I shall be in Norwich several days for the annual beer festival and would be happy to say hello to local site members, either inside the festival or outside.

My wife loves ro watch me wank and she fantasises about watching a group of men wanking and cumming on each other.
That sounds like a hot scenario. At least there is no shortage of male wank videos for her to enjoy.

Since starting camming, I note that I am asked to masturbate by almost as many female voyeurs as male ones, maybe on third to two thirds, certainly not a tiny percentage. Nor am I photogenic or hot looking at my age. So I'd take from that that watching male masturbation is quite a turn on for a number of women.

The restrictive nature of labels eh?

People differ. A couple used to contact me when they arrived here on holiday and I'd visit them She explained that she didn't suck cock but that was fine, I loved licking her pussy and fucking and she was a lovely snogger. Once I'd come a couple of times and said I couldn't manage a third which she took as a challenge, bent over my cock her fist going at top speed. She won!

It's reductionist to say all straight men are bi. None of us fit into boxes like that. But it seems even on sites like this where tolerant sexual people congregate that it seems hard for men to say they are bi in some way or another. The stereotype couple here is straight male, bi curious female. Yet on the bi chatrooms you see plenty of 'straight' men either singles or part of couples browsing. I think this is sad. And I think it means men think rightly or wrongly that there are negative consequences to be identified as bi. And women don't seem to face that fear.
For the record, I'm in the group who fall in love with women, admire their beauty, want to kiss, cuddle and cherish them while male beauty does nothing for me. Yet I'm a randy personality and a cock means some sexy time and it makes a great toy and lord knows how you fit labels to that.

Thanks loz. I totally get it that most women are put off, especially when used as a hello picture. Dick pics are notorious. I don't have any issue with that distaste. But then again I find that I get responses from women (and men of course) to my own pictures, either live or on my profile. I assure anyone curious that my cock is completely underwhelming compared to better varieties. So it led me to wonder what aspects of cock photos appealed to the women who do like them, even if they are in a minority. It's not something that gets discussed much. You sometimes get requests for meets with big or shaved or circumcised or uncut cocks. But other preferences for how it's displayed would be interesting.

• That's not my experience but one cannot force a conversation. it will either happen or it won't.

As an update; without doing anything differently, suddenly my webcam began working again and has worked every day since. (and it led to some welcome fun!)

I get it that many, perhaps most women aren't that bothered about men's cock photos and some are actively turned off by them. No problem with that. But some do enjoy them and I'm curious about how they like them displayed. For those who enjoy them, what turns you on most? teasing, size, part covered, with a torso or close up etc? Do you like a hand round it? Do you like to see ejaculate? It's not something I see discussed much.

My problem is my own cam has not been working for months. I've gone into browsers and site permissions and regularly changed them. The odd thing is a couple of days back it worked perfectly and after a day it was blocked again.

A question for the gay and bi women here.
Being of a curious mind I've wondered how effective scissoring is in achieving an orgasm It would seem to be difficult to line up the most sensitive parts and achieve a rhythm. I can easily understand the pleasures of being intimate in such a manner, just wondered about if it could lead to orgasm.

Emotionally straight and sexually bi fits me and probably a lot of people. I think it is quite possible for some people to fall in love with people of both sexes. I also think that people can set out when young falling for one sex and far later in life switching their affections. But I am always uncomfortable fitting people to names and labels rather than fitting names and labels to how people actually are.

Good luck. Where do you normally berth it?

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Hothouse wa gan batte!

Thanks for reviving a sexy topic. Knowing that women's tastes vary such a lot about this, I always ask their preferences. One friend used to love watching it spurt out and used to get in the mood by watching the ejaculations on porn beforehand. So after some varied mutual enjoyment I had to finish standing in front of her wanking as she watched it splash out on her boobs.

Much of the problem lies in needing labels for everything then demanding that people have to fit the labels someone has created

Here as elsewhere, I try to talk to people as persons not objects be they men or women. If they are brave enough to show intimate photos of themselves I compliment them. But there are often other interesting things to talk about as well as their bodily looks. We are all on a site such as this as we all share a randy disposition and sex in all its aspects is endlessly fascinating.

I'm fine with it but have no wish to be caught by those who disapprove or are offended by it. If anyone actively wants to watch then they are very welcome. Generally outdoors I find random dog walkers seem to get everywhere.

Given how bad it could have been, I thought it was reasonably respectful and gave a bit of a nod to the dynamics in relationships. Bearing in mind how any such programme is edited to magnify any conflict to create misleading narratives.

I counted 61 people at Corton beach last week, midweek, all naturist on a fairly small beach. I didn't spot any fun and games but I was not there long. I did see one man behind a windbreak with his hand on his friend's cock but he took it off when he saw me.

Bi friendly 3somes are so much more liberating where no one minds who or what gets attention and pleasure

I'm close but far too old worse luck but good luck anyway. It's great fun.

Thank you and bless you Kat and everyone else keeping everyone as safe and supplied as possible. There will be a reckoning after this.

Well said. I cancelled a meet two weeks ago and it was the first one in months and it was very disappointing. This crisis will show us who people really are.
The cybersex had better be really, really good!

I had to cancel/postpone a meet out of caution. It was the first one in months too but it makes sense. This is going to change everything for the next few months and nothing will be the same again. I just wish our useless incompetent government had got off its arse sooner and it's still playing catch up and failing.

Some excellent contributions that are well worth reading. Part of the problem is our need to fit labels to ourselves and others and then not having clear meanings to those labels. What we do from month to month is fluid anyway. I don't really want to pick an ill fitting label to myself. I fall in love with women not men. I want to kiss, cuddle and cherish one but not the other. So I am not gay. But a cock makes a fine toy and lust is lust and having and giving a sexual response is a hot affair. Saying I am bisexual may imply I fall in love with men equally which I don't. Saying I am bi curious is also inaccurate as I have wanked and sucked cocks on occasion. By all means devise a label for it but the label is not important. I do notice a huge amount of denial of male interest in cock but I guess there are many reasons for that.

I've in the past spoken to naturist friends at the end of the season on my nearby beach and they've invited me round to visit clothes optional during the winter for a cuppa. We had after all seen one another starkers for years.