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ops:I agree, everywhere seems to be locked up and/ or abandoned these days. Standing relics of times of old. I actually went to one of the now gated sites a couple of weeks ago for a quite innocent walk. No, seriously just a walk, nothing else and there were police on the car park then. 5 o'clock in the afternoon!!!
Seems they've made it a pay and display now too. I don't mind displaying, but am reluctant to pay.
Seems they've made it a pay and display now too. I don't mind displaying, but am reluctant to pay.
Quote by m-s
try the canaries......great for a first time abroad holiday....but not as cheap as it was...
Yes we would agree with Jethro about the Canaries. Try Maspalomas area, on Gran Canaria. Get yourself on the Dunes.....it won't be long before you make some new friends.
:lol: Tucked away in a little shelter made of pebbles
Thats a shame NWC, I was up there one night last year and it was so full cars just couldn't get on that night, but I agree about the impatient ones. They either swarm around the car immediately which makes for instant turn off in my limited past experience of playing as a couople or they drive onto the car park (main beam compulsory)sit there for five minutes and when a lady doesn't instantly get out of a car half naked brandishing a neon sign saying "cocks sucked here for fun" they decide nobody is playing, the spot is shit and full of cliques and drive off.
Problem is thye return ten minutes later and repeat the process until 1am by which time everybody has got pissed off with their Jean Michelle Jarre light show and buggered off home frustrated.
Rant over....sorry
Problem is thye return ten minutes later and repeat the process until 1am by which time everybody has got pissed off with their Jean Michelle Jarre light show and buggered off home frustrated.
Rant over....sorry
Just as it's unfair to tar all single blokes with the same brush, it's equally unfair to tar all younger blokes with the same brush. I've been dogging since I was in my twenties (much to a few couples surprise...and plaesure ) and have had my fun ruined on a at least two occasions by older guys.
So, while really not wanting to cause an argument or a split can we just accept that there are a number of disrespectful, impatient and bloody rude people out there who, thankfully, seem to be in the minority.
Oh and I agree with GandJ... Bring on some warmer weather.
) and have had my fun ruined on a at least two occasions by older guys.So, while really not wanting to cause an argument or a split can we just accept that there are a number of disrespectful, impatient and bloody rude people out there who, thankfully, seem to be in the minority.
Oh and I agree with GandJ... Bring on some warmer weather.
Hi,
I've had some great dogging experiences over the last few years none of which were planned, many with the same couple who having played once the next time they spotted my car they came straight over and away we went. Many a time I've just sat in the car park watching the endless stream of cars coming in and out others I've been able to watch and get my thrills that way (I'll fit in with whatever. As somebody else said I do alot of spontaneous dogging. If I'm coming back from a night out or a late meeting and pull off the M65 and frequent a few spots. If lucks in great, if not...nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Must admit though, contrary to what was said earlier I don't always wear dark clothing. One couple I spoke to said they get freaked out by ninjas creeping around their car so I prefer to make myself seen.
I've had some great dogging experiences over the last few years none of which were planned, many with the same couple who having played once the next time they spotted my car they came straight over and away we went. Many a time I've just sat in the car park watching the endless stream of cars coming in and out others I've been able to watch and get my thrills that way (I'll fit in with whatever. As somebody else said I do alot of spontaneous dogging. If I'm coming back from a night out or a late meeting and pull off the M65 and frequent a few spots. If lucks in great, if not...nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Must admit though, contrary to what was said earlier I don't always wear dark clothing. One couple I spoke to said they get freaked out by ninjas creeping around their car so I prefer to make myself seen.
Hello All,
Just thought I'd ask if any of the multitude of doggers that were out having lots of fun in Lancashire last night frequent this site? (those that were there will know where Im referring to.)I've been going to last nights location on and off for over two years now with varying degrees of success but last night somebody said:
"Has anyone got a CAR PARK FULL sign?"
Boy, oh boy was one needed. I just wish I'd got up there a bit sooner. Was that some kind of record?
Just thought I'd ask if any of the multitude of doggers that were out having lots of fun in Lancashire last night frequent this site? (those that were there will know where Im referring to.)I've been going to last nights location on and off for over two years now with varying degrees of success but last night somebody said:
"Has anyone got a CAR PARK FULL sign?"
Boy, oh boy was one needed. I just wish I'd got up there a bit sooner. Was that some kind of record?
Do people REALLY go dogging in Cheshire? I've had my map out scouring for car parks and driven to loads of places and seen nothing. Now when i say seen nothing, I mean nothing. At least all the car parks and spots I've frequented over the last few years in Lancashire have had cars on them and guys floating about I could at least have a chat to, but Cheshire...nothing. Not so much as a single bloke anywhere to be seen, let alone active couples.
I think I'll sell up and move back to Wigan
I think I'll sell up and move back to Wigan
My pet hate is Ninjas. Men dressed in black that take the long route around the outside of the car park, negotiating bushes and darting between trees and then just appear like a jack in the box at the back of the car expecting to see something.
This might just be me, but when I've been out with a partner we've just thought it would be better that if someone was going to approach for a peek they make it clear they're coming over and not behave like some kind of elite SAS commando on a top secret mission. We'd have been far more comfortable and considered them far less suspicious. For my part when I'm out alone I'll always wear a light coloured top and move directly to cars so the occupants know I'm coming. Like I said, might just be me but thats what I consider to be ettiquete.
Oh yeah and as stated elsewhere the impatient ones who just do U-turns on the car park when they drive on and don't see a full on orgy taking place on a picnic bench.
Finally (I think), police. WHY?
This might just be me, but when I've been out with a partner we've just thought it would be better that if someone was going to approach for a peek they make it clear they're coming over and not behave like some kind of elite SAS commando on a top secret mission. We'd have been far more comfortable and considered them far less suspicious. For my part when I'm out alone I'll always wear a light coloured top and move directly to cars so the occupants know I'm coming. Like I said, might just be me but thats what I consider to be ettiquete.
Oh yeah and as stated elsewhere the impatient ones who just do U-turns on the car park when they drive on and don't see a full on orgy taking place on a picnic bench.
Finally (I think), police. WHY?
Quote by Bananadick
Plenty of secluded places in and around Knutsford
Drop me a message and we can sort a meet somewhere
B
Really? Been living around here for two years now and have all but given up to the point where I'm having to drive 45 miles back to my old haunts where I used to live. Only problem with those places is they now seem to be largely populated with Boy Racers and Police. In fact the last time I went back "home" I was snapped by a camera hanging out the side of a riot van!!! I mean, come on, a riot van in a secluded car park in rural Lancashire at midnight on a Friday night. Overkill or what?
So, if anyone local can point me in the right direction to tempt me out of my enforced retirement I'd be most grateful. I know there's plenty of lanes and lay-bys around this way but nothing by comparison to what I'm used to. I have found one spot I thought would be ideal and Im sure it must have been used in the past, but have never seen anybody there on the occsions I've been around there. It's a pretty well known spot and I'll confirm it or discuss it via PM if anyone wants to help.
Cheers.
What a great post. I've been at this dogging lark alone and as a couple for a few years now and as others have said, quite by accident. There's been some really good nights with other genuine, honest people and some real hassle with rude and persistent people. Biggest problem lately seem to be the police. They've pulled us over on one occasion just for a bit of a "warning" and on the last occasion at the most frequented spot (north west) a huge riot van pulled onto the car park, took a picture of my car and drove off. Not been back since.
Hi all,
I've just moved to the Cheshire/staffs area and am looking for some spots to reignite my evenings hobby. I'm from Lancashire and have enjoyed many a good evening there (can give location details etc. in a PM if that helps with making me bona fide). I'm also going to be passing in and around Wigan on Friday evening if there are any spots there.
PM only please - keep it safe .
Best,
Neil.
I've just moved to the Cheshire/staffs area and am looking for some spots to reignite my evenings hobby. I'm from Lancashire and have enjoyed many a good evening there (can give location details etc. in a PM if that helps with making me bona fide). I'm also going to be passing in and around Wigan on Friday evening if there are any spots there.
PM only please - keep it safe
.Best,
Neil.
OB seem to be very regular now in a previously good spot nr. Leyland, also got pulled over by an unmarked mondeo (allegedly I was driving a bit too quick) in between locations in the Blackburn/bolton area. Even been out to Ribchester (ish) and was interrupted bY OB. I'm sure regulars will recognise these locations, anyone had any problems?
We fear we're just not getting the hang of this at all, we spent 2 hours in the same spot on Saturday waiting/hoping for another couple, moved up the road and got plenty of attention from 3 chaps having a good peer into the car, but stil no couples. Problem is, it's that bloody dark at these places you can't see how many people are sat in a car, especially when they first drive on to a car park with their lights on. In the end we relocated, but by this time my dear old wife was nodding off after enjoyng a good meal just off the M65. We did end up putting on a wee display for a chappy in his car who, politely stayed put when we declined his flashing indicators (thank-you). This learning process goes on.
I suppose (and am prepared to be shot down by more experienced folk) that the term dogging has now taken on whole new meaning to encompass many different activities. To us, we like to have fun together in our car. We've done this many a time and decided to promote ourselves to having fun in our car in areas where there were others doing the same thing. At such places we hoped to watch other couples and have other coupes or indeed a single, watch us. That to us is dogging. Watching and being watched. Like I said, I'm sure it means something slightly different to everyone.
We (think) we know where you mean. The smaller site is excellent as far as being private is concerned, but perhaps a little too small. We have had some great fun together in the second, larger, site. However it does seem to be frequented by gay men flashing lights furiously. The last time we were there, there were a couple of visits from the local constabulary, but as we were just sat in the car talking they didn't bother with us, they did chat to a couple of the guys though. In out view, best go to the big site and relocate to the smaller one if u meet anyone interested.
Totally right thing (in our book), we've been put off too many times by men creeping around in the dark and approaching the car in numbers. We're totally with hooner, one or two watching (after being invited) is absolutely fine. Get your bits out, do what you want, just be polite and sensible and you'll get a show.
Yes, every time! And there's a teensy bit of you that wonders if the people in the car park a mile away are having more luck and makes you think about going there, but something might happen where you are........what to do, what to do
Ha ha, excellent other people feel like this too!!! I think part of our problem has been not sitting still long enough. Was out on my own over the weekend and sat in the same spot for nearly two hours... TWO BLOODY HOURS!!! Anyway, just as I was about to bugger off a very nice couple pulled up next to me and.....you can guess the rest.
and do you get scared? Cos i was....
We did the first time when three blokes approached the car from behind, out of the bushes and the shadows, that really freaked her out and nearly put her off for life. And I did the other night when a car with a very burly single bloke pulled up on my left, another to my right and a third blocked the exit to the car park. Scared was an understatement, fortunately another car wanted to get in so the other 3 buggered off. The afforementioned couple also arrived shortly after and whisked me away. Was a scary moment tho' and I'm still not sure what was happening. Lots of things were going through my head.
PS. How do I do that "POSTIE WROTE" trick thing in a box?
Ha ha, excellent other people feel like this too!!! I think part of our problem has been not sitting still long enough. Was out on my own over the weekend and sat in the same spot for nearly two hours... TWO BLOODY HOURS!!! Anyway, just as I was about to bugger off a very nice couple pulled up next to me and.....you can guess the rest.
and do you get scared? Cos i was....
We did the first time when three blokes approached the car from behind, out of the bushes and the shadows, that really freaked her out and nearly put her off for life. And I did the other night when a car with a very burly single bloke pulled up on my left, another to my right and a third blocked the exit to the car park. Scared was an understatement, fortunately another car wanted to get in so the other 3 buggered off. The afforementioned couple also arrived shortly after and whisked me away. Was a scary moment tho' and I'm still not sure what was happening. Lots of things were going through my head.
PS. How do I do that "POSTIE WROTE" trick thing in a box?
Thanks for the very helphul replies folks, and the PM's. In answer to a couple of questions, we're happy to be watched and watch others. Jayne is definately str8 and has no interest in any swapping, which Neil should (in a way) be grateful for. Somebody rightly pointed out we're a nice young couple just starting out at this and just want a bit of added (safe) spice to our already happy marriage.
