How come your advert is already asking for a guy? Please don't tell me you are advertising before your wife has agreed.
I would make it against the law to eat with your mouth open
It makes me anxious.
I tend to smile as a "yes I'm joining in the fun" gesture, but it makes me feel vulnerable, especially on way home from the industrial estate where I work, half mile of deserted road.
My sisters and I had a difficult childhood, and now we are grown up, we find it very hard to let any tears out. With me, it comes from a "everything is ok, whatever is happening" driver.
Reading this thread and writing my post, has made me quite emotional, strange, huh.
Ok - here's a suggestion - worked extremely well for me and an ex -
Start by telling him that there's something you want to share, something sexual about what happened previously. Judge his reaction, if it's positive, carry on - but make it up. Pretend you are writing erotic fiction, but WITHOUT any of the actual dirty words.
EG, you could say, "I had a plumber come to the house a few years ago, and I'd had a few wines, and I didnt realise my top buttons were undone..." etc. Keep it realistic-ish, to save u being embarrassed - but the point is, you are playing a role, recounting a tale so (I found, anyway) its so much easier than just coming out with some rude words in the height of passion!
Afterwards, you can always tell him that actually u made it up for his benefit. My ex always knew I made them up, but each time suspended his belief because he enjoyed the tales so much.
Good luck xxx
There's also a sort of mid-way feeling that you sometimes get, when you are aware that an "intimate friend" of yours is playing with someone else - you have no relationship as such with this person, (apart from being friends), and that suits both of you - but it still stings to know about it.
Or is that just me?
Goosey, what delectable buns you have!
11/10 :twisted:
