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Trinymphos
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 57
Bi-curious Female, 57

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Hi Star-cpl
We went through the same thought patterns. Our first few encounters were soft, the first very soft with just massage and a bit of touching. The sauna encounters were a little more and it was not long (only two weeks ago) we went all the way. I was a liitle shocked at seeing mrs trinymphos really going for it and it put me off my stride a little as I didn't want to be seen enjoying myself, hence I was not enjoying myself (if that makes sense)
Last weekend I had a better time and she looked over a few times - I think what we need is to join the both and mix it up a bit between ourselves and the other couple or couples. In French that is melangiste - we want melangiste we think but until you have tried it you don't know what you want.
Just remember the sex afterwards with your partner is going to be 10 x better.
Ity is bloody cold here too - we have 3 days before we can jump into the hottub to warm up.
chatter chatter gobble gobble chatter chatter
lol
J
French clubs have been mentioned previously and as these are our only experiences we have been pleasantly surprised. In our area (Toulouse) there are around 8 swinger nightclubs and 4 saunas - we frequent the saunas (mainly due to the no smoking law is not yet in place and the clubs just choke us out).
It costs 35 euros for a couple to get in to the sauna in the evening. For that you get your freshly washed gown and towel and a pocket of condoms. The very sexy receptionist also acts as the cleaner going round the rooms emptying bins and replacing the handtowels. Last Saturday we were the last in the jacuzzi and the other guy on duty was preparing the cleaning robot to do its nasty job under the water. All matresses are tidy and clean although get very hot on the vinyl covering.
All non alcholic drinks are free and they even bring out a buffet at 11pm, not that we have seen it yet biggrin .
So far we have not been dissapionted
I & J
This is so funny - we are the same, we like the secret but only 6 months ago we were boring parents who stayed in every night and have never really been out for the past 20 years (in the eyes of our teenage kids),
Now suddenly we are out most weekends and don't get back until the early hours. And why have you got so many contacts on your MSN they ask - trying to come up with reasons is very difficult.
I & J - 6 months in and loving it :P
Hi everyone - thanks for the welcome and yes we have had lots of info backchannel so we are all set for the weekend.
only 3 days till Friday....woooohooo!!
We had a particularly horny weekend with a raunchy Friday night on our own and then a trip to the sauna on Saturday (which happened to be lights out - "pleine Lune") and then alot of catching up all day Sunday with the real and the plastic :P .
So after 9 or 10 I think they all blurred into one. Now 5 days of recovery until the next weekend and our next lesson in French :shock:
J
(Mrs Trinympho)
Hi there, we are very new to the forum and realtively new to all of this really
lol So hi to everyone!!
Our intro into all of this fun has been within the past 6 months andall of it while living in France. Our French is not great so learnig the etiquete, rules and just general chatting is a little more difficult even more so for Julie who normally has her mouth full .
We have visited the saunas here a few times and we sometimes feel like the novelty couple (specially when we get an email from a Frech couple asking "was that Julie crying Oh my god! last night").redface
To get the point - has anyone got any experience of the French swinging scene - is there such thngs as private parties, how common are these (and are they common in the UK) or is it mainly, clubs, saunas and couple to couple meet ups. We are kinda looking for a few more couples to mix it up a bit more.:twisted:
Although we are newbies we have learnt rather fast and eager to graduate :shock: :lol: and asking how to talk dirtly in our French language class is rather funny.