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Vix
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 55
UK
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Quote by Bloke2005
My sincere apologies to Vix....this thread has gone off at a slight tangent!
Oh believe me.. if I know Vix at all - she'll approve, so will Reese
Approve? I was just about to ask H_ippy over for a... cuppa. Or whatever.
Only coz I know I am somewhat lacking, for you, Bloke. Mind you, I know this man....
My point is that as an ex 'core user', I am not prepared to get this kind of thing, every time a noob sees me post and fancies a chance.
My profile is now empty and I have removed the link to our ad.
This saddens me deeply.
If I wanted to play in a cave, I'd have gone to Wookey, so I am ever hopeful of a return to my bunch of friendly perverts, but alas, we are dwindling in numbers.
My profile is now empty and I have removed the link to our ad.
This saddens me deeply.
If I wanted to play in a cave, I'd have gone to Wookey, so I am ever hopeful of a return to my bunch of friendly perverts, but alas, we are dwindling in numbers.
What the devil has happened?
You make one post and this whole bunch of eejits, that have never so much as spoken to you before, send you PMs.
There was always the odd one, but not a tirade of unknown chaps, like now.
Not one makes mention of my husband. And they do not mention their partners... just wanna meet up one-on-one.
This is a Swingers Site, isn't it? Or has it become a Singles Bar, after all?
:cry:
You make one post and this whole bunch of eejits, that have never so much as spoken to you before, send you PMs.
There was always the odd one, but not a tirade of unknown chaps, like now.
Not one makes mention of my husband. And they do not mention their partners... just wanna meet up one-on-one.
This is a Swingers Site, isn't it? Or has it become a Singles Bar, after all?
:cry:
Yeah the sudden new influx of PM's is annoying, but it is just par for the course, I think, in the recent change from community to commercial venture.
I think banning the PMers might be a bit harsh, TBH. This is something these boys know nowt about, as they are just looking for a fuck (and ain't we all, in some way) and as this progresses to a contact site, instead of a Swingers community, this is what we will have to expect.
I think banning the PMers might be a bit harsh, TBH. This is something these boys know nowt about, as they are just looking for a fuck (and ain't we all, in some way) and as this progresses to a contact site, instead of a Swingers community, this is what we will have to expect.
The pale blue is nigh-on impossible to read, for me. I know I am visually impaired but I can't be the only one with this issue?
I really can't be arsed with seeing to my PM's. I mean, there are a lot and my old "rule" of clearing my box (as it were) on a monthly basis has counted for nowt. Hey ho.
I wonder where those supposedly deleted PMs have been hiding all this time? You think they've been partying without me?
I really can't be arsed with seeing to my PM's. I mean, there are a lot and my old "rule" of clearing my box (as it were) on a monthly basis has counted for nowt. Hey ho.
I wonder where those supposedly deleted PMs have been hiding all this time? You think they've been partying without me?
This has happened more than once:
Get a reply to our ad with no pic. We ask for facial pics, so usually we don't respond to these. We say "no pic, no reply"
But occasionally, we like what they have written so respond, asking again for a pic.
The usual "I have no digi-cam/only on-line at w*rk"/bullshit excuses finally overcome and the remaining peeps eventually send us a pic.
The horror, the horror! This dude looks like an RTA in action! We have been emailing and all seemed well. Now we have to say "sorry, but it's a 'no' this time".
Not really nice to be telling them all was fine, but now we've seen your face - no chance mate, go get Ordained - only God could love that!
Get a reply to our ad with no pic. We ask for facial pics, so usually we don't respond to these. We say "no pic, no reply"
But occasionally, we like what they have written so respond, asking again for a pic.
The usual "I have no digi-cam/only on-line at w*rk"/bullshit excuses finally overcome and the remaining peeps eventually send us a pic.
The horror, the horror! This dude looks like an RTA in action! We have been emailing and all seemed well. Now we have to say "sorry, but it's a 'no' this time".
Not really nice to be telling them all was fine, but now we've seen your face - no chance mate, go get Ordained - only God could love that!
Quote by Ice Pie
I'm not normally given to swearing in ager, but pray, tell me... just who the FUCK do you think you are?!
Um, I have had a typo shoved in my face in this thread, so now it's my turn -
I dunno where Ager is, but I bet you are allowed to swear there.
Other than that, I agree totally with what you have said.
(Is that a first?)
I guess some people wanna do "hi, here I am, lets fuck" despite knowing nowt and caring less, about the people they might fuck.
Personally, I find the sites where you can do this both impersonal and improbabable. No-one in their right mind would do something so stoopid, surely? I tried another AFFul site and much as they "talk the talk" there really is no 'adult' contact, by which I mean making friends and letting things progress*.
Childishly, those that do get any are acting like we did when I was a kid, pre disease awareness, etc, and lived by the the F's. Find em, Fuck em, Forget em.
Now I have aged (and put childish things behind me
) I no longer need nor desire this kind of life.
*We just wanted to make friends and not have to back off and feel bad if things got even vaguely sexual.
We have met, and laid, more than a handful of people from SH. ALL orf whom we are honoured to call our friends.
Personally, I find the sites where you can do this both impersonal and improbabable. No-one in their right mind would do something so stoopid, surely? I tried another AFFul site and much as they "talk the talk" there really is no 'adult' contact, by which I mean making friends and letting things progress*.
Childishly, those that do get any are acting like we did when I was a kid, pre disease awareness, etc, and lived by the the F's. Find em, Fuck em, Forget em.
Now I have aged (and put childish things behind me
) I no longer need nor desire this kind of life.*We just wanted to make friends and not have to back off and feel bad if things got even vaguely sexual.
We have met, and laid, more than a handful of people from SH. ALL orf whom we are honoured to call our friends.
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Show your support!
Here's a virtual red ribbon:
<a href="http:// title="Link to the official World AIDS Day website"><img src="http:// width="120" height="40" border="0" alt="Support World AIDS Day" /></a>
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For our Sisters and Brothers - show you care!!
