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bristol_dave
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 53

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I went to see Queen & Paul Rogers at the Brixton Academy, and they were fantastic (although I'm probably biased, being a lifelong Queen fan). They performed most of the favourites, plus a few Paul Rogers songs too.
Paul Rogers was good on vocals, although with literally everyone in the audience singing along to the songs, it was hard to hear him! Brian May was brilliant on guitar, how he can get such awesome sounds out of it I don't know. My favourite of the night was him singing and performing Love of My Life.
It will be interesting to see how they come across at a big open air gig like Hyde Park, but at Brixton they were great.
Only down side - the price. 55 quid! ouch!
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take it cos i had no reply your not interested, even though i sent a pic.
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would have been nice to reply and say your not interested! u know common courtesy?
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So if you got say 100 emails and found 1 person you liked, would you take time to reply to the other 99 ? I know I wouldn't ! It would take hours !
They are now in Newport running a place called The Clink. They have parties there every few weeks, and there is one happening tonight I believe! Also they have social events from time to time.
I don't know if they have their own website, but I know their profile - not sure if I can post the link here ?
Also there is a couple called Craig & Claire, also based in Newport, who have just started up their swinging house parties that they ran a few times last year. Again, I have their group address. I'll PM the links to you smile
Cheers,
Dave.
I agree with Andy, I've had some great times at The Office over the last few weeks. Everyone is very relaxed and friendly, and Sonia & Simon do their best to make you feel welcome.
They've put a lot of work into the place over the last few months, building new playrooms and putting some interesting contraptions into the dungeon! Looking forward to seeing the rotating bed in action!
Dave.
Maybe we should start one up ! It does seem that many of the active people on the forum live either in the North West or the South East, but maybe if we try we could get something going.
I would certainly be interested in a laid back social gathering for people in this part of the country. Is there anyone else who might express an interest ? smile
Saturdays is couples night plus limited singles at The Office. Single guys are limited to about 5 or 6, and must book in advance. Generally they only tend to let in ones they already know and trust. Saturdays can get quite busy with the number of couples. Most people that go seem to have a good time, although it is as much about making friendships than anything else. I think some people there swap phone numbers and arrange to meet and play at each others houses rather than at The Office itself - although some couples obviously do play there too.
Fridays is a more "greedy girls" type of night where the couples that come along want the attention of several single guys. Still, it is not a free for all - you must be friendly and courteous, get chatting to a couple and they may invite you to play, but if not then no still means no.
Dave.
Well, I went dogging for the very first time last night at a well known location near Bath, with a great deal of trepidation I might add ! After reading all the comments on here I expected to see hoards of guys wanking and shining their main beams everywhere.
In fact, everyone was very well behaved, I didn't see one headlight on main beam, there was a guy chatting to a couple through their window, and a few other guys a respectful distance away just minding their own business. Nobody seemed to be staring at anyone. I decided to wait and the rest of the single guys left, but a couple remained. After all the comments about guys staying in their cars I decided to get out and stand next to my car, but wait for some sign (interior light ?) to be invited over. No sign came, but I wasn't really expecting much from my first visit, just to see what it was all about really. I guess maybe most of the fun had already happened before I arrived.
In short, I found the experience a bit strange, but not as scary as I thought it would be, so I may be back again soon. One thing I did find odd was the amount of cars that drove into the car park and then drove straight out again - I guess they thought it was too quiet.
Dave.
I'm a single guy and I've had a reasonable amount of success recently, but you have to work at it. Establishing friendships can take time, but it is worth it in the end. You have much more fun 'playing' with friends smile than just having sex with complete strangers where it can be a bit cold and mechanical.
Try the club scene, there are a few clubs that welcome a limited amount of single guys in. Getting chatting to the couples, become a friendly face rather than a shadow in the background, you'll be surprised at what can happen. You're in Bristol so try The Office on Fridays perhaps ?
Dave. wink
Lol, yeah you got that right! Especially in the town centre on a Friday night!
I guess I'm looking for strokers rather than wankers :P
I'm off to The Office tonight, have fun in whatever you are doing smile
Dave.
Hi,
One of my favourite turn-ons is to watch a woman masturbate whilst she watches me do the same. My ex g/f and I did it regularly and always found it to be extremely erotic, especially when you try and make it last for as long as possible smile :twisted:
Now that I am single, I do miss that aspect of sex, so I propose the following: I am looking for a female or couple to join me in watching whilst being watched. I am not looking for physical contact, just voyeurism - although if it was asked of me, I probably wouldn't say no! But the main idea is to watch, seeing the excitement in each other build as you get closer and closer to climax.....ohh I'm getting all hot an bothered ! lol :P
If more than one couple/fem is interested, maybe we could make it a mini-party (no fees of course). I know this is a little different from the normal swinging meets, but I'm hoping that some poeple out there do find it as much of a turn-on as me to give it a go.
Of course, we could meet for a drink first, see if we get on and take it from there.
I'm 32, straight, living in Bristol, 5'9'' blond, medium build, friendly and easy going (see my ad for pics). I propose the meet to be in Bristol, although anywhere in the SouthWest would be ok by me. I can travel, but probably cannot accomodate (there may be the odd occasion where the house is free).
Looking forward to some sexy wanking fun! lol lol
Dave.
If you think about it, to someone in London, Manchester is "up north", but to someone in Scotland, Manc is "down south". In fact, to the guys up there, everything is "down south" ! smile
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Excellent use of sarcasm northwest-cpl !! lol Good point though, doing stuff like that behind your partner's back is a good way to shorten a relationship. Why don't you discuss the subject with her, you never know she may be interested. And if she's not, then it probably wouldn't have been a good idea to surprise her in that way anyway.
Apparently the Perseid meteor shower starts tonight at around 10pm - if you're out dogging you could watch the shooting stars during a break in your fun smile It looks like it will be cloudy here in the southwest though sad
I saw some really good ones last November during the last big meteor shower.
I bet you're all thinking I'm a sad geek now, lol ! :) redface - maybe you're right!
Dave.
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Lol !! lol I'm not that kinky :lol: :shock:
Hi,
It might help to say what kind of people you are looking to meet - are you male, female or a couple ? Are you looking to meet another couple, or single fem ? Bi, straight ? Daytime meets or evenings, weekends ?
A little information can go a long way.
Good luck in finding what you are after.
Dave.
Hi,
I'm part of an established group of guys in Bristol who have held several successful gangbangs over the last few months. The parties have been good relaxed fun, and are NO FEES events. They are purely for ladies that would like to experience the attention of a group of 8-10 guys, in a comfortable flat in central Bristol.
We are currently looking for more couples or single females over the next couple of months where the lady would like to be the sole centre of attention. All our parties in the past have been 1 girl - 8ish guys.
We can arrange a social meeting in a pub where you can meet the guys, we are a friendly laid-back lot smile . We can then sort out the party arrangements if you are happy to go ahead.
If you are interested, feel free to PM me, or check out our ad in the Clubs and Parties photo ads here , where you will also find a link to our group.
Cheers,
Dave. biggrin
Hi there,
I'm a 32 yr old single guy in Bristol who has an empty house tonight, and I wondered if any couples/single fems were interested in meeting up for a drink tonight (Weds 11th) and then perhaps moving on to the house later if we fancy it (i.e. each other!) The more the merrier, hey, lets make it a party!
I know this is very short notice, and I'll probably get zero replies, but hey, you've got to try! biggrin
As I said, I'm 32, reasonably slim, 5'9'' friendly and easy going. You can check out my ad for pics. I love giving oral pleasure to a woman, it's a major turn on for me. :P
Anway, if anyone is interested, drop me a PM.
Cheers,
Dave.
PS. I'm also interested in meeting couples/single fems anytime, but I usually cannot accommodate (unless it's a hotel room).
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The first few times I saw a porn movie, when I was a spotty teenager in the '80s, I was shocked and amazed, and of course very turned on by it. It was new and exciting to see people having sex, the visual aspects of it. The more porn I saw though, the more I realised that the women were obviously getting nothing out of the experience (apart from the money of course), and that is a big turn off for me.
What turns me on now is seeing people genuinely aroused and experiencing pleasure, especially seeing a woman orgasm. If mainstream porn movie directors put more foreplay into the scenes, told the actors to really go for it and give the girls the time to get aroused and excited, it would certainly make for more exciting viewing. However I guess it would take longer to film, and maybe the porn actresses don't want to get sexually excited in the films but rather save it for their private life?
True, the scene in Bristol seems a bit thin compared to all that seems to be happening up north. Still, I've been to The Office a few times and had some good experiences there, although sometimes it is a bit quiet. Sometimes quiet is better tho, if you meet the right people.
I heard the Clink moved to Newport, and they still hold parties, but only every couple of months.
I am one of the "bristol ganbang lot" and any new guy that wants to come along, we are all friendly easy going guys and not really a set group, there are always one or two new people each time we have a party. It is true that, as a gangbang group, it is not the same as true swinging, but there is talk of having a party with 2 or 3 couples as well as the guys. If a couple wants to take part in a party, just contact Rob at the group. All no fees events, btw.
All that said, yes I agree that Bristol is a bit quiet, and I sometimes pop up to Birmingham where there is more going in the club scene.
Hi Rachel,
I'm a newbie as far as dogging is concerned (altho not swinging), but I live quite close to Togg Hill. I've been meaning to give it a go one of these days and see what it's all about. Anytime you're planning to go up there maybe you could give me a shout and show me the ropes, so to speak! wink lol. Hopefully the evenings will get warmer soon!
Cheers,
Dave.
Hi Jane and Paul,
I'm certainly interested in attending your party! I'm a 32 yr old single guy from Bristol, reasonably slim and fit, and have some limited experience of swinging parties before. I enjoy meeting new people, and would definitely class myself as someone who likes to take part, although watching can be fun too whilst taking a break from the action!
I can do any Saturday in the next few weeks apart from the 28th August.
Look forward to hearing from you soon!
Dave.
Well, for swingers clubs there is "The Office" in Bristol (see the Clubs and Parties section), which is open on Friday and Saturday nights.
I've never been dogging, but Togg Hill near Bath seems to be a place that gets a lot of mentions.
Dave.
Hi all,
One thing that I used to love doing with my now ex g/f was for us to sit opposite each other and masturbate whilst watching the other person. Seeing the one you love experiencing such a state of arousal and pleasure was just so exciting for me. Trying to delay the inevitable climax for as long as possible, the levels of pleasure you can reach are amazing!
I was wondering how many other people find this as much a turn on as me, and do this as part of their sex play. Also, I've heard of a masturbation club in the USA where everyone sits around and watches each other. What a fantastic idea! It's a shame someone hasn't organised something like that in this country (or have they ??).
Dave.
Hi all, new to this forum.
I've taken part in a couple of gangbangs in Bristol recently, all no-fees totally for fun only. Organised by a guy called Rob, he has his own group called "bristolgangbangs", you might want to check it out.
Here's the link (if I am allowed to post it?)

Dave.