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Trixie_female
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 45
UK
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All valid questions, i hope you find some answers in what i write below.
Before i start, i want to be clear that i am an atheist. I am not a Christian. All these views are my own, based on my beliefs and personal knowledge. I hope nothing below causes offence to anyone, it certainly is not intended to.
Christians celebrate Easter because they belive that the Christ rose again, that he - a man - beat death, which means that all people who belive in him may also beat death. This is why Easter is the most important celebration in the Christian calendar - they belive it is THE reason they have the opportunity to be saved.
Easter is the celebration of Christ rising, not his death (though the death did have to happen for him to come back to life).
Easter is not an anniversary, it is simply when Christians celebrate the resurection. I dont think anyone actually thinks they know the exact DATE that Jesus died (and possibly rose).
THe CHurch does not claim to know when Jesus was born. The Catholic Church (and following Protestant chuch) simply decided to celebrate his birth on 25th December.
I have been told that Easter moves around because the early church decided to celebrate it on the first Sunday that followed a full moon within a certain calender date. Sorry i cant be more procise than that but i'm probing GSCE memories to tell u this ! lol
The Catholic Church has a different Easter date to the Orthodox Church because the Catholic Church (roughly west Europe) works from the Gregorian calendar, whereas the orthodox church (roughly eastern europe)works from the Julian calndar.
These different calendars are named after different popes, who "set" the new ways of dating the year. The Julian calendar predates the Gregorian.
Yes, i'm sure that the Church did impose their own celebrations on to days already made holy by other faiths. THis is not an unusual practice. The same is true with land, once a site is recognised as holy it tends to stay that way in people's minds regardless of what faith is thought to "make" it holy. Personally, i do not think that this is a sign of weakness or falseness in the church.
Before i start, i want to be clear that i am an atheist. I am not a Christian. All these views are my own, based on my beliefs and personal knowledge. I hope nothing below causes offence to anyone, it certainly is not intended to.
Christians celebrate Easter because they belive that the Christ rose again, that he - a man - beat death, which means that all people who belive in him may also beat death. This is why Easter is the most important celebration in the Christian calendar - they belive it is THE reason they have the opportunity to be saved.
Easter is the celebration of Christ rising, not his death (though the death did have to happen for him to come back to life).
Easter is not an anniversary, it is simply when Christians celebrate the resurection. I dont think anyone actually thinks they know the exact DATE that Jesus died (and possibly rose).
THe CHurch does not claim to know when Jesus was born. The Catholic Church (and following Protestant chuch) simply decided to celebrate his birth on 25th December.
I have been told that Easter moves around because the early church decided to celebrate it on the first Sunday that followed a full moon within a certain calender date. Sorry i cant be more procise than that but i'm probing GSCE memories to tell u this ! lol
The Catholic Church has a different Easter date to the Orthodox Church because the Catholic Church (roughly west Europe) works from the Gregorian calendar, whereas the orthodox church (roughly eastern europe)works from the Julian calndar.
These different calendars are named after different popes, who "set" the new ways of dating the year. The Julian calendar predates the Gregorian.
Yes, i'm sure that the Church did impose their own celebrations on to days already made holy by other faiths. THis is not an unusual practice. The same is true with land, once a site is recognised as holy it tends to stay that way in people's minds regardless of what faith is thought to "make" it holy. Personally, i do not think that this is a sign of weakness or falseness in the church.
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I'm a big girl who naturally has big boobs (40HH / J )
I LOVE my boobs, but i think i love them too much. Its been pointed out to me that i base a lot of my sense of indentity on having boobs. "oh u know trix, the posh girl with the boobs"
If i had to lose one, or both, for medical reasons then i would definately ask to have implants to replace them. This wouldnt be because i think big boobs are best (i dont) it's just that i've had large boobs since i was a teenager, so i dont know who i'd be without them.
Hope that doesnt sound too daft !
Trix xx
I LOVE my boobs, but i think i love them too much. Its been pointed out to me that i base a lot of my sense of indentity on having boobs. "oh u know trix, the posh girl with the boobs"
If i had to lose one, or both, for medical reasons then i would definately ask to have implants to replace them. This wouldnt be because i think big boobs are best (i dont) it's just that i've had large boobs since i was a teenager, so i dont know who i'd be without them.
Hope that doesnt sound too daft !
Trix xx
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Like has already been said, there can be something attractive and sexy about slim, muscular or larger guys.
I get hugely turned on by the way slim guys look, i LOVE a flat tummy with a line of hair leading my eye ...
On the other hand, nothing feels as good as being cuddeled up by a big guy - lying on his chest or arm and feeling a thin layer of soft fat covering a hard layer of muscle ....
Oh god, i need to go lie down !
Trix xx
I get hugely turned on by the way slim guys look, i LOVE a flat tummy with a line of hair leading my eye ...
On the other hand, nothing feels as good as being cuddeled up by a big guy - lying on his chest or arm and feeling a thin layer of soft fat covering a hard layer of muscle ....
Oh god, i need to go lie down !
Trix xx
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After camming in the chatrooms here, I once got offered a job for some sky porn channel. The set-up sounded fair and the pay very good !!! I didn't pursue the offer though for two reasons.
The 1st is that I do what I do for fun, because i enjoy it. Getting paid for it would totaly change the dynamic.
2nd, i want my vanilla life to be pretty regular and i think having featured on porn tv would have a definate, negative impact on that. Its not that kind of thing i can imagine explaining away to Headteachers or potential Mothers-in-law ;)
Trix xxx
The 1st is that I do what I do for fun, because i enjoy it. Getting paid for it would totaly change the dynamic.
2nd, i want my vanilla life to be pretty regular and i think having featured on porn tv would have a definate, negative impact on that. Its not that kind of thing i can imagine explaining away to Headteachers or potential Mothers-in-law ;)
Trix xxx
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I look like Wildhoneybee. People ALWAYS think we're twins, or at least sisters. I dont just mean people from SH or when we're on cam, but everyone we meet in real life too - landlords, nurses, dog owners, shop keepers the list goes on ...
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I was on cam in the chatroom here about 6 months ago and was recognised by someone i worked with - EEK ! Unbelivably, it turned out to be a guy i'd fancied rotten for months, so our accidental camming session turned into mutual masterbation in the back room at work lol
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I totally agree with Marya. It's a case of supply and demand, there arn't enough girls on the site so we get our pick. That means that u guys need to catch our eyes - in a good way lol.
My advice is :
Put up pics, not just of ur cock ! Let's see a little body and is possible, face. U could always have a face pic in a prvate gallery for girls who are seriously interested.
Write something in ur profile, so she can get a feel for what kind of person u are from what u write.
Join in the chats on here, so people get to know u and ur personality.
When u go in the chatrooms go on cam - u dont have to be doing anything naughty, just to highlight urself and make u seperate from the crowd of faceless, horny, single men.
In the chatrooms, join in the chat. In my experience, most girls are turned on hugely by a guy who makes them laugh.
Just my thoughts, dont sue me if they dont work out ! lol
happy hunting
My advice is :
Put up pics, not just of ur cock ! Let's see a little body and is possible, face. U could always have a face pic in a prvate gallery for girls who are seriously interested.
Write something in ur profile, so she can get a feel for what kind of person u are from what u write.
Join in the chats on here, so people get to know u and ur personality.
When u go in the chatrooms go on cam - u dont have to be doing anything naughty, just to highlight urself and make u seperate from the crowd of faceless, horny, single men.
In the chatrooms, join in the chat. In my experience, most girls are turned on hugely by a guy who makes them laugh.
Just my thoughts, dont sue me if they dont work out ! lol
happy hunting
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Quote by naughtygoo
I thought feltching was putting a hamster or a gerbil up your bottom.....richard gere is allegedly fond of this....makes you wonder where this stuff comes from!!!
Yeah, for some reason feltching means both putting a gerbil up ur arse, and sucking sperm out of an arse (and i mean that literally, not just giving a bj to someone who's a bit annoying lol)
Of course, then u get down to the really interesting question, if ur feltching with anal sex and sperm how many people do u need ? Does it have to be ur own sperm you suck or can it be someone else's ? And if u see the act of feltching as consisting of 3 discernable parts
Part a - giving anal sex
Part b - recieving anal sex
part c - sucking Feltcher A's sperm out of Feltcher B's bum
then which Feltcher would u rather be and why ? lol
Can u tell i was a student for too long ?????
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Quote by Tania
Trixie, you minxie pixie!
Moi ?????? :angel: Hell yeah ! lol
Thank you Tyracer, you are a charmer - don’t warm me up too much, we both know I’d break you ;)
Swing_fun_cpl, you sound like lovely people. I don’t think u should feel bad for not actively sleeping with virgins (of both or either kind). You don’t have a moral or civic duty to 'break them in'. After all, this is meant to be fun and no one would want you to sleep with them as an act of charity
Harry, i was really moved by you posts. All i can give u is my personal opinion, which i hope won’t offend anyone. It sounds to me as though you may be looking for more than just sex, as you talk about affection. If you are looking for real affection then SH is not the place to find it. It is easy to confuse this intense physical contact with emotional engagement, but this confusion can lead you to a lot of hurt and heartache. You would be better spending the time you spend on here in another chatroom, where you meet people who see you as a holistic being and not a sexual object.
As I say, this is only my personal opinion. If i have misjudged the situation or said anything that offends other SH users then i apologise, my intention was not to insult you.
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If the guy was someone i cared for, mentally and emotionally, then his level of sexual experience would be immaterial. It would all be part of him and i would value that.
However (and this might mean i'm a really horrible, shallow person
) if I'm just looking for a shag then i try to avoid men less experienced than myself.
I'm not trying to suggest that i'm a sexual virtuoso (u might think that but i couldn't possibly comment ;) )and there is a lot of fun to be had exploring new things with a partner, but if in these time-presured days (heehee) I'm just looking for someone to make me bark like the dirty bitch i am then i think that picking a more experienced man is a wise move.
However (and this might mean i'm a really horrible, shallow person
) if I'm just looking for a shag then i try to avoid men less experienced than myself. I'm not trying to suggest that i'm a sexual virtuoso (u might think that but i couldn't possibly comment ;) )and there is a lot of fun to be had exploring new things with a partner, but if in these time-presured days (heehee) I'm just looking for someone to make me bark like the dirty bitch i am then i think that picking a more experienced man is a wise move.
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Hiya,
could u put me down as a possible please ?
Thanks,
Trixie xxx
could u put me down as a possible please ?
Thanks,
Trixie xxx
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Dont give up !
You come across as a fit and funny guy in ur profile - so take that humour into the chatroom and makes the girls laugh their knickers off. And ask to whisper, it's a small thing but seems to count for a lot with most of us girlies.
PS. if u were closer, i porbably would
You come across as a fit and funny guy in ur profile - so take that humour into the chatroom and makes the girls laugh their knickers off. And ask to whisper, it's a small thing but seems to count for a lot with most of us girlies.
PS. if u were closer, i porbably would
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Thank you, i'm honoured. My mother will be so proud ! :happy:
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OO can I be an official slag too ? Please ? I would send u a cv, but that’s not the traditional slag way – thought I could just hide under ur desk and suck u off during a meeting. How about it ? 
PS. Do u have any plans to prevent Bootleg slagging ???
PS. Do u have any plans to prevent Bootleg slagging ???
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'It seems a lot of men are confused as well, because when you tell them, thanks but you're not what I am looking for, they realise they didn't want to shag you in the first place
(Gutted!)'And it's strange, isn't it Minx, how once these brave soldiers of sexual morality pronounce their verdict and declare - through pm - that u are a minging slag, they then disappear from the room .... Almost as though they suspect that they're about to get told just how attractive *they* really are. Hmmm.
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Name: Fred Flintstone
User Name: BonER
Status: Yes please.
Looking for: Please see above
Profile Text: Looking for a submissive couple for my wife and me to bone. I like a girl* to have a fozy, infectious giggle. As for guys, should not be too bright (want them easily led – if they don’t agree with my plans we’ll end up having a barney).
* Must enjoy being t-boned
User Name: BonER
Status: Yes please.
Looking for: Please see above
Profile Text: Looking for a submissive couple for my wife and me to bone. I like a girl* to have a fozy, infectious giggle. As for guys, should not be too bright (want them easily led – if they don’t agree with my plans we’ll end up having a barney).
* Must enjoy being t-boned
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Name: Noel Edmunds
Username: Little Big Horn
Status: God on Earth – agree or fear my wrath!
Looking for: A desperate last shot at fame. That, and women who are far too tall and young for me.
Activities: Sulking, smirking, slimeing and styling my hair
Profile text: I want adoration, worship me and do my bidding. I particularly enjoy being rimmed and your voyeurism.
Username: Little Big Horn
Status: God on Earth – agree or fear my wrath!
Looking for: A desperate last shot at fame. That, and women who are far too tall and young for me.
Activities: Sulking, smirking, slimeing and styling my hair
Profile text: I want adoration, worship me and do my bidding. I particularly enjoy being rimmed and your voyeurism.
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Hi, i'm a newbie too. Any chance I could come along and be broken in - to the scene that is 
I have a friend who's not on SH but is interested in coming, would that be ok or is it members only ?
Trixie xx
I have a friend who's not on SH but is interested in coming, would that be ok or is it members only ?
Trixie xx
