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Surfdude365
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 52

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Well this is a top class site lol no matter what you are thinking or what you what to do this site help you after this subject i had a vast amout of replys from you lady's
and im off tonight to find out what ive been missing well that if a dont bottle it lol confused
So a big thanks to all and if anyone else has any comments i love to here them
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Does anyone else think that Surfdude365 may be related to Punky by any chance. It would appear that they both exhibit some kind of empathy bypass.

Ok peeps here it is Punkys take on this delightful topic.
I would agree 100% with surfdude on this and not because i wanna get you all itching ya knickers again, but from my own experience of this topic (yes at 20 you can have experience) despite what some of you think!!
I started seeing this guy at 17 and trust me he was a MINGER!!! I only went out with him on the rebound, and i knew i had dropped my standards by a few 109098347%, but ... the sex was mindblowing. Ok at 17 all i had experienced before hand was a year and a half of jouvenile shitfrom the one boy!! But it was the first time i'd experienced an orgasm and when my friends asked y i was with such a minger my response was the same.
After a while my rose tinted glasses began to wear of and i couldn't stand the sight of him. So i dumped him. Left him heart broken, went off with his model looking mate. Tall blonde very stunning, but alass the sex just didn't match up to the look, and so off i'd sneak back to get the great sex from the minger.
This carried on for almost four years, he had the same minging girlfriend he got when we split, i went through a number of better looking relationships, but at least twice a week i'd sneak round to his for a mind blowing time.
It is very hard to say goodbye to great sex but since meeting my partner now i am 100% faithfull but trust me sometimes the minger creeps back in my fantasies!!
So in answer yes i think ugly people can be diamonds in bed but now i wouldn't go t bed with someone i didn't look twice at. Shallow maybe? standards a must!!
Go on people do your worst !!!

cool
At last the truth comes out lol I knew it I am married going through a really bad time my wife ended up with her boss at Xmas party came home nothing wrong then told me 2 months later she does not love me. we split ( I moved out with our daughter of 12 months and lived at my folks I then on rebounds meet a few lady friend one being a slight ugly but some how had a special something - the sex was great something was missing though the looks she was no stunner, anyway this lasted 5 weeks with sex 3 times a week then out of the blue mother nature I think my wife wanted me to go home so i have, she still texts this guy even though she’s moved jobs not sure if things will work out or not the sex with my wife is a big fat nothing since xmas time and i keep thinking of the ugly lady but at least I got sex
Sorry its hard to say but people do get blinded by the light and do thing that you should not really do!!! What do you think?
Hi All
I know it may be sad but on corry the other night the guy in the factory said :-
Right girls knickers down and listen before we go any further wink . What a classic line
( i good bit of writting for TV I think ) made me giggle lol
others :-
Im an under water brick layer someone has to build bridges :P
im a dolphin trianer if you fancy it come and have a ride :twisted:
and no i dont use them, lol
Hi All
Thank you for your comments i really did find them interesting, im still not sure and think i need to find a partner to have fun with and who also does not mind trying new things. so if there is a lady out there that want to teach me please PM me.
Thanks again wink
Sorry guys it has to be Windsurfers or surfer, bikinis on looing good, legs are so fine saying that any sport where they are wearing very little has to be up there.
Has anyone else ever had a fabulous sexual partner who was, well, real fuckin' ugly. A woman I used to date said a guy walked into her store who was so ugly she gasped, but there was something about him - later she took him upstairs and he fucked her so well she scared her dog out of the room with her screaming.
I once dated an ugly girl with a very seductive manner who turned out to be a world class lover. Maybe they compensate for their looks in other ways?
HI All
A bit nervous with this one but im intrigued with this, im interested in anal however im not gay or thinking of being gay (nothing wrong with being gay before anyone says anything) I would like to give it only to ladies and keep thinking what it would be like to receive it from a lady.
Am I loosing it ??? Why am I thinking like this, I love ladies and I really really love pussy so why do I keep thinking like this ???
Heres me thinking it was have sex on a windsurfing board lol and by the way it is one of the best ways to have fun laying on a board in the middle of a lake going at it wow
i was 16 years old sat in my dad warbrobe over his magazines after about 5 yeards later i found out they were my mothers mags
So What do you do if the person your sleeping with goes on and on whilst your trying to focus some of the comments make me laugh lol
Welcome to the world of fun, im surfdude365 single and here for the fun.
I only just joined and everone seems friendly
so if you need help just ask
Masturbation 'cuts cancer risk'
Researchers were assessing prostate cancer risk
Men could reduce their risk of developing prostate cancer through regular masturbation, researchers suggest.
They say cancer-causing chemicals could build up in the prostate if men do not ejaculate regularly.
And they say sexual intercourse may not have the same protective effect because of the possibility of contracting a sexually transmitted infection, which could increase men's cancer risk.
Australian researchers questioned over 1,000 men who had developed prostate cancer and 1,250 who had not about their sexual habits.
This is a plausible theory
Dr Chris Hiley, Prostate Cancer Charity
They found those who had ejaculated the most between the ages of 20 and 50 were the least likely to develop the cancer.
The protective effect was greatest while the men were in their 20s.
Men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer later in life.
Fluid
Previous research has suggested that a high number of sexual partners or a high level of sexual activity increased a man's risk of developing prostate cancer by up to 40%.
But the Australian researchers who carried out this study suggest the early work missed the protective effect of ejaculation because it focussed on sexual intercourse, with its associated risk of STIs.
Graham Giles, of the Cancer Council Victoria in Melbourne, who led the research team, told New Scientist: "Had we been able to remove ejaculations associated with sexual intercourse, there should have been an even stronger protective effect of ejaculations."
The researchers suggest that ejaculating may prevent carcinogens accumulating in the prostate gland.
The prostate provides a fluid into semen during ejaculation that activates sperm and prevents them sticking together.
The fluid has high concentrations of substances including potassium, zinc, fructose and citric acid, which are drawn from the bloodstream.
But animal studies have shown carcinogens such as 3-methylchloranthrene, found in cigarette smoke, are also concentrated in the prostate.
'Flushing out'
Dr Giles said fewer ejaculations may mean the carcinogens build up.
"It's a prostatic stagnation hypothesis. The more you flush the ducts out, the less there is to hang around and damage the cells that line them."
A similar connection has been found between breast cancer and breastfeeding, where lactating appeared to "flush out" carcinogens, reduce a woman's risk of the disease, New Scientist reports.
Another theory put forward by the researchers is that ejaculation may induce prostate glands to mature fully, making them less susceptible to carcinogens.
Dr Chris Hiley, head of policy and research at the UK's Prostate Cancer Charity, told BBC News Online: "This is a plausible theory."
She added: "In the same way the human papillomavirus has been linked to cervical cancer, there is a suggestion that bits of prostate cancer may be related to a sexually transmitted infection earlier in life."
Anthony Smith, deputy director of the Australian Research Centre in Sex, Health and Society at La Trobe University in Melbourne, said the research could affect the kind of lifestyle advice doctors give to patients.
"Masturbation is part of people's sexual repertoire.
"If these findings hold up, then it's perfectly reasonable that men should be encouraged to masturbate
Ok i admit i love the thong on ladys however on me not sure, i was going to add some pics and let you tell me which was best but can not add pic for some reason if you know how i put them on redface
Just curious as to what everyone's "ideal" is in regards to a lover's looks, attitude and "technique" or sexual approach? Be as descriptive as possible
I was thinking about this today at work, are thongs uncomfortable to wear? I am a guy so this is something that i wouldnt easily understand because i have never worn one. They are very sexy but i would think that it would be like a wedgie all day?
No matter what we do as long as we are enjoying it and it feels good we must at least feel healthy
Does masturbation affect or health ? I mean how many times per week it’s ok? Besides, as I heard, people who masturbate will have a stronger bodies is this a fact?
Thats where trust comes in, I sure you it's a great pleasure just relax in the bath whilst i shaved you, you would love it. wink
So i think i will take this Opportunity to ask if any ladys would like me to shave them let me know
If a female is pleasuring me orally or when we are having intercourse, is it necessary for me to occasionally tell her or express to her how good what she is doing feels? In other words, some people groan, grunt, and tell their partners when they do something right, therefore their partner knows you are enjoying whatever they are doing. Is this good idea?
I've had many opportunities to "go down on a lady" but I am sometimes hesitant when they are not shaved. I don't like the whole hair idea. Is it as bad as I make it out to be? Enlighten me.
I love to come being new to all this i think meeting everyone would help
Thanks
Come on you are Mostly English we should support our nation
2.0 England come on the lads
I think we should have a bum contest how about it let find out who has the sexiest bum. any sugestion on how we do this ?
My choice would have to be a firm bum
I just like to say a big thanks for the welcome and if any ladys are in to poetry let me know as i write loads of stuff for comps here one i did for valentines day i had to write a poem as if to some special for valentines let me know what you think ?
Be My Valentine
It Starts In The Morning With A Smile,
It Means That Love Is Here For A While.
A While Can Last For As Long As Can Be,
We Can Make It You Will See.
Nothing Beats That Love For Each Another,
The Way We Really Care,
Our Families And Friends We Have Around Us,
That Special Love Is Rare.
They Get Us Mad Now And Again,
They Can Be A Pain,
Due To Our Undying Love,
We Manage From Going Insane.
Life’s Just Happiness When You Are Around,
You Really Beat The Rest
You’re One In A Million, And Always Will Be
As You Are The Best.
The Love You Give, So Meaningful,
In Every Loving Way,
That Why Your So Special,
Every Single Day
You Really Are The World To Me,
And Everything Is Fine,
Would You Do Me The Greatest Pleasure,
And Become My Valentine.
xxx
Hi im 31 and looking for a couple i can travel and also going to rutland tonight so could come and meet for a bit of fun let me know before 5pm if poss
Hi all
where is an Elephants sex organ ????
in its feet as if he stands on you your F**ked
Hi I understand as i would also like a 3 some but i have never done it before and im a bit shy i think once we get the chance we should go for it
Well Easy due to the fact i used to be a Hotel Manager I came pour pink champagne as well as chop the Strawberries. The only problem there is i will be in Bridlington at a national event for windsurfing