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darkniven
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56
0 miles · Leicester

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Hi there,
I'm leaving the confines of Leicestershire on Thursday and heading up to the heady heights of the North on Business. Would any single fems, esp BBW to meet up for a drink initially on Thursday night? Fun can follow if we get along, or can just have a few good drinks and a laugh!
All company considered - why not give me a try!
I'll be crashing at a hotel somewhere, and I can make this near to you if need be.
Looking forward to hearing from you,
D x
Quote by Wilki
My point exactly,
How the hell can you want to have sex and meet someone thru an advert, forum or in the chatroom, just based on wanting to meet a good personality. and not care what they look like, bloody stupid. and they dont realize it makes them look pathetic. Thats what this whole post has been about.

Because sex is just not about what people look like. It boils down to how people treat their sexuality. I'm here because I'd rather have sex with someone who enjoyed the fun & sensual side of sex; looks, size etc is not so important!!!
And if what your are saying is what this post is about, then why not say that in the first place, rather than letting a lot of people mistakenly post honest answers to a seemingly innocent post!!!
In future, be as honest as those that responded to you post!!!!!!!!
Not that I've had a bad day today,
D x
I can bite when needed.
Quote by Wilki
I dont need lesons chaps, and yes parrot, ive read some of your posts, i only ask the question because sometimes some of the pretentious, stuff spouted by some on here, just begs belief, hey yes they are free to do so, but for gods sake, am i the only one who can recognize the crap thats said, just to try to fit in, be one of the in crowd.?

To help sort out my confusion here (I feel somehow that, in being honest in my answer, I've done something wrong??), what pretentious stuff are we talking about here?
Well, to be perfectly honest, first arrived here as the whole idea of swinging fascinated me, and just, like you, read and watched.
Then placed an ad, answered some ads, but nothing happened - had no reponses/no replies (apart from the obligatory spam).
BUT always ended up back at the forums.
I have really started to enjoy the forums, and am contributing here and there (in a small way so far!) and have yet to say anything to incur any wrath from anyone (touch wood - ooerr!!) so am just enjoying being part of the community.
So, no real expectations, just enjoying myself and hoping to someday lose my newbie status and contribute regularly to the community (oh, I can dream!!!!!) :rascal:
D
Quote by Ice Pie
I'm no cam expert, I was just wondering... is the image of yourself that you see the same as what the other person sees? I mean you might be transmitting at a high frame rate, and just get a 'model' for want of a better word just so you can check you are actually in the shot. You don't actually need to see yourself at 30 frames a second do you?

Both the transmitted and viewed/recorded images are the same.
No cam expert myself, so I don't even know whether its possible to obtain the quality I thought you could get from a webcam. Has anyone?
Quote by northwest-cpl
the picture is pretty jerky. Watchable, but jerky.

When you say jerky, are you referring to the picture quality or the picture content?wink lol :lol: :lol:
Oh, the content is very smooth!!! :lol2:
Hi,
Yep, got the refresh rate to 30, and have tried all the different video settings, but still the same. Actually, it's not so much jerky as watching someone underwater; all action is slowed up, and waving your hand in front of it is like waving your hand in front of your face when you've had mushrooms (so I'm told)
Hi all,
I've just got myse;lf a webcam, but am not sure whether it's doing what it should be!
It's supposedly USB 2.0 with 30fps, but either when viewing over web or just recording straight to hard drive the picture is pretty jerky. Watchable, but jerky.
Supposed webcam "movies" i have seen in the past (ahem!) all seem to have been recorded without any jerkyness?
Could it be the cam, or is this the norm confused:
(Cam is made by ANC)
Cheers
D
Johnny Cash' cover of Nine Inch Nails "Hurt"
Bugger I seem to be repeating myself (See the video thread) :shock:
WOW! I just "aquired" said video and song - christ, it's good. Loved Reznor's original, but Cash adds an amazing depth to it. And the video, christ!
Thanks Jack. Added to all-time favs ever!
Quote by VenusnMars
What, nobody here likes Will Youngs version of `Light my Fire`?!
Gosh. lol
Venusxxx

He made a valiant effort, it must be said (!?!?!?!??!) but Shirley Basseys version kicks it out of touch!
Amores Perros, a brilliantly crafted movie, three good stories intertwining.
And, I have to say, sooo cool and sooo funny, "Dead men don't wear plaid"!
Aphex Twin - Come to Daddy - Oooh so good & scary!
Dinosaur Jnr - Feel the Pain - I wanna play golf like that
Kylie Minogue (YES!) - Come into my World - try watching that on mushrooms
and for nostalgias sake;
Duran Duran - Girls on Film - teenage wet dreams!!!
I think me ol' neighbour would finally keel over with the shock if she caught us (either that or it would have been the best sight she'd seen in a long while) LOL!
Hi all,
getting together with my couple again in the next week. Last time we tried strip pontoon before moving onto the fun stuff. This time we're going to start with the pontoon, then want to play some Adult Dares to really get us really horny!
So who better to turn to than you guys for some horny ideas? Nothing "disgusting" (a request from the couple), just some good ol' erotic & horny dares for us to play! (btw all st8 so will all be girl/boy)
Looking forward to what those minds out there can produce - suprise me!!!
D x
Hi there,
I'd just like to thank everyone again for your replies, advice & PM's to my previous post regarding my first ever meet with a couple.
Followed your advice and it went really well. Met up in a bar close to where I live, had a chat over a drink, then went back to mine for a game of strip pontoon and some fun! Both parties were pretty nervous, but I settled down quicker than I thought I would (possibly thanks to the Barcardi!). I've heard from the couple since and, although acknowledging their nervousness, said they had a good time and would like to try it again sometime. Same thing with me, I feel a bit more confident should the situation ever come up again!
So, thanks again to you all, you really helped us both.
Keep having fun out there!
D x
Hi there,
thanks to everyone who has replied here (and PM'd me). It's a really helpful and friendly community you've got here - I think may have to make the effort (should I manage to pluck up the courage) and see if I can attend one of your munches and meet some of you in person?
Nothing happened this weekend but we are looking to have our first social meet this weekend - after that, who knows??????
Thanks again guys 'n' gals, you've been great!
D
Hi,
I'm a first time single guy who is about to meet with a first-time couple. As we're both new to this we would like to know the best and safest way to going about it.
My idea was to get to know each other via email first, then maybe a bar meet, then a neutral meet at a hotel, before deciding to go for home meets.
Can anyone advise us whether this is the best way. All advice is welcome!
Thanks
D