often its alllllllll about the couple and the feelings/wants of little old me gets lost in the commotion!
I have to agree i have had couple of plays with couples were the social meets where great & the little lady was up for girl fun but then when we came to play it was clear it was more about them & did she have any interest in the bi side like feck so i was got there under force pretences
Sexlightened
Hi Goose
Sorry to hear you have had a bit of a ruff time.
Yes munchies are just socials but it is a way of you getting to know people & them you. I agree with you a lot people in the rooms know each other but they are the northeners who are munch crazy ( Jealous )
I chatted for nearly a year before i played (fussy cow
) Try using the cafe more if you are not keen on the chat rooms its another way for you to get known.
Good Luck :wink:
Sorry to hear you have had a bit of a ruff time.
Yes munchies are just socials but it is a way of you getting to know people & them you. I agree with you a lot people in the rooms know each other but they are the northeners who are munch crazy ( Jealous
)I chatted for nearly a year before i played (fussy cow
) Try using the cafe more if you are not keen on the chat rooms its another way for you to get known.Good Luck :wink:
Sexlightened
now let me think
I blush like a teenager at my age its embrassing
I work nights so have a FART YES I admit it problem NOoooooooo control.
OH then there is the other Fanny Farts see you lot im honest god help me.
I smoke when ive had few drinks or am stressed.
I have NO sence of direction even when give a map
ok i need a breath
I blush like a teenager at my age its embrassing
I work nights so have a FART YES I admit it problem NOoooooooo control.
OH then there is the other Fanny Farts see you lot im honest god help me.
I smoke when ive had few drinks or am stressed.
I have NO sence of direction even when give a map
ok i need a breath
Sexlightened
now let me think
I blush like a teenager at my age its embrassing
I work nights so have a FART YES I admit it problem NOoooooooo control.
OH then there is the other Fanny Farts see you lot im honest god help me.
I smoke when ive had few drinks or am stressed.
I have NO sence of direction even when give a map
ok i need a breath
I blush like a teenager at my age its embrassing
I work nights so have a FART YES I admit it problem NOoooooooo control.
OH then there is the other Fanny Farts see you lot im honest god help me.
I smoke when ive had few drinks or am stressed.
I have NO sence of direction even when give a map
ok i need a breath
Sexlightened
Quote by markz
yes there is an ancient product men have used for years and costs nothing.
cowpats!!! I know its sounds yuk but the results are amazing just go down to your local field pickup a couple and store in a bin liner for a couple of days. You might have to add a little water to keep it moist. Then just smear it on daily, leave it on for at least an hour, obviously the longer you leave it on the better the effect.
not sure if i should throw up at the images that spring to mind or wet myself laughing
Sexlightened
Quote by markz
yes there is an ancient product men have used for years and costs nothing.
cowpats!!! I know its sounds yuk but the results are amazing just go down to your local field pickup a couple and store in a bin liner for a couple of days. You might have to add a little water to keep it moist. Then just smear it on daily, leave it on for at least an hour, obviously the longer you leave it on the better the effect.
not sure if i should throw up at the images that spring to mind or wet myself laughing
Sexlightened
Quote by winchwench
I for one have wanted to go to a munch ( if there is ever one in my neck of the woods, hint hint)
People munch in Beds all the time........
i must be blind on my timeing is right out as only ever seen one munch in my neck of the woods. So next time ones on let me know as i work unsocial hours so might of missed them.
i might munch some toast in beds tomorrow :lol: :lol:
check the lol after winchwench's post saffy :lol: :lol:
Toast leaves crumbs........Minge is better!
:lol:ok ok that one slipped pas me. I GET IT NOW
Sexlightened
if we are talking confidents then surely that should effect all areas of your life?
where as i can strip off have sex with people that i click with but don't know that well but i am not shy or dont lack confidence but when it comes down to comunication i get the jelly mouth effect in larger groups & boy does it piss me off.
If i'm honest i have been looked down on by my peers due to my bluntness with in my work invorment( other wise i say it as it is & don't disapline people in a jokey way) well spelling is another area i lack confidence but i'm one of these people that hit themself on the head as i know what to say but the mouth keeps turning to spagetti.
few drinks & i can talk the hind legs off a donkey
where as i can strip off have sex with people that i click with but don't know that well but i am not shy or dont lack confidence but when it comes down to comunication i get the jelly mouth effect in larger groups & boy does it piss me off.
If i'm honest i have been looked down on by my peers due to my bluntness with in my work invorment( other wise i say it as it is & don't disapline people in a jokey way) well spelling is another area i lack confidence but i'm one of these people that hit themself on the head as i know what to say but the mouth keeps turning to spagetti.
few drinks & i can talk the hind legs off a donkey
Sexlightened
Quote by lovejoy68
i can be quite shy untill i get to know some people then depending on the alcohol content of my blood can be a little over the top
would love to attend my first munch this year though see if i can put some faces to names, would have liked to have gone to a small do first but looks like it will have to be a full on one :shock:
Sexlightened
Quote by lovejoy68
i can be quite shy untill i get to know some people then depending on the alcohol content of my blood can be a little over the top
would love to attend my first munch this year though see if i can put some faces to names, would have liked to have gone to a small do first but looks like it will have to be a full on one :shock:
faces to name don't even go there i tinki need to be put in a dementia unit as i can remember faces but names beat me every time. Do they really want me giving medication to there patients oppppppppi didnt omit to loss of memory.
Sexlightened
Quote by m1970
Depends on circumsatnces for me, I can be shy, although my biggest problem is being pee shy, I cannot stand at a urinal and go for a piss , I can stand for 15 minutes and still not go, if i go in the cubicles, no problems, don't ask me why.
Im usually chatty, if im out in a pub i tighten up for some reason. I prefer company who does the talking for me
Im just odd
glad you said that as when i'm at work if the girls are wshing their hands outside my toilet i have to tell then to bloody shut up & wash their hands as i can't pee till they have gone.
