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Screwtape
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 50
0 miles · Hertfordshire

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Warming the Bed
I've been a member a while but a conservative partner held me back from really taking the bull by the h. But now I am single and am looking forward to enjoying being me for the first time in a while. I'm looking forward to getting to know you all and making friends among like-minded people.
Richard
PS My pic is still waiting approval.
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Judy,
I did wonder if I were using the correct term. Thanks for the clarification!
ST
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I spent the evening at a friend's and she started trying on some of her sexy outfits she sometimes wears for Goth clubbing. I don't know how it happened but I found myself trying on a long, flowing skirt, a silky top and a leather corset.
I felt amazing! My friend's jaw dropped. Apparently, I make a good woman and she automatically took on the role of the male and, well, not much happened physically, but in every other way it was intense. What I could not get over was how naturally my personality changed.
You learn something new every day!
Screwtape
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TMC,
I appreciate what you say and thank you, but while I am not normally shy in coming forward with an opinion, I think as far as such things go, it is better to refuse to participate on . . . I suppose you could call them philosophical grounds.
Thanks, though.
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FMC,
You're quite right. I always say that I refuse to take part in any debate on race as my doing so requires I accept there are essential differences between them, which I don't believe. Had I been truer to myself, I'd have helped clear up the misunderstanding of the term "reverse racism" then kept quiet.
Screwtape
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You're right, it is a difficult subject and I don't think anyone wants to fall back on affirmative action. However, as is the case with the police force, nothing else seems to be working. You have to handle it very skillfully though. No one must ever have reason to feel that someone else who is not trying as hard is receiving favourable treatment. From what I can tell, ethnic minority recruits in institutions such as the police find themselves having to work twice as hard as anyone else anyway.
It is indeed a toughie.
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I am not the first to say this on this thread, but I thought I'd chip in anyway: reverse racism is where someone is treated better because of their race. Many black people find this as insulting as racism. Well, the ones I know do.
Mind you, it has another name: affirmative action. As far as I can tell, if there is a difference, affirmative action has a basis in good ideas and a genuine attempt to put things right: like when ethnic minorities are encouraged to join the police force or the army. Reverse racism is usually where a black guy is promoted so the company he works for can feel better about themselves.
Screwtape
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I don't think religion is a problem at all; it's people you have to worry about. I am not religious, either, and I am not here to defend it. People can and will fight over anything. Even love! People kill over it; as they do over money, nationalism, politics and personal ambition.
If there is conflict within and between religions it is because there is conflict within and between us. I think before we can expect to see peace in the world, we need to see peace within ourselves. Until we do, we'll always find something to fight over.
Screwtape
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Ah, now this is more like it! I should have gone down this route ages ago, instead of joining and asking for a shag all within twenty minutes and pouting when no one replied.
Still, we live and learn. Where do you have to do to get a drink round here?
Your affectionate uncle,
Screwtape (for the benefit of Reece and all other CD Lewis fans)
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I have been advised by EagerSlut to post in this section, to get to know people and to see what happens. So here I am, keen to make friends first and foremost.
Screwtape
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Been here a couple of months now and know better how it works. It isn't really sufficient to pop on when one feels horny and expect to get a shag for that same night. So here I am, reintroducing myself and hoping to make friends. We'll see where it leads.
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We're watching ourselves screwing on a home video and as it's still early we thought maybe there we could let someone join in with our fun. She's like to be fucked in the back of our car while I am driving in dark secluded areas. She's a tall, blond, Polish girl.
Couples also welcome.
Get in touch!
(Herts/Beds area)
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Hi,
I understand I am new here and that new guys get viewed with a bit of suspicion (especially single males), but hopefully if I stick around long enough things will get moving. I am looking to meet up in lay-bys, car parks or roadside cafes for dirty talking, groping and sex. Single women or couples and all ideas welcome.
Richard
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Amateur (but experienced) photographer here and keen to help out.
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I am hoping to arrange a dogging session with a sexy couple. New to this and don't fancy just turning up cold, as it were. Anywhere in the Herts, Beds, north London or Cambs area.