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cuddly__catlin
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 60
0 miles · Derbyshire
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Quote by simonnw
just a thought, and this is a bit of an open question. do you think men, women and couples back out at the last minute because they like the idea and not the reality? would like to hear views on this, could be quite intresting!
Hello, I am new to the forum but ot to the site.
I think the site is brilliant, it's changed my life so much for the better. I dont get lucky all the time, but I do get luky often enough and from time to time this can move into regular meetings, even better from my point of view
I think too many single men play like naughty little boys on the site. I' sure some pretend to be couples just to receive naughty pics etc. I am sure loads of men reply with no intention of ever actually meeting up, just a wind up. I'm sure some boys pretend to be single 18 year old nymphomaniac females, just to get a reaction.
Lots of free members place adverts, then add to their ad, please send pics, we will not reply without. Well, I don' think free members can see pics attached to emails. I'm sure that's very frustrating for them, but have they been informed, no pay no pics in emails, I don't know.
Adds over a month old on the system are frustrating, as are people that havn't been on the site for over 3 months, especially free members who have just given up. If you wor on the site, you soon learn who are regular swingers in yor area, who don't fancy you (and fair enough) and others who seem compatable.
If you read all the forum advise, and it doesn't take too long, follow that advise, work hard at it, then tis is a wonderful site that is very good for me. I havn't poted much in the forums, I don't attend munches, I don't travel, but I still have a good amount of fun from the site.
I apologise if I have framed this too much as a single man. Swinging is my hobby, and call me an old transpotter if you will, but I work at it, lots of reseach and then lots of effort into retention, ie, pting my new friends preferencebefore my own. Gawd hope that doesnt sound too clinical.
i'll shurrup now
Regards Simon
well put
not the "i'll shurrup now" bit 
Quote by madchick
Are there actually any single women/married out there who want to meet up
if there is...lets here from you all...
Of course there are but we can be very choosy due to the massive quantity of mail we get rampaging through our mailboxes in any one week.
You don't say on your profile if you are single............
You have no pictures .....................
Your adverts are short and quite frankly boring (same old same old)..........
Without pictures, speaking to you for a decent length of time and watching your ability to communicate, why would we bother meeting. There is nothing here that DOESN'T say, I'm just another single bloke looking for an easy shag.
Personally, I delete winks, one liners, messages with no profile, profiles with no pictures: whats the point of replying when a single man can't be bothered to make his profile interesting or take the time and effort to stick a piccie of himself on here.
Thats just me..................Your turn Polo you lovely lady
I agree with madchick
but theres 2 reasons on your profile i wouldent meet you is your miles away and i dont abuse men lol
but im sure if you put more about you on your profile and i nice pic of you, you would get people wanting to meet.
Tina the elusive single bi female :wink:
Quote by justaguy2006ah blidworth longtime since i,ve bin there
blidworths good but there is boy racers sometimes, but they dont stop the fun
didnt go doggin as such just a convenient stop to release the pent up frustration my an my partner at the time had,single now so maybe you could show me the spots cuddly :giggle:ohhhh says your only 8 miles from me :wink: :lol:
