Outdoor fun... in January?? Blimey :shock: Brrr...
Wonder if anyone could sweet-talk a manufacturer into letting members have one for free, for publicity purposes... you know, the 'SH Seal of Approval'... on second thoughts, the dildo-buying public might get a very strange opinion of us all :P
It's an old wive's tale that a man who's good at shaking his bootie on the dancefloor is soneone who's going to give a lady a good time between the sheets... bearing in mind how crap most men are at dancing, is that true??
I think some of the regulars here are getting a little hung up about timewasting.
To a large extent, we have to take people at face value - I mean, does anyone insist on a doctor's certificate to say that someone new is fully healthy? - and be realistic that things don't always go according to plan.
For example, I met a couple just before Christmas socially. They were newbies, interested in a threesome. We got on well, with the verbal promise of fun and games in January. When I spoke to them last week, they had changed their minds - deal's off. They had wasted my time, true. Were they 'timewasters'? No, just human beings who - for whatever reason - had changed their minds. Humans are allowed to do that!
I've been a member of SH for a month now (although I've swung for much longer), adn this is far and away the most interesting thread I've seen - nice one, Fabio :thumbup:
From what I can gather, SH is suffering from a bout of indigestion - too many newbies all at once - and yes, I can see it's unsettling for the regulars. Who are all these people? :confused: :confused: :confused:
I know some regulars are afraid of undercover journalists. Well, there's sod all any of us can do about it, except that if you are a prominent figure in your own community, just stick with the 'tried and trusteds'. If you're nobody special (like moi), then no journalist will bother - it's not a story. I live not too far away from where the Radlett parties are held. Not too long ago, Richard and Janet, who host these parties, appeared on the front page of the local rag ( Local reaction? Zilch. It didn't even qualify as a nine day wonder...
Irishdazzler hit the nail right on the head. And the feeling of pride in 'owning' the woman other men are lusting after exists right through society. Unless you're chronically jealous, of courseyou want your wife to dress nicely and look good, so other men fancy her and envy you. We swingers just carry it to the next level.
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It was on another, similar website to this, that an unsolicited email of mine sparked a wonderful and very satisfying friendship. 
:D :D :D This friendship is still going strong, two years later.
Tu connais tu le veux! 
Because there is a distinct difference in Womens performance. What I ponder could be the tell tale for women's perfomance between the sheets? Or on the washing machine? :confused:
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: 
ops: both of you will have some wonderful experiences. :D :D 
